He doesn't live with you right? Also, you can garnish unemployment for child support if he is getting that.... That's good about your son, take good care of...
I have a close friend sending me money so that I can take my kids and leave. Ironically it is also a friend of my husbands, but I am not worried b.cc I know he...
One way to gain strength is through perspective. Gain perspective of what you and your children have had to put up with by making a list of ALL the horrible...
It is always a difficult choice and there are tough questions to ask, we often feel guilt about our decisions, but you must do what is right for you and your...
No, he's not living with me but he's wanting us to come live with him in 6 months when he gets his feet under him. He's not drawing unemployment so there goes...
Andria What work can you do yourself? I have spent close to $10,000 already in my custody case. I'm not going to be able to afford a lawyer for much longer. ...
I felt the exact same way! I was more worried about how he would be than I was about myself. You know what? He's figured it out for the last 3 months. It...
WEBSITES RELATED TO VERBAL ABUSE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, CODEPENDENCY, AND RECOVERY These links are sent to all members of EVA once per month, and upon joining and...
End_Verbal_Abuse@yaho...
Nov 1, 2006 7:53 pm
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There are lots of things that you can do...for one thing make sure that if your ex calls your attorney, this happened to me, notify your attorney to bill him...
Angie, VA's don't like anyone that is in our lives...They want to control and isolate, that is how they are able to abuse. Angie <erskine@...> wrote:...
Angie, It looks like you're on the right path. Always, the person beening abused has to take a step forward in order to start a new process in life. If you...
In a message dated 11/1/2006 12:38:59 P.M. Central Standard Time, erskine@... writes: but he has hated them for years and doesn't want me to spend any...
My exVA hates my mom and calls her a liar. She helped me leave my ex and move back across the US to be safe. When she does talk to him, he tells her one thing...
My VA also does not like my mother. They did not get off to a good start from the beginning for many reason some of which I have to blame her for, however if...
He says they've treated him poorly and have "contradicted his marriage." My parents have always been very involved in my life, mom is my best friend. He has...
OMG my VA came home breifly (truckdriver), asked me why I went where I did today ( I wanted to scream b.cc IM LEAVING) but ended up saying simply that I needed...
Sounds familiar. My parents are not only liars, but my mother is a whore who shows her "stuff" to him when I'm not looking. OK! Does he really think I...
If you are ready to leave him, and if you are moving it sounds as if you are, you have to remember that he only does the little things to suck you back in and...
I wish I could help u. I feel I am in the same boat. I thought I was going to be strong. I just let him right back in my arms and think what is wrong with me....
Angie, This sounds familiar to me so much,while he has never accused my mother of showing her goods, he has said she controls me and what he sees as control I...
Hmmm...that's funny my exVA said the same thing in a email one time. He said that my mom needs to let me live my own life, then added at the end..."unless she...
I wish to withdraw from this group. How can I do this? ... Want to start your own business? Learn how on Yahoo! Small Business. [Non-text portions of this...
see this is the wrong group to say this in but if anyone spoke of my mother or parents in any wrong way they would be slapped into tommow becouse it wouldnt...
Shannon, It didn't start out that way. In fact, at first, he loved my parents - they treated him better than his own. But down the line they became the devil...
Angela, I know the feeling. One time my VA bought me a gown, not a sexy one, just one that I could wear while at home. He even picked my favorite color:...
This is so common it's not funny. My husband has shown his butt in front of
my mom and he's sure she can't stand him because of his bad behavior, so he...
Courage to Change: November 3, 2006 By the time we reach recovery, many of us are starving to be heard. We bask in the discovery that our recovery rooms are...
This process is almost over. I called stbx to tell him to call lawyer and set up appt. he called me back and we talked for a few minutes, it was sad for me. I...
Hi, I just joined this group and wanted to introduce myself and my goals. I am feeling a bit depressed and confused today, partly due to self- doubt about my...
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