GETTING DOC IRENE'S ADVICE If you need professional assistance with verbal abuse and codependency, DR Irene is awesome! You do have to pay for a consultation...
(http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1557987017/templeofwisdo-20) Book Description Sherman Smith saw the most terrible thing happen. At first he tried to ...
Hi Karin I read your message and it was like reading what I am going through currently. I have also realised that my VAH will probably not change and whatever ...
Hi Everyone: We've discussed in other posts how many verbal abusers can be very charming initially and the abuse can be very insidious initially. Even so,...
Hi Everyone: Your posts will not be approved for the group if it is noticed that you use profanity in them - not unless you use asterisks (e.g., "b*stard,...
I have now been seperated from my abusers for 4 months. Life is getting better and I am slowly recovering from what happened. Two things have been bothering...
The Jerk Appeal By Heidi Muller Relationship Correspondent There seems to be a mystery among the male species, besides their unending quest of trying to figure...
PT 1: Are You Dating a Loser? by Joseph M. Carver, PhD, a Clinical Psychologist in practice in Ohio Author's Comment This article was published to the Internet...
PT 2: Are You Dating a Loser? by Joseph M. Carver, PhD, a Clinical Psychologist in practice in Ohio Breakup Panic: "The Loser" panics at the idea of breaking...
PT 3: Are You Dating a Loser? (Conclusion) by Joseph M. Carver, PhD, a Clinical Psychologist in practice in Ohio Dangerous Versions of "The Loser" There are...
Hi Everyone: Just to clarify: I've never personally told any member of EVA on or off list that all they have to do is leave the abuser and all will be well...
DIVORCE: Protecting The Children _http://www.drirene.com/divorce.htm_ (http://www.drirene.com/divorce.htm) Free Terri Insanity: doing the same thing over and...
What lessons are we teaching our children? The pain of watching abuse can linger for years and years... By Rachel G. Thomas Standard-Times staff writer ...
Helping Your Child Survive a Difficult Divorce A Psychologist Who has Dealt with the Pain of Many Children Whose Parents Act Irrationally During Divorce...
What to Take With You When You Leave an Abuser - A Planning Checklist Here are some helpful items to get together when you are planning on leaving an abusive...
This excerpt is taking from the article below. This is what I refer to regarding children in my posts on EVA: "...Children's lives, regardless of age, are...
... Hi kandajean: Yes I have nightmares too. I see his face when he would be in his rage episodes. It is so terrifying. I'm almost 2 months no contact. It has...
Hi Terri, I have been pondering that very same question lately. Is it better for my children that we get a divorce or that we stay together? I agree with what...
Hello everyone it's Leslie again. I have monitored phone calls w/ my children and for the past 3 weeks he hasn't put them on the phone saying we need to talk...
Sounds like you may have PTSD. I also still after almost 9 months have nightmares from time to time. They do lessen a bit over time. Get yourself into...
Be assured that your young children know in their little hearts and spirits that something is very wrong between Mom and Dad, and they will be profoundly...
I wish you the best in your work Pamela. What about your mom do you keep in contact with her? It must have been very difficult for you when she left. I had...
I chose to leave my VA, basically I like to say my children saved me. I know what the studies say, but my childrens therapist says that children know when...
Well, I used this script: #1 This call is being recorded, I'm calling to talk to Ryan and Samantha #2 I'm sorry but I called to speak with Ryan and Samantha ...
Hi KC and Enya: The nightmares may be symptomatic of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). You might want to explore this area a bit. Here's a link to get...
This is something I think about everyday. I have worked on a safety plan - have my own townhouse with curtains and no furniture - waiting for me. Two weeks ago...
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