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my x an i used both.we had a medator an attorney................danc~



In a message dated 2/24/2008 10:25:04 PM Pacific Standard Time,
ewidower@... writes:

One more question: he has proposed using a divorce mediator rather
> than an attorney. Have any of you used a divorce mediator? I've
> asked several people I know about it and I'm not getting any clear
> cut answers as to the advantages vs disadvantages.
>
> Hanging in there...
>
> Blessings,
>
> Karin
>







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Married 26 yrs and been together 28 yrs. His abuse has worsened over the years to the point of my filing for divorce last year. Then he stopped paying bills...
Linda
herbalady7
Offline Send Email 		Feb 19, 2008
5:48 pm

I read your letter below.? I try to think how I have survived recently.? First I read books on abuse like a maniac every spare moment.? This let me know what...
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latestayerupper
Offline Send Email 		Feb 20, 2008
6:04 pm

Thanks to all of you for your support and for sharing your thoughts. The thing is, I told him almost a year ago that things were really bad. I gave him a...
Karin
kmp1218
Offline Send Email 		Feb 19, 2008
5:51 pm

... were really ... unacceptable. *** I gave my husband a list three months before I moved out. Four pages of pouring my heart trying to convey my heartbreak...
Mary
britthalo
Offline Send Email 		Feb 20, 2008
6:03 pm

*** I gave my husband a list three months before I moved out. Four pages of pouring my heart trying to convey my heartbreak and what I could no longer...
ewidower
Offline Send Email 		Feb 22, 2008
6:42 pm

Karin, I agree with Dr. Phil that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. I know what you are going through and admit that they can pour on...
sarah evans
fivefut2
Offline Send Email 		Feb 20, 2008
6:06 pm

Hi Karin, You say he said he had no idea he had pushed you to your limit. That indicates to me that he was fully aware of what it was he was doing all the...
Karen
karenjay59
Offline Send Email 		Feb 22, 2008
6:38 pm

Whether it is a divorce mediator or an attorney, make sure that you feel as well represented as him. My first marriage ended with attorneys, but I think a...
ewidower
Offline Send Email 		Feb 25, 2008
6:24 am

my x an i used both.we had a medator an attorney................danc~ In a message dated 2/24/2008 10:25:04 PM Pacific Standard Time, ewidower@......
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