Hello everyone,
I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night. I have
been helping him put them on, which he says he appreciates, but he
cries every night when I put one on for him. (They have not leaked
since I've started doing this for him.) He is convinced I'm going to
leave him over this, and even though I've told him a thousand times
that I love him more than anything in the world and would never
leave him over something as trivial as this, he is still so insecure
about it. I need help - I just don't know what to do. Sometimes it
feels like holding him and telling him that I'll always love him no
matter what just doesn't seem to be enough. I'm really worried
about him. Hopefully someone here will be able to give me some
advice!