Hmm, interesting thought below, Christopher, but I DO support Lee moving to
Hawaii [or anywhere she chose to move].? My son lived in Hawaii for three years
and I visited him there a number of times.? Tax rates are not the only factors
in choosing a home city.? Hawaii's a great and exciting place, and I have
considered moving there myself.

Zest







-----Original Message-----
From: lcms0516@...
To: End_Verbal_Abuse@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sun, 17 Feb 2008 4:17 pm
Subject: Re: {End Verbal Abuse} I Finally Left.....

























Lee, While I support you in leaving, I don't support the move to Hawaii. Hawaii
has the highest tax rate in the United States. My uncle n' his wife, own a
house there(they also own homes in Idaho n' Colorado) but, he is a
multi-millionaire so, he can afford it.



Being a single mother n' living in Hawaii don't go good together.



Christopher



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From: "Lee" <lynlee39@...>



> I told him 5 days before I left.... I told him me and the kids were

> going back to hawaii...... and that week-end he was loving,

> affectionate and told me how much he loved me and he didn't want to

> ever live without me in his life. It was the best week-end I have had

> with him in a very very long time. But I know it was only because he

> knew I was leaving and he would go from one extreme to the other trying

> to make me feel guilty saying I was running out on him when he was at

> his lowest.... It was the HARDEST thing I ever did was say goodbye and

> get in my car and get on that airplane.....the whole time the past 3

> days wondering "Did I make the right decision" "maybe he is right I

> can't make it on my own, maybe I should have never left" but I know I

> did make the right decision for EVERYONE involved but it has been

> really hard and its scarey to be 5000+ miles away but then again I

> think it is good to be so far away cause I can't on a whim (sp) get in

> my car and go be with him there is way to much ocean between us.....

>

> I have to say I do feel relief and heartbreak at the sametime. I feel

> like celebrating and crying at the sametime.....



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