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I did not know about economice abuse until I actually admited to being abused. then I started educating myself and could have cried withthe amount of things I...
Thanks for your words. I ended up flying out of town at the last minute to get away. I needed some time away from the situation to clear my head and start...
Jeannie, A couple of things I am clear about....how did you transfer the money? I don't want this sort of thing to happen to me. We have separate accounts....
Hello, I have been in this group for several months and decided now to share my story. I believe in giving back so if it helps anyone as many of the articles...
Our accounts were at the same bank, Wells Fargo. I transfered money online and at the atm all the time...he would also put cash in myaccount by simply giving...
... Inner Child ... is really responsible for all the problems that I am having in my marriage of 26 years, because my outer child really is the one who is ...
Sheresa, Thanks for sharing your story! How have you been feeling being away from him? It's amazing how being with a VA chips away at our self- esteem and we...
Hi. I am new to this group. I just wanted to congratulate Sheresa for being able to get out of her bad situation. I too was in a verbally, as well as...
Lilly I wanted to finish my post to you...what you describe to me is almost exactly the situation I was in, except only my name was on my account. Tell me, do...
hello i am a male age 38 and i am in a relationship and this evening she came up to kiss me good bye because she was going to work and i leaned up and with...
See I didn't walk away. He walked away from me because I wouldn't back down and accept his behavior. I don't know if he hadn't left if I would have. I was...
First, I wanted to say I think it takes a lot of courage to share your feelings, espeically when you are scared of them. I know I have been in an abusive...
Lilly sorry got kicked off by AOL in midst of posting...shouldn't happen with DSL but does.... I was explaining how you could choose to live as a tradtional...
I just got out of a relationship that was very emotionally abusive and I am trying my best to get over it. The man I was with was becoming very controlling and...
I was always told in group that I needed to learn to watch for the red flags, and that if something didn't seem right, to go with your gut instinct and get...
Hi Jeannie, Just read your post. I'd like to chat sometime...Where do we go to chat, ie: how to pursue this? (I'm new to computers). 'Looking forward, lolo ...
Ladies, if I had the time I would love to moderate a chat room. I just don't know if I have time right now. Does anyone else have the time to do it? However, I...
Jeannie, Maybe we can use a chat Unmoderated. I would guess us members could behave ourselves, no? 'Just a thought. jeannie <jeanniearmstrong@...> wrote:...
just a note: unmoderated chat is not a good idea. it is not the current members that you would necessarily have to worry about. there are alot of people who...
I am wondering if it is possible for an abuser to feel abused and not see their own abusive behaviour? Is abuse a learned behaviour from our parents? When do...
My name is Melanie and I am new to this group.......decided it was time to get out and I need to talk to people who could understand. I wonder the same...
I believe the "abuser" can work away at deflating the soul of another person. It is true Melanie, when they feel bad they want to pull others into their pain....
bug, From what I've read and heard from many (fellow) victims.... abusers Almost Always claim they're being "abused" by their victims. And they often don't...
You have to understand that is all the things that you mentioned and more. Power is control and I really believe that they think about what they do, and know...
Yes. My ex had an abandoning father and Horrible male role models. The men he knew as a boy were outlaws, habitual cheaters, and even incest perpetrators....
Melanie, I'm so glad you're here! I also have the impression that my (ex)abuser wanted to "bring me down" to "his level"; ie the level he (deep down, maybe...
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