I also forgot to mention that, he refuses to let me sleep on the couch,
wants to control what I eat, tells me he is the victim in this
relationship, always speaks fantastic about me to others but never in
private. If I do not answer the phone when he calls, then hangs up and
continues to call one after another, esp if I am on the phone with
someone else and wants me to get off because he is calling. Tells me
he will do something and never get to it, I ask him when and his answer
is always later. He does love me, but in a controlling way, unless it
truly is not love and seems like it is. Last week he clogged the toliet
and blamed it on me, by saying I was putting paper towels down the
toliet, which i never did. He is hobby addicted, he goes from
photography, bicycles, horses, golf, guitar, keeps going from one to
another, now it is guns and skeet shooting. I am so so very scared,
people have told me to get out and I panaic, I am so used to the
dysfunction and so used to him....thanks again for listening