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EMERGENCY LINKS AND NUMBERS! RELATED TO VERBAL ABUSE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, SEXUAL ASSAULT, SUICIDE, CODEPENDENCY, AND MORE These links are automatically sent by...
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Mar 1, 2008
10:37 am
46921
I've talked to her mother yesterday and she would not cite any specific things I've said, just that she took my words to someone and they agreed that they were...
Jason
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Mar 1, 2008
3:15 pm
46922
Dear Jason: Here's a P.S. to my earlier message to you. Lots of info can be gotten from youtube.com by searching for various key words. I just came across this...
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latestayerupper
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Mar 1, 2008
3:15 pm
46923
Hi! Sorry for what you are going through. I'm confused. Why do you say you are afraid of becoming an abuser? Is she having the child? How does that fit in...
ewidower
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Mar 1, 2008
3:17 pm
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Thanks for the reactions, both of you. I wrote that nine years ago. For most of the years since then, I've disregarded the situation as much as possible,...
ewidower
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Mar 1, 2008
3:17 pm
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I'll certainly second that. Lots of good stuff at http://marriagebuilders.com Dr. Harley and Joyce have become personal friends of mine and are two of my...
ewidower
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Mar 1, 2008
3:32 pm
46926
Ok Jason, gonna try to help here. First off, verbal abuse is not just name calling, yelling, or put downs. It is also controlling. To be honest it does sound...
claytoriv
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Mar 1, 2008
4:43 pm
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Hi Pat! Interesting idea! We used to have this show out here called "3 On Your Side" (as in Channel 3), but I don't know if it's on anymore (I rarely watch ...
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terrimethinks
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Mar 1, 2008
9:25 pm
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I think that people do learn some legitimate useful things from Oprah or Dr. Phil . I also think that sometimes they are over-confident with what they think...
ewidower
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Mar 1, 2008
10:54 pm
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Hello All, I recently accepted a position within my organization that is truly a blessing. However, this position has its down side. My coworker is mentally...
deblanlaf
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Mar 1, 2008
10:55 pm
46930
ok, va and mentally challenged are two different things. What do you mean by mentally challenged? Low IQ, metal illness???? I spent years working with...
claytoriv
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Mar 2, 2008
3:18 am
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eW, thanks for the tip on Dr. Harley's video on http://MarriageUncensored.com.? I went there and found a juicy video interviewing him, the one on Lovebusters.?...
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latestayerupper
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Mar 2, 2008
5:11 am
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I was the last of several people to leave my abuser. The others were all either thrown out by my abuser or walked out. My abuser had started a clan type...
tamtimmorlane
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Mar 2, 2008
4:02 pm
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Hi, Zest! Dr. Harley has made a related point about self-sacrifice. A partner who would expect that you would self-sacrifice is one who is accepting personal...
ewidower
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Mar 2, 2008
4:03 pm
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In a message dated 3/2/2008 4:13:27 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, End_Verbal_Abuse@yahoogroups.com writes: So can someone give me tips on how to work with...
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Mar 2, 2008
4:04 pm
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I don't know what to advise about the VA coworked, but I agree with what the person below said, which is DOCUMENT EVERYTHING.? Then later on when you finally...
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latestayerupper
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Mar 2, 2008
4:04 pm
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Hi Folks! I had a link to an awesome website on Workplace Bullies and how to handle them, but it comes up invalid now (I hope this is just a temporary...
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terrimethinks
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Mar 2, 2008
4:39 pm
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Workplace Bullying Institute _http://www.bullyinginstitute.org/starthere.html_ (http://www.bullyinginstitute.org/starthere.html) Happy St. Patrick's Day! ...
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terrimethinks
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Mar 2, 2008
4:44 pm
46938
You learn something new everyday! Never heard the term "mobbing" before... Workplace Bullies: Learn to Identify and Extinguish Problem Behavior ...
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terrimethinks
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Mar 2, 2008
4:57 pm
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Let me know if the "STOP" method works for any of you! I've never heard of it before... How to Deal With Workplace Bullying and Harassment ...
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terrimethinks
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Mar 2, 2008
5:23 pm
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Hi Everyone, I have been out of touch a few weeks now, I got a great new job, that has been hard adjusting too, because it all new. Emotionally I have been...
danaatdna
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Mar 2, 2008
5:25 pm
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Sorry, I meant to write "repetitively" not "receptively." Terri ... Your Side" ... watch ... consider doing it ... I am ... went to would ... was so nice ... ...
Terri Methinks
terrimethinks
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Mar 2, 2008
6:21 pm
46942
Shiloh, I found it helpful in retrospect not to try to make emotional contact with people who are abusive to me.? For instance trying to win them over as part...
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latestayerupper
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Mar 2, 2008
6:40 pm
46943
Well, I've heard of using a similar "STOP" method in domestic relationships, but not with an abusive coworker. Wonder if he/she would be shocked? Terri ... ...
Terri Methinks
terrimethinks
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Mar 2, 2008
6:52 pm
46944
Perhaps you can use his 12:16am actions and the reasons for them (thinking the order was over) and a very good and logical reason why you should be given an...
ewidower
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Mar 2, 2008
9:07 pm
46945
I am very angry and upset with myself! I keep on saying that I am not going to contact my mom and then I do! I can not stand that about me. I am sick of...
Brendy Girl
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Mar 2, 2008
9:08 pm
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good point that you make and i agree. kill them with kindness is nice in theory but in a sick workplace it can backfire by opening you up to more crap. the...
Cynthia Burkey
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Mar 2, 2008
9:08 pm
46947
you never heard of halliburton? do you listen to the news ever? you should---it'll make you realize that this crap goes on all the time. if you need a...
Cynthia Burkey
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Mar 2, 2008
9:08 pm
46948
Have you been discriminated against when making your housing choice? [input] [input] Print this page Any person who believes that he or she has been...
claytoriv
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Mar 2, 2008
11:54 pm
46949
brenda, it' good that you can recognize that you're pissed and express it here. it might not be helpful to go off on your mom. do you have a counselor? i...
Cynthia Burkey
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