I am a new member. My grandfather died on June 8, 2007. Tonight, I am
not in a good mood I am very angry at my mother and her friend Susan
because they were nosying around my granddads home and he has not
been gone even a month. It made me very angry. It was my first time
back into the house so of course I was hurting to begin with. (To
clear any confusion any readers may have this was my dad's dad who
died). My Grandmother is still in the house with 24/7 care due to
alzheimers. She no longer knows anyone which doubly hurts. It felt
like a million knives going through my heart when my mom and her
friend were walking and going through the house like nothing was
wrong. I told my mother I was leaving, she asked why I said I was
upset with her. She said why and I told her because she was going
through things. She said well we have to do it eventually. WELL
hello!!!! Mamoo(my grandmother) is still alive. Plus this really was
not her place to do it. Plus she knows I am hurting really bad and
missing my grandfather so much right now. I always will but right now
the pain is extremely fresh and bad. EXTREMELY BAD. She knew that was
my first time back in the house(which was very painful) did she have
to do what she was doing??? I am still angry with her.

Any support and opinions would be great.
Hugs,
Caroline