Hi Yes Cloth works the best for me to. But for travel I us disposables from XP MEDICAL and use booster pads thay sell and I don,t have any leak problem.plus I wear plastic pants over them.I,d really embarreset if I had a leak when staying at friends houses. I spend alot of time there.They know about my bedwetting problem and they understand.You can also get a big pad to lay on.You can get them at most drug stores.There very helpful to.Hope your Husband can find someting that works Ok for him assure him he,s not alone. Jimbob

Dave <davebw9876@...> wrote:

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "niuhuskie629" <niuhuskie629@y...>
wrote:
>
> Hello everyone,
> I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
> recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
> event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
> night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
> get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night.


I have found that tightness isn't as important as thickness. Do you
use disposables? try a Depends Booster pad in the middle to absorb
more... frankly, I've never had luck with disposables for my
bedwetting... I sleep on my side alot, and "male parts" move around,
causing leaks. I've been in cloth diapers and plastic pants for most
of my 14 years of bedwetting. Also, with cloth, you can make them as
thick as needed.