Dear Friends and Family,
As most of you all know I have been trying to get a divorce for over a year now. All this time my soon to be Ex refused to get a lawyer and was being a real jerk about the whole thing, even with him having a girl friend that he has been living with and is engaged too. (he got engaged less then 6mo after we split.)
The courts ordered a custody evaluation after 6mos of that it came back that Rick was never to see the boys again and that the injunction of protection the courts gave us was to stand! (He had a fit and said I falsified the test lol)
My soon to be Ex got a lawyer after making a fool of himself in court with the judge who set the court date for this Friday at 8 am and wouldn’t talk to him anymore.
The two Lawyers got together and set up a meeting that HIS Lawyer told him, he had to go to and not to
bring the girlfriend to (LOL yes he had been bring her to all the other meetings. I did say he was a jerk?)
The Lawyers got him to understand he wasn’t getting the kids after the abuse he gave them and he was never going to see them again but I did ok letters and card.
But the boys do not have to read them. He pays child support until the youngest turns 18 and half the bills he put in my name. (Not all that fair since they are all his but that is the law)
BUT it is over I am FREE, FREE, FREE, FREE, FREE, FREE, FREE, FREE, FREE, FREE, FREE, to live my life now and have a live now!
I’ll be taking the next few days off to be with the kids. They are home from spring break and they couldn’t be happier that this crap is all over. I’ll be keeping my same last name to match the boys but they have all say they want a name change as well so we will see how that goes.
I can’t believe this nightmare is over. I was shocked when my lawyer told me it was all over and
we didn’t have to go to court again! I think I am still in a state of shock!
Love ya all Pamela
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