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RE: [Grief_Group] Why today?

Hello all.

We are quickly approaching the 1st anniversary of Bryan’s death. They just finish his headstone and it is in place. That totally knocked the wind from my sails but it is accomplished. I am doing better I guess. It still grabs me at the most inopportune time. Like in church today. I am working through it but it is still hard. I was told yesterday had it already been a year…and I had to say yes. It was the longest and shortest year of my life. And the hardest. Praying for better ones though. For my husband and my daughter as well. It is hard because no one has remembered the date. We are by our selves. I think how people can forget July 7th. But then again this is our tragedy not theirs.

Hope all is well with each one of you.

Still praising Him through the storm

D.

 

Donna Duncan

 

  "Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles;

they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not grow faint".

                Isaiah 40:31

 


From: Grief_Group@yahoogroups.com [mailto:Grief_Group@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of J Hum
Sent: Saturday, June 23, 2007 9:50 AM
To: grief group
Subject: [Grief_Group] Why today?

 

Maybe you feel a bit like Jeremiah?

 

Lamentations 3:17 I have been deprived of peace;
       I have forgotten what prosperity is.

 18 So I say, "My splendor is gone
       and all that I had hoped from the LORD."

 19 I remember my affliction and my wandering,
       the bitterness and the gall.

 20 I well remember them,
       and my soul is downcast within me.

 

So then a great question arises: why? Why go on trusting, why go on caring, why try?

 

Because verses 21-26 are on the way...

 

 

 

 

 

 21 Yet this I call to mind
       and therefore I have hope:

 22 Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed,
       for his compassions never fail.

 23 They are new every morning;
       great is your faithfulness.

 24 I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion;
       therefore I will wait for him."

 25 The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him,
       to the one who seeks him;

 26 it is good to wait quietly
       for the salvation of the LORD.

 

 

Last week I was running in a race to raise money for breast cancer research. It was a 3 mile run and about every mile they had brought in cheer leading squads to cheer on the runners. Just about the time us runners were starting to get tired and those feelings of quit came to mind, up ahead there were cheers of support and hope that the race was about over, it was about accomplished, we were doing fine, we were "winning."

 

Sometimes we need someone to cheer us on; sometimes God calls us to be the ones to cheer on the others.

 

This morning God's mercies are new. His love waits to refresh us and help us finish the race.

 

God's peace and love be yours in abundance.

 

John

 


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Maybe you feel a bit like Jeremiah? Lamentations 3:17 I have been deprived of peace; I have forgotten what prosperity is. 18 So I say, "My splendor is gone and...
J Hum
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Jun 23, 2007
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Thank you John, you have given me great thoughts to think about on this 3rd year anniversary date of my father's passing. Blessings, Amy~ J Hum...
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Hi Amy, Great to hear from you. If you wouldn't mind taking a moment and letting us know how you're doing, I would LOVE to hear how you and the kids are. God...
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John, Thanks for reposting Amy's story.   And, Amy, I understand what you mean about the sudden loss of a loved one. My mother will be gone two years this...
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Amanda, I have to believe that our loved ones still know us. I couldn't imagine it would be heaven otherwise. But I hope they do not see our tears and how our...
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Thanks Donna. My daughter and I were talking one day and she told me she thinks when people get to heaven Jesus tells them that their loved ones will be along...
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Hello everybody, The kids and I are doing very well. We have not moved yet, the house is just about ready. For the most part everything is new. It's...
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What an incredible blessing! That was so exciting reading that post, Amy, awesome. You know we all hope and pray that absolute best for you and the kids, and...
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Amy, Praise God!! What a wonderful testament to God's providing for our needs and blessing our obedience to continue to follow Him even when things feel like...
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Jul 1, 2007
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Hello all. We are quickly approaching the 1st anniversary of Bryan's death. They just finish his headstone and it is in place. That totally knocked the wind...
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Jun 24, 2007
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Donna...thank you for posting. The first anniversary is always the hardest. As to no one remembering....well...we are all here and God never forgets a date....
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