change your phone number and delete the email before u even open it. ... You are better off without him. ... What kind of job is it? Christopher ... ...
i haven't wrote on this page for a long time and am not sure if i should. My daughter has got into the habit of checking to see if I am ok after daddy comes...
Just wanted to thank everyone who replied to my posting the other weekend. I have read every one of them over and over. Each reply really made me think about...
Terri, I agree. Now that I have had no contact with my VA for two months I am recovering. My wounds are healing. My friendship with my neighbor has been ...
... Your welcome. ... Jen, You are(unintentionally and, indirectly) talking about me, in that, with my new girlfriend, I was overly sensitive in the beginning....
Hi, Try taking him to some relationship counseling, get an outside point of view...This may be a sign or symptom of a larger psychological problem and an...
Dear Jen, I joined this list a few days ago, and until the end of March I did not think I would ever need to be on an EVA list. As in your case, I have been...
I relate to you both very well. My relationship went extremely fast. I knew from past counseling that this is a big red flag, but ignored it. He was so much...
Blame: Self-Control is Not Only For the Abuser By Dr. Irene Blaming is a big issue these days. Particularly in our litigious society, "somebody" is always to...
The Victim's Stages of Recovery by Dr. Irene Recovery from codependent victimhood usually occurs in a series of often overlapping stages. Here is a rough...
A Guy's Editorial on "VictimThink" by Dr. Irene August 13, 2000 I got the following email recently: "I was going to write in a really sarcastic post (I...
Quandary: Who Is The Victim / Abuser? by Dr. Irene (VERBAL ABUSE EXPERT WHO PROFESSIONALLY COUNSELS TARGETS OF ABUSE) Even a stopped clock is right twice a...
ARE YOU A VICTIM OR MARTYR? 1. Martyrs are people who recognize they are being taken advantage of and choose to remain in the situation. Victims are people...
My name is Vicky I was part of this group 4 year ago. I stayed in the relationship for an additional 2 years. My husband and I seperated and like a fool I ...
After a long and arduous relationship, it's finally over. out of sheer stupidity last night i had a face to face "conversation" with my abusive X and it...
Jen/Yvonne, I have been here for a couple of weeks now and it is amazing how stonger I have become because of it. I am 39 yrs old from Indiana with two kids....
Dear Vicky, You know by now that we are the hardest judges of ourselves; so you made a mistake...we all make mistakes, recognizing them is the first step in...
good luck to you, I feel your pain, I am divorced now 6 months after a 24 year marriage of abuse,life can be abuse free!!! Take one day at a time and be good...
Hi, Is your court day tomorrow or was it today? How did it go? If it is tomorrow, be strong, don't let your emotions guide you into thinking that having a...
Hello I give you so much credit for trying. It does take 2. I have been in and out of an abusive relationship for 7 years. Please keep us posted. I don't want...
THIS IN- FROM ANOTHER GROUP If you have Comcast cable TV, try to watch "It's Your Call with Lynn Doyle" show, broadcast live out of Comcast's Philadelphia...
Hi. I am Lynn from TN. I just left am emotional, verbal abuser after almost 16 yrs. of marriage. I have 2 boys ages 12 and 13. Am having trouble standing up to...
I wish I had positive regarding the kids. I also would like to hear from others. Pardon the ramblings - but my head is just swarming - this morning. I know...
I TOO HAVE HAD A ROUGH DAY, ACTUALLY A PRETTY ROUGH 2 YEARS. I HAVE A 17 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND A 19 YEAR OLD SON FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE. I HAVE A 10 YEAR...
IF EVER I WAS CONFUSED ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT I HAD A LABOTOMY, TODAY I GOT MY ANSWER. I WENT TO LUNCH WITH MY HUSBAND. ALL OUR PROBLEMS ARE MINE. I HAVE SOME...
My court date was today and i've got my order of protection now. i feel very happy and strong. i will never, ever return to that life with him again. i feel so...
I've learned some hard lessons in somewhat similar circumstances. After a divorce, one loses a good deal of influence over one's kids for a variety of reasons:...
Lynn, my name is Linda from Indiana I have two kids 13 and 14. I am currently moving out (my apt will be ready to move in the 19th) I do understand how you...
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