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End_Verbal_Abuse@yaho...
Apr 1, 2008 10:20 am
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My husband is using the multiply-impaired daughter to manipulate me into coming back. Yesterday he sent me an e-mail that he missed me and wanted me to come...
I know for me it took a good two years to stop feeling the memories everywhere I looked.. Yes there were good memories too, and I think being human we are...
I have to let some anger out right now. My bf called me a cow and I'm far from it. He's so drunk right now. He keeps calling me a b*tch and thinks that it's...
My first thought was why go back to a man when you are already so not trusting him that you suspect he is lying in his invitation to you.? Besides, she is his...
Jane-- Its obvious that he is using her as a way to get you back. The problem is is that he should be using himself to get you back not using your daughter....
Hi, my life is spiraling down the hill again, cause of stuff in my life. I stay in my house most of the time. I also have my house all a mess cause I used to...
Hi eW! That's terrible about the recording. I joined drama and music in an effort to get out of my shell, so I know how personally valuable photos, video...
My abusive ex frequently lost his keys, and the first thing he'd say when he couldn't find them was, "What did you do with my keys? Where'd you hide them?"...
I have a neighbor who looks anorexic even though she eats more than I do. She says that she "hates" it when other neighbors accuse her of having an "eating...
Hi Mary! Thank you for sharing this! It's always wonderful to read about someone who was so determined to liberate themselves that they were willing to...
I think a lot of targets do this. People in general don't too often comprehend just how exhausting abuse can be. You can become completely tuckered out on...
If a person doesnt mean it, they wouldnt do it. Sometimes its a reaction to how his drinking affects him, but to me being drunk and having to put up with his...
Hi Cindi! This is an EXCEPTIONAL observation, though! When it comes to verbal/emotional abuse and codependency, half or more of the battle is won by sheer ...
Hi April! I don't think you can "just shut this person off" when the whim strikes you, not without making a tremendous sacrifice in the end. It's very...
this reminds me of people using the word tolerate. We must learn to tolerate each others differences. I think tolerate is the wrong word. Why does society...
First of all, I am truly sorry for your suffering, physical and emotional. My mom has frybromialgia, it is a misunderstood sickness, before we knew she had it...
Take it from who is coming. I am sorry words like that hurt us so deeply and makes us angry. Don't let it get to you, know in your head you are beautiful, our...
How would you like to call the police and file a report.? Even if they can't do anything against him, they can take your report, it's no skin off their noses.?...
I have called the cops on him sometime back. Just recently I've threatened to call the cops and he'll unplug the phones. If it does get really out of hand...
Judy, I saved your post and keep re-reading it. I could have written those words. I am coming up on my 2 yr anniversary of leaving my ex after 30 yrs together....
Carol, Thank you for posting this, I am in the process of divorce and sometimes I get sad, scared of what's ahead, but knowing, as you put it, it gets better...
I can relate to you. My bf will sleep on the sofa and I'll be getting up and want to watch TV before getting up. Just the other day he got really mad at me...
Hi Cynthia! It takes guts to leave any abuser, but more so when in the kind of predicament you are in! I couldn't even imagine being stuck in a foreign...
For sharing, and for your kind words! Congratulations on your "2 yr anniversary of leaving" ! Terri In a message dated 4/2/2008 11:28:32 PM US Mountain...
... Just another abusive tactic. "I know better than you what's good for you." My reply to this would be "Oh? Tell me, when did you become capable of reading ...
Good point the fact that I think about it shows there is something wrong. After reading the reality and gas lighting article, I have been in termiol....I...
In a message dated 4/3/2008 6:18:26 PM US Mountain Standard Time, Equiskr@... writes: Good point the fact that I think about it shows there is something ...
.............yeah, what VA's have to say about self-respecting people: "she's got a MOUTH on her!" 's(he)'s an angry B34546#%$....' 'if someone said that to ME...
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