I think if you tell them after only a couple conversations that most of them say they don't care.  But I found most women when they find out you have a disability they just want to be friends.  And I think that's helping start out with everybody or should be.  They should be just friends.  And then I think sometimes things click and then it depends on what they want to take on with regard to helping you or taken care of you.  I did have a girlfriend in 2005 and she broke up with me in six months.  But she did say that she worried about the future with me.  And my cares.  We stayed friends probably six more months and then lost track of each other.  I learned a lot during that time including what not to do.

I will just say that you can expect difficulty having woman accepting you with your disability.  Not to say but it is impossible just real bad odds.  Part of it is just today's society with money being very important and also looks.  Children are fed this from birth.  Woman want to find men protect them and men want to find women that will make them look good.  Yes not every one believes this but to some extent with regard to people with disabilities many women still would shy away from it.

You know there are some people without disabilities that cannot find someone either and never do.

 

.  Tim Carey

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