May i ask why you are fighting it and worring about it so much.
Wear diapers or a pad and i might want to choose some new friends if there
making fun of you.
But dont worry about it try and help your self as much as possible but dont
stress over it and there should be no reason you cant make freinds or hold
up a full time job i have pently of friends and hold a job and wear diapers.
Dont let this get you down every one has a medical problem at one time or
another.

Pawy

>
>Greetings,
>
>I come from a family that has a few incontinence issues: namely my
>mother, sister, and an uncle or two. Never had to wear diapers myself
>growing up, and nobody in my family ever did either, even though a
>few should perhaps be in them from time to time. Too much pride.
>
>With myself I started developing problems with prostatism, which
>makes it very difficult to void urine, always left in pain with a
>spasming bladder, at the age of 21. Sometimes I had to go to the
>washroom every 5 minutes or on the hour it would seem. Just to attend
>lectures and not sit on the toilet all day, I had to start wearing
>pads and diapers. I did this at first while complaining to my doctor
>at university, while not complaining to them directly about
>incontinence issues. We went through tests, ultrasounds, etcetera,
>and nothing could be done about it. I was offered surgery, but
>everyone including myself preferred to wait atleast a year to see how
>long it would last.
>
>Today, about 7 years later, I now have prostatism here and there, but
>it is often quite rare. But my bladder has suffered a lot over the
>years, and has developed some odd habits, wanting to void every hour
>or more - 8-30 times a day. So now I mostly have urge incontinence,
>needing to go to the washroom all of a sudden . . . That is my
>bladder can completely empty, but it needs to do so very often.
>
>I'm working on better habits to control my bladder. This can be
>difficult since I do a lot of construction work and am usually
>physically exhausted. But on the plus side, I ussually work outdoors,
>and can urinate almost anywhere like a barbarian, feeling free to
>pull my pants down and go almost anywhere.
>
>I still wear diapers though on occasion, like when I'm at home just
>to make life more convenient. Because I sometimes wet the bed now 1-2
>times a week, which I never did before. And I feel that I'd rather
>use them in public, like when out shopping and stuff, when I can't
>just pull my pants down and go. So in a lot of ways it is quite
>confining. Trying to balance this problem between my home life and
>work life can be difficult. But I do a lot of yoga in a studio, kegel
>exercises, etcetera, and this really has helped.
>
>Socially this problem, however, is quite aggravating. I've lived in
>Toronto, Ontario, for 4 years now, and have not made any friends. I
>just have 3 roomates who know I wear diapers and use the washroom a
>lot, and sometimes snicker politely behind my back. Nothing is ever
>said . . . Anyhow, I've learned how to be alone a lot, and to enjoy a
>lot of privacy. I've had to.
>
>Anyhow, would like to meet and talk with others who have the same
>issues.
>
>Sincerely,
>
>Matt G
>
>
>

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