You are recognizing there is a problem and that you need help. Small steps are
good. Keep your head up and remember take one day at a time.


flower <peevee_98@...> wrote:
Thank you for the advise and info...
I know I should be stronger than I am, but I dread going out on my own and
leaving all that I’ve invested in behind… If I file any restraints or begin
any proceedings against him it will infuriate him… he’s the act first and think
later type..

He once slashed 2 tires on someone’s car because they parked too close to
him, making it difficult for him to leave the parking spot…( he said they may
have 1 spare but not 2) - ( he keeps a small knife in his car) I was shaking
at that incident, because I tried to stop him and almost got slashed myself,
for daring to tell him right from wrong…

The physical side has gotten much better, but the verbal is escalating.. as he
gets vocal he actually salivates, and spittle flies out of his mouth.. I almost
think he’ll pop a vein at times, he’s so intense, I can see the hatred in his
eyes, then 10 minutes later, you’d think nothing ever happened… he’ll actually
walk into the room and ask me if I want to watch a movie, or go visit his folks
next weekend,?

The littlest things set him off, he’ll go into the fridge for a half used can
of soda that I’d thrown out 3-4 days before, and when he realizes it’s been
thrown away, he’ll begin ranting about how many times have I been told not to
touch his things…, if he wants to throw it out he will… it is not my f*%&ing
business to throw out or touch his stuff…how many times, etc, etc,, and
then it just goes into a tail spin about a hundred different things,
that I do that are wrong.. ending with name calling, insults and
screaming at the top of his lungs…. Then in a little while…. Nothing,,, he’s
fine again…
I have to start thinking....




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