Hi Lisa, I enjoyed your email very much I didn't think you were rambling at all. I have always been very active in church with many talents God has given me....
Dear Esther, Thank you so much for you kind words and I am sorry that you have lost your mother as well. I am finding medicine and Dr's are helping me much...
Thank you Megan to be honest I just want to scream but I afraid I won't come back. The tears are starting to flow again. I feel like my Dr's are tired of me I...
Thank you John. Yes I read the Psalms. And I listen alot to music which gives me alot of comfort. I am still going through my mother's things 4 years later...
Beverly, I'm sorry you are feeling so sad lately. How awesome that your mom is still talking to you and taking care of you even after being gone for 4 years....
Beverly, Your mother sounds like an incredible person. I think you will always miss her. People keep telling me it gets easier, they say this constant ache...
Hi Beverly, My comments in your text below in blue. Beverly Hunter <fivehalos5@...> wrote: I have always been very active in church with many talents God...
Hi Lisa, My comments below in blue. Lisa Hicks <lisahicks13@...> wrote: How awesome that your mom is still talking to you and taking care of you even...
Thank you John, that means alot to me especially coming from you. I can honestly say what all of us here are going thru I would not wish on my worst enemy. ...
RE: "I go to "visit" him at the cemetary and everybody says you know he isn't there. But yes he is at least to me in a sense. That is where his physical body...
Right on VeeJay! What a great response. I can't understand why ANYONE would question a person going out to the grave site of their loved ones and spending time...
Lisa Hicks <lisahicks13@...> wrote: When I say I want my life back that really is what I mean. I want to go back 9 months and stay there with Dad and...
Re: "clear the headstone of debris, leave flowers, pray, talk, reflect, and refill the heart back up with wonderful thoughts" Jim, I absolutely love your...
John, Dad would say you have me. I am here just not in the way you are used to. He would say don't focus on what we don't have anymore but on what we do have...
Thank you John and VeeJay. I am glad someone else feels the way I do about where our loved ones are. Sometimes it is very hard for me to go visit him but...
Well, i guess i have gotten to another stage with my grief. Yesterday was the 2 yr anniversary of my dad's death. I know it hasn't been that long since i...
My dear husband passed away May 7th a month and 2 days ago. My children and brothers came to his funeral. He had a long bout with cancer and was bedridden for...
Marie, I'm sorry for what you are going thru. It sounds like you are doing as good as you can be. The view sounds beautiful. How are your children doing? ...
Greetings Helen, Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing your story. I'm really sorry for the loss of your husband even though it was an "anticipated"...
Regina, thanks for sharing your wonderful thoughts and insights. About your comment "I have been reading the other posts, but haven't known what to say." I...
we don't really know how advanced mom's alzheimers really is. She is random with memory (except for the 50 years with us kids and husband - that is gone) and...
Hi Hellen, I am deeply sorry for your loss. You seem to have a very good support system in your family, friends and your church. 58 years, wow what memories...
I just lost my Grandpap last Friday. He was in the hospital for 3 weeks...initially for urinary tract infection,was on ventillator, got off that then his...
I am sorry to hear that your mom has alzheimers. could it be that she is also suffering from depression. There are so many medications for depression, you...
Stacey Dear, I am sorry that you lost your Grandpap, maybe I shouldn't say lost cause you know that he is with his father in heaven. I know what it is to see...
Dear Stacey, My daughter in law was 8 months pregnant with our 3rd grandson when my mother went to her "home going". She was in the hospital 3 months on a...
Hi John and the group, It's late in the morning 1:30 am here in Tennessee. Today June the 9th was Mom's birthday. She would have told me I had better not...
Helen Thank you so much for your kind response. I dont like to admit it, but I think I prayed too that God would take him. He couldnt talk much because he was...
dear Beverly Thanks so much...I didnt know about the picture thing...I will definetly do that. If we have a boy, my Grandpaps name will be his middle name (Im...
my mom has had dementia and struggled with depression most of her life. she has a frontal lobe bruise from a fall when she was a child. she should have been...