I don't know the link to these pictures, but am going to find it. I
feel a connection with the woman, since I "rescued" a baby (a
week-old
Catalina macaw) and handfed her for six months, after I went through
treatments for cancer. I feel that caring for Footerbird saved my
life.
This is a lovely example of the animals showing us the power of Love and
Unity.
Love,
Jude
Subject: The Squirrell Story/MUST SEE PICS!
For about as long as she can remember, Debby Cantlon says, friends
and strangers have brought her animals in need. So it wasn't much of a
surprise when someone asked her if she'd care for a newborn squirrel
found at the base of a tree somewhere near Renton.
Debby Cantlon, who plans to release Finnegan, the young squirrel,
back into the wild, bottle-fed the infant squirrel after it was brought
to her house. Cantlon, who has cancer, says rescuing injured animals is
therapeutic for her.
When Cantlon took in the tiny creature and began caring for him,
she found herself with an unlikely nurse's aide: her pregnant Papillon,
Mademoiselle Giselle.
Finnegan was resting in a nest in a cage just days before Giselle
was due to deliver her puppies.
Cantlon and her husband watched as the dog dragged the squirrel's
cage twice to her own bedside before she gave birth.
Cantlon was concerned, yet ultimately decided to allow the squirrel
out and the inter-species bonding began.
Finnegan rides a puppy mosh pit of sorts, burrowing in for warmth
after feeding, and eventually working his way beneath his new litter
mates.
Two days after giving birth, mama dog Giselle allowed Finnegan to
nurse; family photos and a videotape show her encouraging him to suckle
alongside her litter of five pups.
Now, Finnegan mostly uses a bottle, but still snuggles with his
"siblings" in a mosh pit of puppies, rolling atop their bodies
and sinking in deeply for a nap.
Finnegan and his new litter mates, five Papillion puppies, get
along together as if they were meant to.
Finnegan naps after feeding.
Finnegan makes himself at home with his new litter mates, nuzzling
nose-to-nose for a nap after feeding.
This one struck me as I've bene thinking about "time" a lot
lately. Thank you all for being my friends. This is a new email
address; it's good to be back online after almost three months.
With Much Love,
Jude
p.s. Thanks Pam for sending this in to the Happiest People Alive
group. You're the cat's pajamas!
A Thousand Marbles
The older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday mornings. Perhaps it's the
quiet solitude that comes with being the first to rise, or maybe it's
the unbounded joy of not having to be at work. Either way, the first
few hours of a Saturday morning are most enjoyable.
A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the basement ham-shack with a
steaming cup of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in the other.
What began as a typical Saturday morning turned into one of those
lessons that life seems to hand you from time to time. Let me tell
you about it:
I turned the dial up into the phone portion of the band on my ham
radio in order to listen to a Saturday morning swap net. Along the way, I
came across an older sounding chap, with a tremendous signal and a
golden voice. You know the kind; he sounded like he should be in the
broadcasting business. He was telling whom-ever he was talking with something
about "a thousand marbles." I was intrigued and stopped to listen to what
he had to say.
"Well, Tom, it sure sounds like you're busy with your job. I'm sure
they pay you well but it's a shame you have to be away from home and
your family so much. Hard to believe a young fellow should have to
work sixty or seventy hours a week to make ends meet. It's too bad you
missed your daughter's "dance recital" he continued. "Let me tell you
something that has helped me keep my own priorities."
And that's when he began to explain his theory of a "thousand
marbles."
You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The average
person lives about seventy-five years. I know, some live more and some
live less, but on average, folks live about seventy-five years.
"Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3900, which is
the number of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire
lifetime. Now, stick with me, Tom, I'm getting to the important part.
It took me until I was fifty-five years old to think about all this in
any detail", he went on, "and by that time I had lived through over
twenty-eight hundred Saturdays." "I got to thinking that if I lived to
be seventy-five, I only had about a thousand of them left to enjoy.
So I went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had. I
ended up having to visit three toy stores to round up 1000 marbles. I took
them home and put them inside a large, clear plastic container right
here in the shack next to my gear."
"Every Saturday since then, I have taken one marble out and thrownit
away. I found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more on
the really important things in life. There is nothing like watching
your time here on this earth run out to help get your priorities
straight."
"Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign-off with you and
take my lovely wife out for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last
marble out of the container. I figure that if I make it until next
Saturday then I have been given a little extra time. And the one thing
we can all use is a little more time."
"It was nice to meet you Tom, I hope you spend more time with your
family, and I hope to meet you again here on the band. This is a 75
Year old Man, K9NZQ, clear and going QRT, good morning!"
You could have heard a pin drop on the band when this fellow signed
off. I guess he gave us all a lot to think about. I had planned to work on
the antenna that morning, and then I was going to meet up with a few
hams to work on the next club newsletter.
Instead, I went upstairs and woke my wife up with a kiss. "C'mon
honey,
I'm taking you and the kids to breakfast." "What brought this on?"
she asked with a smile. "Oh, nothing special, it's just been a long time
since we spent a Saturday together with the kids. And hey, can we
stop at a toy store
while we're out? I need to buy some marbles...
A friend sent this to me, so I to you, my friend.
And so, as one smart bear once said..."If you live to be a hundred, I
want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live
without you." - Winnie the Pooh.
Pass this on to all of your FRIENDS, even if it means sending it to
the person that sent it to you.
And if you receive this e-mail many times from many different people,
it only means that you have many FRIENDS.
And if you get it but once, do not be discouraged for you will know
that you have at least one good friend...
And that would be ME
~Author Unknown to me
There's only one corner of the universe you
can be certain of improving, and that's your own self. So you have to
begin there, not outside, not on other people. That comes afterwards,
when you've worked on your own corner.
--Aldous Huxley
Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart was a
brilliant man born with a God-given talent. He was composing at age five
and performing before royalty by the time he was six years old. Early on,
Mozart realized what his talents were, practiced and honed what he was
born to do and used his natural abilities to create amazing pieces of
music.
Mozart was not the first to be born with natural talents and he wasn't
the last. We all have them - all of us. We only need to discover what
they are and use them to the best of our abilities. You have been given
amazing gifts that are meant to be shared with the world. Your job is to
find out what those talents are and master them. When you focus most of
your time and energy on your natural talents, you will find that you reap
phenomenal rewards.
Celebrating our natural talents should be an easy task. But for many
people it's emotionally exhausting. Why? Because a lot of folks fight
their natural talents for one reason or another. Perhaps their parents
wouldn't approve of their artistic ability to paint or sculpt, because
they want them to be a successful doctor or lawyer. Maybe someone's gift
wouldn't seem to have the ability to bring the kind of wealth they
desire. Sometimes people are simply afraid to pursue something that seems
to come so easily to them - shouldn't success be difficult? No, it
shouldn't and it isn't.
These are all excuses. And all the excuses in the world won't destroy
talent. It will be there, waiting for us to fight through fear and
"what ifs" until we realize what we should have been doing our
entire lives. We have been given natural talents for a reason - to use
them to the betterment of the planet and those who inhabit it.
Have you ever noticed that when you engage in an activity in which you
are naturally talented, you feel energized, excited and optimistic?
That's a sign that these are the things you should be focusing upon. For
example, when I stand in front of an auditorium filled with thousands of
people, and speak to them about fulfilling their dreams, my body is
filled with energy - so much that I'm practically buzzing all over. I'm
so excited I can hardly stand still.
Your job is to find out what makes you buzz and begin to perfect it.
Discover your brilliance in life and practice, practice, practice. You
must hone your natural abilities to perfect them - concentrate on your
strengths, not your weaknesses. Look at the world's greatest athletes.
They practice what they're naturally good at - and what they love to do -
every day. You don't see Michael Jordan sitting around trying to decipher
a strand of DNA. If that was something he was talented at that's what he
would be doing. But it's not. He's a brilliant athlete and businessman.
He sticks to what he does best and has reaped astounding rewards because
of it.
There are only two steps to success - discover your brilliance and
perfect it. Doing this will allow you to receive the wealth you truly
deserve.
'The only waste of human resources is letting them go unused.'
Mark Victor Hansen
Mark Victor Hansen, co-author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul Series,
has for more than 25 years, uniquely focused on the vital elements of
human behavior that most affect our personal and professional lives and
has influenced society's top leaders and the general public on a global
scale. http://mvh.jimrohn.com or call
800-929-0434.
Good Karma...read to yourself quietly
and send it on its way.
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yourself quietly and send it on its way.
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Emily and I met in our first semester of
college and dated for almost six years. Regardless of how crafty and
intuitive my ideas, I was never able to surprise her with anything. Emily
was investigative and I was naive - not a good combination for a
surprise. Leave it to me to accidentally leave behind a receipt or just
happen to be checking voicemail on a speakerphone when the restaurant or
florist would call to confirm.
Time after time, I tried to surprise her.
Time after time, I failed.
When I began to think about a long-overdue proposal, I wanted nothing
more than to surprise her. So I embarked upon a personal journey to find
a unique and special way to pop the question.
After much thought - and some interesting suggestions from friends and
coworkers - I decided to incorporate two of Emily's loves: reading (her
graduate-school pursuit) and pigs (her favorite animal since childhood)
into a storybook proposal. My dream was to create and publish a
children's book in which two little pigs, Emmy and Matty, would parallel
the story of Emily and me.
I was working in public relations for a school district. I asked an art
teacher if she knew any students skilled in cartoon illustration. Without
hesitation she put me in touch with Jeremy, a tenth-grader who excitedly
showed me his portfolio. I hired him on the spot. Page by page, I sent
the manuscript to Jeremy for custom drawings. And I began to
write.
I wrote about two little pigs that meet in a college computer lab, just
like Emily and I. My story detailed Emmy and Matty's journey through the
years. On page eight, the two little pigs find themselves in front of a
sunset.
"One fall evening, Matty had an important question for Emmy,"
the page read. The proposal page followed.
Upon completion of the illustrations, text and layout of the story, my
creation was ready to be printed. It came back in the form of a real
book, hardbound. I had done it. I successfully produced the entire book
in complete secrecy. After all these years, I would surprise
Emily.
On a random Thursday, I told Emily I had found a couple of cute
children's books on sale for her collection. Naturally she wanted to take
a look, so the first one I gave her was The Story of the Two Little
Pigs.
As she read the first couple of pages, she started to catch on that I had
written a book for her, but had no I idea it would change both of our
lives forever.
As she approached the proposal page, I asked her to stand up. I bent down
on one knee as I watched her eyes follow the words on the paper that
simply said, "Emily Suzanne . . . Will You Marry Me?" She was
speechless as she looked up and saw me with a ring in my hand.
Stunned, she closed the book and gave me a big hug. "Yes, yes and
yes! Of course. I love you!"
We hugged for a couple of minutes and I wiped the tears from her eyes. I
urged her to turn to the last page of her storybook proposal - an
illustration of pigs dressed in wedding gown and tuxedo.
It read, in appropriate storybook fashion: "Emmy and Matty lived
happily ever after."
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A Thought for the Day From Sri Eknath Easwaran
----------------------------------------------
My life is an indivisible whole, and all my attitudes run into
one another; and they all have their rise in my insatiable love
for mankind. -- Mahatma Gandhi
We should be able to make all sorts
of graceful concessions on things that do not matter in life
and yet stand unshakable on essentials. To do this, we have to
be detached from our opinions. I'm not recommending that we be
wishy-washy, or lack strength in our convictions, but that we
cultivate the forbearance not to force our opinions on others.
When we have strength of conviction we will not get rattled when
people question or contradict us. Mahatma Gandhi, for example, was
not in favor of tea or coffee, but he took joy in making a cup of
tea for his wife each morning just the way she liked it. This is
bending gracefully on nonessentials. When it came to essentials,
however, Gandhi was unshakable. His dedication to nonviolence was
so absolute that he would abruptly call off a successful nationwide
program of noncooperation with the British if he heard any reports
of violence committed by his countrymen, even those who did not
acknowledge him as their leader.
-----
From Eknath Easwaran, "Words to Live By" (Nilgiri Press, 1997)
http://www.nilgiri.org/Html/Thoughts/today.html
Hi Everyone,
I'll be away from my home computer until March 6th, so will be going to "no
email" status to keep incoming emails at a minimum. Please feel free to
email me privately at spirit@... if you want to get in touch, while
I'm in Palm Springs, CA.
With Love,
Jude
(White-Bear)
~~~
Judith Leah 'White-Bear' Correll
Earth Walk Fellowship, Animal Psychic Team
http://www.AnimalHealer.orgspirit@...
~~~
Yahoo Msgr: "whitebearsinging"
AOL IM: "akwhitebear"
MSN Msgr: "akwhitebear"
~~~
Let everything you do be your expression of Spirit,
and everything you say be your prayer ~Anon.
~~~
Still I Rise
You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I'll rise.
Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
'Cause I walk like I've got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.
Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I'll rise.
Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops.
Weakened by my soulful cries.
Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don't you take it awful hard
'Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines
Diggin' in my own back yard.
You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.
Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I've got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?
Out of the huts of history's shame
I rise
Up from a past that's rooted in pain
I rise
I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.
Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that's wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.
~Maya Angelou
>Date: Wed, 11 Feb 2004 17:56:41 -0500
>From: The Daily Guru <TheDailyGuru@...>
>
>Thursday, February 12, 2004
>
>The mind brings all kinds of miseries. The first: the mind is never in the
>present, it goes on missing the present. And only the present is! The mind
>is always in the past -- always and always in the past. Or always in the
>future -- always and always in the future. The mind goes on jumping from
>the past to the future, from the future to the past. It never stays here,
>now. The mind is like the pendulum of a clock -- it goes on moving from
>one polarity to another polarity but never stays in the middle.
>
>One has to get out of this trap of the past and the future -- because the
>door opens in the present; the door opens at this moment, either now or
>never. And the door is open, but our eyes are wavering. We look into the
>past, we look into the future -- and the present is very, very small
>between these two, and we go on missing it.
>
>Unless you drop the mind you can never be in tune with existence, you
>cannot pulsate with the pulse of the universe. If you don't drop the mind
>you go on living in a private world of your own creation; you don't live
>in the real world.
>
>
>
> THE DAILY GURU
>
>
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It is something to be able to paint a particular picture, or to carve a
statue, and so to make a few objects beautiful; but it is far more
glorious
to carve and paint the very atmosphere and medium through which we look.
To affect the quality of the day--that is the highest of arts.
-Henry David Thoreau
Aim at the sun and you may not reach it;
but your arrow will fly far higher than if aimed
at an object on a level with yourself.
-J. Hawkes
-------------------------------------------------
Affirmation
As I paint the pictures within my mind of that for which I wish to
see in my life and in the world, I set my goals realistically, so that
attainment is possible.
-------------------------------------------------
Nature Scene Meditation
Find a place and time where you can close your eyes for a few minutes and
be at peace. Turn your attention inward and notice the sensations of your
body. Note the rhythm of your breathing. Note the tension in your
muscles. Let go of the tension. Let your breathing relax into its natural
pattern.
In your mind's eye imagine that you are in a beautiful place in nature.
Make it a place where you can hear the sound of water. It may be at the
ocean or in a forest, in the mountains or some other place where you can
feel close to nature away from your everyday cares. Somehow it is only a
short walk from where you are now to this scene in nature.
Use all of your senses as you imagine yourself in this place. Listen to
the sound of the water. Hear it in your mind and let its rhythm caress
you. Perhaps you can hear the sound of birds as well. Listen to their
call.
Feel a comfortable breeze on your skin. The air moves just enough to give
your body a sense of itself in this place. The air is clean and
comforting.
Feel the sun upon your body as well. The warm sun and the comfortable
breeze keep you at just the right temperature.
Smell the scents of the earth. Maybe there are wildflowers or blossoming
trees.
Look around you. Notice the lovely colors of this wonderful place. See
the plants growing here. See the play of light upon the water.
Now that you have a sense of this place, sit or lie down on the warm dry
earth. Just relax there. Take your time.
Know that this is your place. Allow it to be your refuge. No one can come
here except at your bidding. But in your mind, anyone you like can join
you here any time you wish. This is a place for you to get a way from
worries. It is a place where your mind can be free and at rest. This is
your retreat. You can come here whenever you want to leave your cares
behind. It is a place for you to come back to yourself, to be who you
really are. It is a place to be in touch with the earth.
Subject: The Heart
> "Tomorrow morning," the surgeon began,
>
> "I'll open up your heart..."
>
>
>
> "You'll find Jesus there," the boy interrupted.
>
>
>
> The surgeon looked up, annoyed "I'll
>
> cut your heart open," he continued,
>
> to see how much damage has been done..."
>
>
>
> "But when you open up my heart, you'll
>
> find Jesus in there," said the boy.
>
>
>
> The surgeon looked to the parents, who
>
> Sat quietly. "When I see how much
>
> damage has been done, I'll sew your
>
> heart and chest back up, and I'll plan
>
> what to do next."
>
>
>
> "But you'll find Jesus in my heart. The
>
> Bible says He lives there. The
>
> hymns all say He lives there. You'll
>
> find Him in my heart."
>
>
>
> The surgeon had had enough. "I'll tell
>
> you what I'll find in your heart.
>
> I'll find damaged muscle, low blood
>
> supply, and weakened vessels.
>
> And I'll find out if I can make you well."
>
>
>
> "You'll find Jesus there too. He lives there."
>
>
>
> The surgeon left.
>
>
>
> The surgeon sat in his office, recording his
>
> notes from the surgery, "...damaged aorta, damaged
>
> pulmonary vein, widespread muscle degeneration.
>
> No hope for transplant, no hope for cure. Therapy:
>
> painkillers and bed rest. Prognosis:, "
>
> here he paused, "death within one year."
>
>
>
> He stopped the recorder, but there was
>
> more to be said. "Why?" he asked aloud.
>
> "Why did You do this? You've put
>
> him here; You've put him in this pain; and
>
> You've cursed him to an early death. Why?"
>
>
>
> The Lord answered and said, "The boy,
>
> My lamb, was not meant for your
>
> flock for long, for he is a part of My
>
> flock, and will forever be.
>
> Here, in My flock, he will feel no pain, and
>
> will be comforted as you cannot imagine.
>
> His parents will one day join him here,
>
> and they will know peace, and
>
> My flock will continue to grow."
>
>
>
> The surgeon's tears were hot, but his
>
> anger was hotter. "You created that
>
> boy, and You created that heart. He'll
>
> be dead in months. Why?"
>
>
>
> The Lord answered, "The boy, My lamb,
>
> shall return to My flock, for He has
>
> Done his duty: I did not put My lamb
>
> with your flock to lose him, but to retrieve another
>
> lost lamb."
>
>
>
> The surgeon wept.. The surgeon sat
>
> beside the boy's bed; the boy's
>
> parents sat across from him. The boy awoke and
>
> whispered, "Did you cut open my heart?"
>
>
>
> "Yes," said the surgeon.
>
>
>
> "What did you find?" asked the boy.
>
>
>
> "I found Jesus there," said the surgeon.
>
>
>
> ~ Author Unknown
I have a few issues I'd like to bring to your attention:
· When I say to move, it means
go some place else, not switch
positions with each other so there are still two of you in the
way.
· The dishes with the paw print
are yours and contain your food. The
other dishes are mine and contain my food. Please note, placing a paw
print
in the middle of my plate and food does not stake a claim for it
becoming
your food and dish, nor do I find that aesthetically pleasing in the
slightest.
· The stairway was not designed
by NASCAR and is not a racetrack.
Beating me to the bottom is not the object. Tripping me doesn't
help,
because I fall faster than you can run.
· I cannot buy anything bigger
than a king size bed. I am very sorry
about this. Do not think I will continue to sleep on the couch to
ensure
your comfort. Look at videos of dogs and cats sleeping, they can
actually
curl up in a ball. It is not necessary to sleep perpendicular to each
other
stretched out to the fullest extent possible. I also know that
sticking
tails straight out and having tongues hanging out the other end to
maximize
space used is nothing but sarcasm.
· My compact discs are not
miniature Frisbees.
· For the last time, there is
not a secret exit from the bathroom.
If by some miracle I beat you there and manage to get the door shut, it
is
not necessary to claw, whine, try to turn the knob, or get your paw
under
the edge and try to pull the door open. I must exit through the same door
I
entered. In addition, I have been using bathrooms for years; canine
and
feline attendance is not mandatory.
· The proper order is kiss me,
then go smell the other animals'
butts. I cannot stress this enough. It would be such a simple change
for
you.
· To pacify you I have posted
the following message on our front
door:
Rules for Non-Pet Owners Who Visit and Like to Complain about Our
Pets:
1. They live here. You don't.
2. If you don't want their hair on your
clothes, stay off the
furniture.
3. I like my pet a lot better than I like
most people.
4. To you, it's an animal. To me, he/she is
an adopted son/daughter who
is short, hairy, walks on all fours and doesn't speak clearly.
5. Dogs and cats are better than kids. They
eat less, don't ask for
money all the time, are easier to train, usually come when called,
never
drive your car, don't hang out with drug-using friends, don't smoke
or
drink, don't worry about buying the latest fashions, don't wear your
clothes, don't need a gazillion dollars for college, and if they get
pregnant, you can sell the results.
One snowy morning, a few weeks before Christmas, Mr. Floogle's
doorbell rang. It was the mail carrier. He had a big orange cat in his
arms. "Is this your cat?" asked the mail carrier."I found
it in your mailbox." "No," said Mr. Floogle," I live
alone. And, furthermore, I don't like cats." "Meow," said
the cat, looking cold and sad. "I can't keep it," said the mail
carrier. "Oh, bother ," said Mr. Floogle. Then he looked at the
cat. "Meow," said the cat, looking back with big yellow eyes.
"Well, I guess I can keep it for today," said Mr. Floogle,
"but tomorrow it must go."
Mr. Floogle took the cat in and gave it a saucer of milk. Then he
went about his chores. "Meow," said the cat as Mr. Floogle
washed the dishes. "It's no use trying to talk to me," said Mr.
Floogle. "I don't like cats." So the cat kept quiet and just
watched. Mr. Floogle whistled while he washed the dishes. "That's
funny," he said to himself," I haven't whistled in years."
The day passed, and it was time to go to bed. The cat curled up beside
Mr. Floogle and said "Meow ." "It's no use trying to talk
to me,"said Mr. Floogle. "I don't like cats." So the cat
just lay there, purring gently. The purring put Mr. Floogle to sleep as
soon as he closed his eyes.
The next morning Mr. Floogle took the cat out in his car and drove to
a dairy farm nearby. "This is where I will leave you. You'll like it
here," Mr. Floogle said. "I just don't like cats," Mr.
Floogle said to himself as he drove away. Mr. Floogle went to bed that
night and said, That's that!"
But the next morning, very early, the doorbell rang. It was the dairy
farmer. He had a big orange cat in his arms. "Is this your
cat?" asked the dairy farmer. "I found it in one of my empty
milk cans." "No," said Mr. Floogle, who was surprised to
see the cat again. "I don't like cats." "Meow," said
the cat, looking hopeful. "I can't keep it," said the dairy
farmer. "Oh, bother," said Mr. Floogle. Then he looked at the
cat. The cat looked back and purred. "Well, I suppose I can keep it
for today," said Mr. Floogle with a sigh, "but tomorrow it must
go."
Mr. Floogle took the cat in and gave it a scrambled egg for
breakfast. Then he went to sit in his chair. "Meow," said the
cat as it played with Mr. Floogle's robe. "It's no use trying to
play with me," said Mr. Floogle. "I just don't like cats. So
the cat just played with a piece of paper as Mr. Floogle watched.
"Silly cat," he said to himself.
The next day Mr. Floogle took the cat out in the car again. "I
will take you far away this time so that you won't come back," he
said. Mr. Floogle drove and drove until he came to a flying school. There
were several other cats around. "You'll have plenty of company
here," said Mr. Floogle. "Meow, said the cat. "No, you
can't stay with me," answered Mr. Floogle." I told you, I don't
like cats." Mr. Floogle left the cat at the flying school and drove
home again. "That's that!" he said.
The next morning, while Mr. Floogle was working on his house, someone
jumped right onto his roof! It was a sky diver. She had a big orange cat
in her arms. "Is this your cat?" asked the sky diver. "It
jumped right out of the plane with me as we flew over your house."
"No," said Mr. Floogle, rolling his eyes. "It's not my
cat, it never was my cat, and I don't want it to be my cat!"
"Well, I can't keep it," said the sky diver. "And anyway,
it seems to like you." Oh, bother," Mr. Floogle said with a
sigh. "Well, I guess I'll have to keep you for today," he said,
"but tomorrow you must go for good!" Mr. Floogle went back to
his work. "Meow," said the cat as it lay in the sun. "Oh,
really?" said Mr. Floogle."Well, I didn't miss you."
"Meow," said the cat softly. "Stuff and nonsense,"
said Mr. Floogle.
The next morning Mr. Floogle looked at the cat and said "I
really must get rid of you today. You know I don't like cats." He
thought and thought about what to do. All of a sudden Mr. Floogle had the
best idea of all! "Since you were found in my mailbox," he
said, "I will let the post office take care of it!" That very
same day Mr. Floogle took the cat to the post office. "I want to
mail this cat somewhere far, far away," he said to the postal clerk.
"How about the North Pole?" said the postal clerk. "That's
far, far away and we have a nice warm post office there." Mr.
Floogle looked down at the cat. The cat reached up and licked his face.
"Stuff and nonsense," said Mr. Floogle as he wiped off the
kiss. Then, without knowing why, he suddenly asked, "Will they take
good care of it at the North Pole Post Office?" "Of
course," answered the postal clerk, looking offended. "We
always take good care of the mail, especially at Christmastime!"
And, without another word, he took the cat into the package room.
The next day the cat did not come back. It did not come back the day
after, or the day after that. "Well, I guess that's that!" said
Mr. Floogle as he washed the dishes. He tried to whistle, but nothing
came out. More days passed, and still the cat did not come
back."Well," said Mr. Floogle, a little quietly, "I guess
that's that." He climbed into bed, but for some reason he couldn't
fall asleep. "Stuff and nonsense," he murmured. "I'm just
not tired."
Now, it just so happened that the next day was Christmas Eve. Mr.
Floogle watched from his window as people hurried to and fro, their arms
filled with presents. "Stuff and nonsense, he sniffed. Mr. Floogle
didn't have any friends, so he never expected any presents for Christmas.
Just then, for no good reason, he thought of the cat. "I wonder what
that silly cat is doing now." he mused as he sat in his chair.
"It's a good thing I don't like cats," he said to himself,
"or I might miss it."
Just before midnight Mr. Floogle went to bed. But when he got under
the covers he couldn't get to sleep. When he finally did go to sleep, he
started to dream. He dreamed he was doing his chores and the cat was
watching him. He dreamed that he was sitting in his chair and the cat was
playing with his robe. He dreamed that he was in bed and the cat was
purring beside him. He smiled to himself and reached over to pet it. Then
he woke up and remembered that the cat was gone. All of a sudden he felt
very sad and lonely. "Stuff and nonsense," he whispered as he
laid his head upon his pillow. "I don't even like cats."
Just then someone rang his doorbell. He ran down to answer it. It was
Santa Claus! He had a big orange cat in his arms. "Is this your
cat?" asked Santa. "I found it hiding in my sled at the North
Pole." Mr. Floogle had been so used to saying no that he almost said
it again. But suddenly he cried, "Yes! yes! It is my cat!"
"Meow," said the cat. "I'm glad you're back, too,"
said Mr. Floogle, stroking the cat's soft fur. Then Mr. Floogle turned to
Santa. "But how did you know it was my cat?" he asked. Instead
of answering, Santa just gave Mr. Floogle a wink and a nod and hopped
into his sled. Mr. Floogle waved good-bye as Santa's sled disappeared
over the treetops. "Meow," said the cat. "I missed you,
too," said Mr. Floogle. "Meow," said the cat. "Merry
Christmas to you, too," answered Mr. Floogle as he gave his cat a
big hug. "You're the best Christmas present I could ever
get."
Send kindness
+++++++++++++++++++
Send a little kindness out into the world today. And it
will grow. The kindness you give never goes away. The more
you give, the more you have.
Genuine kindness is one of the best investments you can make.
For your return on the investment of kindness has no limit.
Even when it seems that others don't appreciate the kindness
you offer, it has much value. Though it may not be noticed at
first, true kindness cannot continue to be ignored for long.
In kindness, there is a power, a level of confidence and self
assurance that is difficult to deny. Even when all else has
failed, kindness can make a difference precisely because it
speaks with such strength.
Send a little kindness out into the world today. And you'll
create real value that cannot be denied.
Ralph Marston
http://www.greatday.com/motivate/
> A Christmas Story
>
> Pa never had much compassion for the lazy or those
> who squandered their means
> and then never had enough for the necessities. But
> for those who were
> genuinely in need, his heart was as big as all
> outdoors. It was from him that I
> learned the greatest joy in life comes from giving,
> not from receiving.
>
> It was Christmas Eve 1881. I was fifteen years old
> and feeling like the world
> had caved in on me because there just hadn't been
> enough money to buy me the
> rifle that I'd wanted for Christmas. We did the
> chores early that night for
> some reason. I just figured Pa wanted a little extra
> time so we could read in
> the Bible.
>
> After supper was over I took my boots off and
> stretched out in front of the
> fireplace and waited for Pa to get down the old
> Bible. I was still feeling
> sorry for myself and, to be honest, I wasn't in much
> of a mood to read Scriptures.
> But Pa didn't get the Bible, instead he bundled up
> again and went outside. I
> couldn't figure it out because we had already done
> all the chores. I didn't
> worry about it long though, I was too busy wallowing
> in self-pity.
>
>
>
>
> Soon Pa came back in. It was a cold clear night out
> and there was ice in his
> beard. "Come on, Matt," he said. "Bundle up good,
> it's cold out tonight." I
> was really upset then. Not only wasn't I getting the
> rifle for Christmas, now Pa
> was dragging me out in the cold, and for no earthly
> reason that I could see.
> We'd already done all the chores, and I couldn't
> thnk of anything else that
> needed doing, especially not on a night like this
>
>
>
>
> But I knew Pa was not very patient at one dragging
> one's feet when he'd told
> them to do something, so I got up and put my boots
> back on and got my cap,
> coat, and mittens. Ma gave me a mysterious smile as
> I opened the door to leave
> the house. Something was up, but I didn't know what.
>
>
> Outside, I became even more dismayed. There in front
> of the house was the
> work team, already hitched to the big sled. Whatever
> it was we were going to do
> wasn't going to be a short, quick, little job. I
> could tell. We never hitched
> up this sled unless we were going to haul a big
> load.
>
> Pa was already up on the seat, reins in hand. I
> reluctantly climbed up beside
> him. The cold was already biting at me. I wasn't
> happy. When I was on, Pa
> pulled the sled around the house and stopped in
> front of the woodshed. He got off
> and I followed. "I think we'll put on the high
> sideboards," he said. "Here,
> help me." The high sideboards! It had been a bigger
> job than I wanted to do
> with just the low sideboards on, but whatever it was
> we were going to do would be
> a lot bigger with the high sideboards on.
>
> After we had exchanged the sideboards, Pa went into
> the woodshed and came out
> with an armload of wood---the wood I'd spent all
> summer hauling down from the
> mountain, and then all Fall sawing into blocks and
> splitting. What was he
> doing? Finally I said something. "Pa," I asked,
> "what are you doing?" You been by
> the Widow Jensen's lately?" he asked. The Widow
> Jensen lived about two miles
> down the road. Her husband had died a year or so
> before and left her with
> three children, the oldest being eight. Sure, I'd
> been by, but so what? "Yeah," I
> said, "Why?" "I rode by just today," Pa said.
> "Little Jakey was out digging
> around in the woodpile trying to find a few chips.
> They're out of wood, Matt."
>
> That was all he said and then he turned and went
> back into the woodshed for
> another armload of wood. I followed him. We loaded
> the sled so high that I
> began to wonder if the horses would be able to pull
> it. Finally, Pa called a halt
> to our loading, then we went to the smoke house and
> Pa took down a big ham and
> a side of bacon. He handed them to me and told me to
> put them in the sled and
> wait.
>
> When he returned he was carrying a sack of flour
> over his right shoulder and
> a smaller sack of something in his left hand.
> "What's in the little sack?" I
> asked. "Shoes. They're out of shoes. Little Jakey
> just had gunny sacks wrapped
> around his feet when he was out in the woodpile this
> morning. I got the
> children a little candy too. It just wouldn't be
> Christmas without a little candy."
>
> We rode the two miles to Widow Jensen's pretty much
> in silence. I tried to
> think through what Pa was doing. We didn't have much
> by worldly standards. Of
> course, we did have a big woodpile, though most of
> what was left now was still
> in the form of logs that I would have to saw into
> blocks and split before we
> could use it. We also had meat and flour, so we
> could spare that, but I knew we
> didn't have any money, so why was Pa buying them
> shoes and candy?
>
> Really, why was he doing any of this? Widow Jensen
> had closer neighbors than
> us; it shouldn't have been our concern. We came in
> from the blind side of the
> Jensen house and unloaded the wood as quietly as
> possible, then we took the
> meat and flour and shoes to the door. We knocked.
> The door opened a crack and a
> timid voice said, "Who is it?" "Lucas Miles, Ma'am,
> and my son, Matt. Could we
> come in for a bit?"
>
> Widow Jensen opened the door and let us in. She had
> a blanket wrapped around
> her shoulders. The children were wrapped in another
> and were sitting in front
> of the fireplace by a very small fire that hardly
> gave off any heat at all.
> Widow Jensen fumbled with a match and finally lit
> the lamp. "We brought you a
> few things, Ma'am," Pa said and set down the sack of
> flour. I put the meat on
> the table. Then Pa handed her the sack that had the
> shoes in it.
>
> She opened it hesitantly and took the shoes out one
> pair at a time. There was
> a pair for her and one for each of the
> children---sturdy shoes, the best,
> shoes that would last. I watched her carefully. She
> bit her lower lip to keep it
> from trembling and then tears filled her eyes and
> started running down her
> cheeks. She looked up at Pa like she wanted to say
> something, but it wouldn't
> come out.
>
> "We brought a load of wood too, Ma'am," Pa said. He
> turned to me and said,
> "Matt, go bring in enough to last awhile. Let's get
> that fire up to size and
> heat this place up." I wasn't the same person when I
> went back out to bring in
> the wood. I had a big lump in my throat and as much
> as I hate to admit it, there
> were tears in my eyes too.
>
> In my mind I kept seeing those three kids huddled
> around the fireplace and
> their mother standing there with tears running down
> her cheeks with so much
> gratitude in her heart that she couldn't speak. My
> heart swelled within me and a
> joy that I'd never known before, filled my soul. I
> had given at Christmas many
> times before, but never when it had made so much
> difference. I could see we we
> re literally saving the lives of these people.
>
> I soon had the fire blazing and everyone's spirits
> soared. The kids started
> giggling when Pa handed them each a piece of candy
> and Widow Jensen looked on
> with a smile that probably hadn't crossed her face
> for a long time. She finally
> turned to us. "God bless you," she said. "I know the
> Lord has sent you. The
> children and I have been praying that he would send
> one of his angels to spare
> us."
>
> In spite of myself, the lump returned to my throat
> and the tears welled up in
> my eyes again. I'd never thought of Pa in those
> exact terms before, but after
> Widow Jensen mentioned it I could see that it was
> probably true. I was sure
> that a better man than Pa had never walked the
> earth. I started remembering all
> the times he had gone out of his way for Ma and me,
> and many others. The list
> seemed endless as I thought on it.
>
> Pa insisted that everyone try on the shoes before we
> left. I was amazed when
> they all fit and I wondered how he had known what
> sizes to get. Then I guessed
> that if he was on an errand for the Lord that the
> Lord would make sure he got
> the right sizes.
>
> Tears were running down Widow Jensen's face again
> when we stood up to
> leave.Pa took each of the kids in his big arms and
> gave them a hug. They clung to him
> and didn't want us to go. I could see that they
> missed their Pa, and I was
> glad that I still had mine.
>
> At the door Pa turned to Widow Jensen and said, "The
> Mrs. wanted me to invite
> you and the children over for Christmas dinner
> tomorrow. The turkey will be
> more than the three of us can eat, and a man can get
> cantankerous if he has to
> eat turkey for too many meals. We'll be by to get
> you about eleven. It'll be
> nice to have some little ones around again. Matt,
> here, hasn't been little for
> quite a spell." I was the youngest. My two brothers
> and two sisters had all
> married and had moved away. Widow Jensen nodded and
> said, "Thank you, Brother
> Miles. I don't have to say, "'May the Lord bless
> you,' I know for certain that
> He will."
>
> Out on the sled I felt a warmth that came from deep
> within and I didn't even
> notice the cold. When we had gone a ways, Pa turned
> to me and said, "Matt, I
> want you to know something. Your ma and me have been
> tucking a little money
> away here and there all year so we could buy that
> rifle for you, but we didn't
> have quite enough.
>
> Then yesterday a man who owed me a little money from
> years back came by to
> make things square. Your ma and me were real
> excited, thinking that now we could
> get you that rifle, and I started into town this
> morning to do just that. But
> on the way I saw little Jakey out scratching in the
> woodpile with his feet
> wrapped in those gunny sacks and I knew what I had
> to do. Son, I spent the money
> for shoes and a little candy for those children. I
> hope you understand."
>
> I understood, and my eyes became wet with tears
> again. I understood very
> well, and I was so glad Pa had done it. Now the
> rifle seemed very low on my list
> of priorities. Pa had given me a lot more. He had
> given me the look on Widow
> Jensen's face and the radiant smiles of her three
> children.
>
> For the rest of my life, Whenever I saw any of the
> Jensens, or split a block
> of wood, I remembered, and remembering brought back
> that same joy I felt
> riding home beside Pa that night. Pa had given me
> much more than a rifle that
> night, he had given me the best Christmas of my
> life.
~Author Unknown to me
Merry Christmas to all of you!
With Love,
Jude (White-Bear)
Older Woman: I'd give it
to you but I don't have one.
Officer: Don't have
one?
Older Woman: Lost it, 4
years ago for drunk driving.
Officer: I see...Can I
see your vehicle registration papers
please.
Older Woman: I can't do
that.
Officer: Why
not?
Older Woman: I stole this
car.
Officer: Stole
it?
Older Woman: Yes, and I
killed and hacked up the owner.
Officer: You
what?
Older Woman: His body
parts are in plastic bags in the trunk if you want to see.
The Officer looked at the
woman, slowly backed away to his car and called for back up. Within
minutes 5 police cars encircle the car. A senior officer slowly
approaches the car, clasping his half drawn gun.
Officer 2: Ma'am, could
you step out of your vehicle please! The woman steps out of her
vehicle.
Older woman: Is
there a problem officer?
Officer 2: One of my
officers told me that you have stolen this car and murdered the
owner.
Older Woman: Murdered the
owner?
Officer 2: Yes, could you
please open the trunk of your car,
please.
The woman opens the
trunk, revealing nothing but an empty
trunk.
Officer 2: Is this your
car, ma'am?
Older Woman: Yes, here
are the registration papers. The officer is quite
stunned.
Officer 2: One of my
officers claims that you do not have a driving
license.
The woman digs into her
handbag and pulls out a clutch purse and hands it to the
officer.
The officer examines the
license. He looks quite
puzzled.
Officer 2: Thank you
ma'am, one of my officers told me you didn't have a license, that you
stole this car and that you murdered and hacked up the owner.
Older Woman: Bet the liar told you I was speeding,
too!
~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~
Your own special greatness
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Your life has a purpose, something uniquely suited to who you
are. The more closely you align your day-to-day priorities with
that purpose, the more fulfillment you'll know.
When the priorities you've chosen stray away from your purpose,
then life becomes filled with frustration. When you put your time
and effort into things that don't really matter, it brings on a
painful, gnawing emptiness.
If something is truly important to the core of your being, then
there is most certainly a way to make it happen. When you make
the effort and spend the time on what really matters, the rewards
will be great indeed.
It will never be easy to follow your purpose. For by its very
definition, your highest purpose demands the best that you have
to offer. Yet following that purpose will fulfill you in a way
that nothing else can. To every extent possible, align your
priorities to who you truly are. Let your own special greatness
light up this world.
Ralph Marston
The reflection you see
++++++++++++++++++++++++
Be the value you wish to have. Be the positive difference you'd
like to see in the world.
When you're tempted to complain, think of a way to re-frame that
complaint into a positive suggestion, proposal or offer. When you
want others to understand your own concerns, put your efforts into
better understanding the concerns and perspectives they have.
What are the qualities and values you would most like to see in
the people around you? Develop and project those qualities in your
own affairs, and live those values yourself.
Be slow to take offense and quick to offer encouragement. Find
pleasure not in the misery of others, but rather in making a
positive, meaningful difference for those around you.
For your world is a mirror. The reflection you see depends on
the person you are.
Ralph Marston
.............................................................................
~~~
Judith Leah White-Bear
Earth Walk Fellowship, Animal Psychic Team
http://www.AnimalHealer.orgspirit@...
~~~
Yahoo Msgr: "whitebearsinging"
AOL IM: "AKwhitebear"
~~~
Let everything you do be your expression of Spirit,
and everything you say be your prayer ~Anon.
~~~
Pause for a moment and just think one thought. Think of how good it can
feel to be alive.
Yes, you can argue that life is ripe with pain, with discomfort
and dismay. Yet the only reason you even notice those things is
because they are exceptions to the rule.
In fact, when the skies turn gray and the world seems so cold,
pause for a moment and consider one thing. Consider how good it can feel
to be alive.
Even on the down days, there is a goodness to life that cannot be denied.
Even on the down days, there is a part of you that knows
the troubles won't last forever.
Think of the people you love, the beauty you've seen, the faith
and hope that truly keep you going. And remember how incredibly good it
can feel to be alive.
Pause for a moment and put things in perspective. You have life, and it
can be so very good.
Thanks Margie
I am thankful I can
walk;
there are those who have never taken their first step.
I am thankful I can see the beauty all around me;
there are those whose world is always dark.
I am thankful I can hear music playing;
there are those who entire life has been spent in silence.
I am thankful my heart can be broken;
there are those who are so hardened they cannot be touched.
I am thankful I can move about freely and express my beliefs;
there are those who live in constant fear.
I am thankful I have been loved;
there are those for whom no one has ever cared.
I am thankful I can work;
there are those who have to depend on others for even their most basic
needs.
I am thankful to wake up in the morning and take a deep breath of fresh
air;
there are those who never got that far.
I am thankful for the opportunity to help others;
there are those who have not been so abundantly blessed as I.
Along the way
You can get things done without enjoying yourself. You can also enjoy
yourself without getting anything done. However, the best approach is to
get things done while also enjoying yourself. That's the way to reach
long term success, building one accomplishment on top of another. If you
aim to simply enjoy yourself without getting anything done, then the
result is -- you don't get anything done. You may be very positive and
cheerful, at least for the moment, but after a while it will seem quite
empty. On the other hand, if you're driven to achieve, without any
consideration for the quality of your life along the way, that can be
empty, too. Sure, you'll get what you want. But you're also likely to get
burned out and resentful. Make the effort, move toward your goals, and
delight in the moments along the way. When you enjoy the journey there's
never any reason to stop.
Ralph Marston
Go to wardrobe and collect bag in which present is contained, and
close door
Open door and remove cat from wardrobe,
Go to cupboard and retrieve rolls of wrapping paper.
Go back and remove cat from cupboard.
Go to drawer and collect transparent sticky tape, ribbons, scissors
labels etc.,
Lay out presents and wrapping materials on table, to enable wrapping
strategy to be formed.
Go back to drawer to get string, remove cat that has been in the
drawer since last visit and collect string.
Reopen drawer and re-remove cat.
Remove present from bag.
Remove cat from bag.
Open box to check present, remove cat from box, replace present.
Lay out paper to enable cutting to size,
Try and smooth out paper, realise cat is underneath and remove cat.
Cut the paper to size, trying to keep the cutting line straight.
Throw away first sheet as cat tried to chase the scissors, and tore
paper.
Cut second sheet of paper to size. By putting cat in the bag the
present came out of.
Place present on cut to size paper
Lift up edges of paper to seal in present, wonder why edges now don't
reach, and realise cat is between present and paper. Remove cat and
retry.
Place object on paper, to hold in place, while cutting transparent
sticky tape.
Spend next 20 minutes carefully trying to remove transparent sticky
tape from cat with pair of nail scissors.
Seal paper down, with transparent sticky tape, making corners as neat
as possible.
Look for roll of ribbon, chase cat down hall, in order to retrieve
ribbon.
Try to wrap present with ribbon in a clever two directional turn.
Re-roll up ribbon and remove paper that is now torn, due to cat's
enthusiasm to chase the end of the ribbon .
Repeat steps 13-20 until down to last sheet of paper.
Decide to skip steps 13-17, in order to save time and reduce risk of
loosing last sheet of paper. By retrieving old cardboard box, that you
know is right size for sheet of paper.
Put present in box, and tie down with string.
Remove string, open box and remove cat,
Put all packing materials in bag with present and head for lockable
room.
Once inside room, lock door and start to re-lay out packing
materials.
Remove cat from box, unlock door, put cat outside door, close door
and re-lock.
Repeat previous step as often as is necessary. Until you can hear the
cries from the cat outside the door.
Lay out last sheet of paper. (I know this is difficult in a small
area such as the toilet. But try your best)
Realise cat has already got to the paper. Unlock door go out and hunt
through various cupboards, looking for sheet of last years paper, until
you remember that you haven't got any left, due to cats help with
wrapping last year.
Retire back to room lock door, and sit on toilet whist trying to work
out how to make torn sheet of paper look halfway presentable.
Seal box, wrap with paper and start repairs by very carefully seal
down tears with transparent sticky tape. Now tie up with ribbon and
decorate with bows to hide worst effected areas.
Label, then sit back and admire your handiwork, congratulating
yourself on making good of a bad job.
Unlock door, and go to kitchen to make drink and feed cat.
Spend next 15 minutes looking for cat, before coming to the final
obvious conclusion.
Unwrap present, untie box and remove cat.
Retrieve all thrown away sheets of wrapping paper, feed cat and
retire back to room for last attempt, making certain you are alone and
the door is locked.
Find least torn and wrinkled sheets of paper, along with the ones
that the pattern matches the closet.
Vainly try and wrap present, in patchwork of paper. Tie with the now
tattered ribbon and decorate with the now limp bows. Label and put
present in bag, for fear of anyone seeing this disaster.
At time of handing over present smile sweetly at receivers face, as
they try and hide their contempt at being handed such a badly wrapped
present.
Swear to yourself that next year, that you will get the store to wrap
the damn thing for you.
"Only when the last tree
is cut down
Only when the last river is poisoned
Only when the last fish is caught
Will we discover that money cannot be eaten."
"How shall I help the world?"
"By understanding it," said the Master.
"And how shall I understand it?"
"By turning away from it."
"How then shall I serve humanity?"
"By understanding yourself."
Anthony de Mello, SJ
MORSEL:
I am not what I ought to be.
I am not what I want to be.
I am not what I hope to be.
But still, I am not what I used to be.
And by the grace of God, I am what I am.
... John Newton (1725-1807)
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Judith Leah White-Bear
Earth Walk Fellowship, Animal Psychic Team
http://www.AnimalHealer.orgspirit@...
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Yahoo Msgr: "whitebearsinging"
AOL IM: "AKwhitebear"
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Let everything you do be your expression of Spirit,
and everything you say be your prayer ~Anon.
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Get Happier! - the weekly newsletter from Aboodi Shabi - Personal
Coach and Speaker - 5th November 2003
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1) Bureaucracy of Habits
2) Read of the Week
3) More trumpet-blowing!
4) Forth-coming workshop in London - 27th November 2003 - full details.
1) Bureaucracy of Habits
I have just returned from another amazing week in Washington DC where
I was taking another course with Newfield Network
(www.newfieldnetwork.com).
For the first part of the course, we were doing some training with Stuart
Heller, an aikido master, on working with the non-verbal.
One of the things he focussed on was how the body can work to prevent
change or movement into new areas.
For instance when he was working with me to create a more dynamic
presence, he pointed out that as I moved forward with one new gesture,
another part of me would "compensate" for this by moving back
in order to maintain the status quo.
He had a lovely phrase for this - "the bureaucracy of
habits" - I loved the imagery of that - an organisation of habits
that move together to keep things the way they are in the face of
imminent change.
It made me think about how this applies to many domains of life - not
just the body. Systems, organisations, cultures, and nations all can
respond "bureaucratically" to impetus to change.
In fact, we can often respond as individuals like a bureaucracy.
One of the implications for me of this learning has been to look at how
to bring about change in my ways of being, and how we can involve others
in the process of change.
Imagine a bureaucratic system with its habits well-established, and then
imagine trying to impose major change on that system. What tends to
happen is that the system will "lock up" to defend itself
against the threat represented by the change.
I had a conversation with a client this morning who is struggling to stay
on top of her paper-work - she'd tried many different
"time-management" techniques, all with little success - her
system would almost "grind to a halt" when faced with such a
full-scale change.
Eventually what worked for her was to get to know her system, to
understand her bureaucracy of habits, and then to effect change that
respected where she was at, not merely imposing something from above.
(If you're interested in exploring more on this, check out Mark Forster's
"How to Get Everything Done and Still Have Time to Play", where
he talks about working with our resistance rather than "overcoming
it".)
So, what I am proposing is that taking time to get to know how we (or
others) work as systems, what our particular bureaucracy of habits is, is
tremendously helpful if we want to change our habits, or develop new ways
of being.
This week's explorations:
What might be your bureaucracy of habits?
What changes have you tried to impose on your (or someone else's {!} )
system?
Take some time to get to know the particular bureaucracy - what do you
learn from it? How can you approach it differently to effect a change?
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2) Read of the week:
Still on the subject of the body, there is a fascinating
article on the BBC News site about how the body registers the pain of
rejection or loneliness in the same way as physical pain. You can read
this at: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/3178242.stm
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3) Trumpet-Blowing!
There is an article in the UK magazine "Red", ominously titled "Women and their Gurus"(!), which includes a piece about me and my coaching - unfortunately, it's not available online, only in the print copy. It's in the current (December) issue on pages 124-128.
4) Forth-coming talk:
Get Happier! - (How to enjoy more of your life, without really trying.)
THURSDAY 27th NOVEMBER
Venue: The Vestry House, 21 Paradise Road Richmond, Surrey TW9 1SA.
Networking from 6.30 Speaker 7-9pm. All welcome. Price £7.00
"We all of us want happiness. Everyone is striving to achieve happiness and that is proper. Only it is very important to choose the right method in this quest." - Dalai Lama
Happiness is something we all seem to want, and yet it seems more and more elusive. We try many different things in order to become happier, without success. In this course, we will explore the idea that happiness is not something that comes from outside, but which has a lot to do with how we perceive our life. We will look at the idea of happiness as something to practice, and explore together some of the obstacles to happiness.
Session Outline:
Do you find yourself wondering what will finally make you happy? Do you pursue goals in order to become happier, only to find disappointment and dis-satisfaction when you've achieved them? Would you like to find a way to become happier, more easily?
This session will be, primarily, an exploration of happiness. It does not seek to provide all of the answers, and will be an interactive exploration and discussion of the issues. It will also provide some practical ways to increase day-to-day happiness, and some coaching to help participants discover what these ways might be, and how to implement them.
Come prepared for a gentle, yet thought-provoking and liberating experience, that will show you how easy it is to be happier once you stop trying so hard!
Testimonials:
"Aboodi is a wonderful, relaxed speaker, whose presentations echo his philosophy: they are an "exploration". His continuing explorations into happiness unturn many inspiring and novel insights into living an ordinary life while increasing levels of joy, purpose and connection." - Sarah Litvinoff Coach & Best-selling Author
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Subject: Special Letter
Sally jumped up as soon as she saw the surgeon come out of the
operating room.
She said: "How is my little boy? Is he going to be all right?
When can I see him?" The surgeon said, "I'm sorry. We did all
we could, but your boy didn't make it."
Sally said, "Why do little children get cancer? Doesn't God
care any more? Where were you, God, when my son needed you?"
The surgeon asked, "Would you like some time alone with your
son?
One of the nurses will be out in a few minutes, before he's
transported to the university." Sally asked the nurse to stay
with her while she said good-bye to son. She ran her fingers
lovingly through his thick red curly hair.
Would you like a lock of his hair?" the nurse asked. Sally
nodded yes.
The nurse cut a lock of the boy's hair, put it in a plastic bag
and handed it to Sally.
The mother said, "It was Jimmy's idea to donate his body to
The university for study. He said it might help somebody else.
"I said no at first, but Jimmy said, "Mom, I won't be using it
After I die. Maybe it will help some other little boy spend one
more day with his Mom." She went on, "My Jimmy had a heart of gold.
Always thinking of someone else. Always wanting to help others if he
could."
Sally walked out of Children's mercy Hospital for the last
time, after spending most of the last six months there. She put the bag
with Jimmy's belongings on the seat beside her in the car. The drive
home
was difficult. It was even harder to enter the empty house. She carried
Jimmy's
belongings, and the plastic bag with the lock of his hair to her son's
room. She
started placing the model cars and other personal things back in his
Room
exactly where he had always kept them. She laid down across his bed and,
hugging his pillow, cried herself to sleep.
It was around midnight when Sally awoke. Laying beside her on
the bed was a folded letter. The letter said: "Dear Mom, I know you're
going
to miss me; but don't think that I will ever forget you, or stop loving
you, just 'cause I'm not around to say I LOVE YOU. I will always love
you,
Mom, even more with each day. Someday we will see each other again.
Until
then, if you want to adopt a little boy so you won't be so lonely,
that's
okay with me. He can have my room and old stuff
to play with. But, if you decide to get a girl instead, she probably
wouldn't like the same things us boys do. You'll have to buy her dolls
and
stuff girls like, you know. Don't be sad thinking about me.
This really is a neat place.
Grandma and Grandpa met me as soon as I got here and showed me
around some, but it will take a long time to see everything.
The angels are so cool. I love to watch them fly. And, you know
what?
Jesus doesn't look like any of his pictures. Yet, when I saw
Him, I knew it was Him. Jesus himself took me to see GOD! And guess
what,
Mom?
I got to sit on God's knee and talk to Him, like I was somebody
important.
That's when I told Him that I wanted to write you a letter, to tell you
good-bye and everything. But I already knew that wasn't allowed. Well,
you
know what Mom? God handed me some paper and His own Personal pen to
write
you this letter. I think Gabriel is the name of the angel who is going
to
drop this letter off to you.
God said for me to give you the answer to one of the questions
you asked Him 'Where was He when I needed him?' "God said He was in the
same place with me, as when His son Jesus was on the cross. He was
Right there, as He always is with all His children. Oh, by the way, Mom,
no
one else can see what I've written except you.
To everyone else this is just a blank piece of paper.
Isn't that cool? I have to give God His pen back now. He needs it to
write
some more names in the Book of Life. Tonight I get to sit at the table
with
Jesus for supper. I'm, sure the food will be great. Oh, I almost forgot
to
tell you. I don't hurt anymore. The cancer is all gone.
I'm glad because I couldn't stand that pain anymore and God couldn't
stand
to see me hurt so much, either. That's when He sent The Angel of Mercy
to
come get me. The Angel said I was Special Delivery!
How about that?
Signed with Love from: God, Jesus & Me.
Let's see Satan stop this one. Take 60-seconds and send this to
five
other people,
within the hour, you will have caused a multitude of believers
to
pray
to
God for each other. Then sit back and feel the Holy Spirit work
in
your
life for doing what you know God loves.