EMERGENCY LINKS AND NUMBERS! RELATED TO VERBAL ABUSE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, SEXUAL ASSAULT, SUICIDE, CODEPENDENCY, AND MORE These links are automatically sent by...
End_Verbal_Abuse@yaho...
Oct 1, 2007 9:30 am
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i've been with my VA for about two years now and it's never been stable. He uses herion on occasion. when we first met he lied about how long he'd been clean...
... Ok ... How are you getting discouraged? ... Why should you be the one to move out, instead of her, when she is the one doing the abuse. ... Hmmmmmm...... ...
One of my daughters has had days when she just relentlessly puts me down, condescending to me etc. Most of what she says is hot air, not true just exagerations...
Dawn, Christopher is so right. In many states, and I have no idea what state you live in, it is possible to obtain a restraining order and have the abuser...
ok, I don't know why it took so long for me to realize I have been verbally abused, all the signs were there I just di not want to see them I got a job and am...
In a message dated 10/1/2007 6:31:05 PM Pacific Daylight Time, hughdwattles@... writes: I dont know if I am in the right place. I dont have a husband...
dancdiva123@...
Oct 2, 2007 11:44 pm
45176
Could it be harder for boys/men to stop abusing? Maybe its just different a little. They are not supposed to show feelings and sympathy, not supposed to cry,...
My guarded advice is to put it back on him. You don't feel safe around this person, right? His behavior is the reason you want to leave. Maybe you can tell...
I made the mistake of staying until I could get out....well I got him out. That was the big mistake...I should have called police and womens shelters and gone,...
Hi Hugh: I think in the end it balances out between the sexes. Although boys and girls are supposedly being raised differently today than they were in the...
I don't understand this group....I poured my heart out and not one person has responded to me but yet I recieve all your emails with acknowledgments and advice...
Hi Cherri: I did acknowledge your post previously and offer you advice, too, although theoretically I am supposed to be on "hiatus" overall and simply don't...
Just stay focused. Do not get discouraged, I have a friend who took 2 years to get out and know of another who it took 5 years. Careful planning, and...
Your story might have gotten lost in the shuffle as it was a reply to someone else's post. But I just read both yours and hers and strongly suggest that each...
Hi Everyone! CM (Cherri) unsubscribed from EVA. Based on her posts to the group and the e-mails she sent to me I was not given the impression at all that she...
That's a good point about the history of the roles for men and women. Especially about how it was even considered an asset for women to be able to talk circles...
Sounds really chaotic. Please just separate yourself from that mess so you can just calm down. Its ok to be bored and be by yourself, you might have to do that...
Hi, Heather. I haven't written in awhile. I have been been busy making more mistakes after being free from my VA, being codependent etc. (I guess the...
Hi Lilly I know your note was to Heather; however, I just wanted to let you know that I think you have done a fantastic job!! We all know how hard that can be...
In a message dated 10/3/2007 11:41:18 AM Pacific Daylight Time, goldpony59@... writes: I too got a job, and my husband now wants control of my check ...
dancdiva123@...
Oct 4, 2007 7:33 am
45190
... doesn't ... around ... abuser ... that way no one ... http://www.aol.com ... Thanks for the encourgement, every little bit helps and great idea about...
Lilly, Thank you for the support. I have had people tell me I don't know what I am doing, I should be in a shelter etc, but to me that would be a last resort,...
In a message dated 10/3/2007 11:34:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, dcuming@... writes: Hi Lilly I know your note was to Heather; however, I just wanted...
In a message dated 10/2/2007 7:44:50 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, dancdiva123@... writes: I dont know if I am in the right place. I dont have a husband...
I haven't written much- i've just been floating and reading. Here is my problem: Imagine a beach and its shore line. my father stands in the sand and never...
Missy, It is difficult to break the cycle. You have made the decision! I was so wishy washy he could convince me so easily. I was hurt when he finally...
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