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Hi Treeka. Thanks for writing. I'm really sorry to hear about your aunt. It sounds like she was a very special person for you and dying expectedly is difficult enough, but when it's unexpected, it seems even harder.
Life does go on, but my experience has been that for people that are suffering grief, like you are, saying "get over it," is not very helpful. I'm not saying your family doesn't care, but everyone deals with grief differently.
You probably need time to talk about your loss, and know there are other people that really care about the fact that you're hurting and you miss your aunt.
I set up this web site so we can talk about our losses, hear each other's concerns, and not forget the loved ones that we've lost, but grow to a place where the memories are special, but the immediate pain is less.
Can you tell me about your aunt?
Also, congratulations on your baby.
John
treeka2005@... wrote:
treeka2005@... wrote:
hello i joined because i am not sure what else to do. my aunt who was like my mom and sister in one,passed away this past may2004 four days after my daughter was born. she died unexpectadely at 56. my mom and i were the only ones very close to her. i cant seem to get past the fact that she is gone and not coming back. now my mom doesn't want to talk about her anymore because she doesn't want to get upset. everyone keeps telling me life goes on i should get over it that it has been 7 months. i can not talk to any one any more they dont want to hear it. what should i do?thankyouplease help me
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