Today's thought from Hazelden is: Accepting Love Many of us have worked too hard to make relationships work; sometimes those relationships didn't have a chance...
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Definitely thank you for all of your sharing. So much of what is in this message strand are things I do. I just became aware that I am codependent this year,...
I can completely relate to you. I too still feel like I might die if I am alone, as hard as I try to fight this feeling it keeps coming back, I very much dont...
Hi there, my name is Angie. I joined this board a while ago, but I have never posted. I guess that it is time for me to post and tell a little about myself. I...
Hi Angie and welcome! When you're new in recovery, I believe that it's very important to be selfish and put your own needs first much of the time, if not all...
I am a recovering codependent. I never look at people, places, or things in the same way that a "normie" does. My name is Christi. All of my relationships...
Today's thought from Hazelden is: Our work brings people face to face with love. --Mother Teresa Whether we are sowing a garden, tending the sick, role...
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Martha Mitchell Effect The Martha Mitchell Effect is the process by which a psychiatrist, psychologist, or other mental health clinician mistakes the patient's...
Hello.....I thought your post was very well written and extremely interesting. Fears. I know all about fears. I think you must be a very interesting person....
Hi Christi, I felt the need to respond to your post. Your insight into fear and how fear is the root of all addictions and codependency. I agree, after...
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact. --William James Many of...
I really feel that the time has come for me to attend one of these meetings. I found that there is a group locally, and there is a meeting every day of the...
... it is an indicator that something is wrong. It does sound to me like he didn't treat you well. People have a way of making other people feel wrong...
I hope there will be more posts forthcoming on this topic because I too always feel that I'm being selfish.? I used to be VERY giving and I think that little...
I see that some are looking for more than they are getting here. I'm a 56 year old male who was introduced to the concept of codependence when my first...
I too want to attend a meeting. I havent located an actual CODA meeting, but my church offers a recovery night every friday night which includes a service and...
Today's thought from Hazelden is: Ordinary moments Saving a time for quiet appreciation... An aesthetic life, in the broad sense, is a spiritual life. Couples ...
Hi Angie, I know how you feel. I have always been a giving person and have always been told what a great quality that is and now I am trying to recover from...
I wish you strength Chrstine!!!! For me it was very scary, but very liberating and life affirming for me to break ties and make new boundaries with a family...
go to www.codependents.org and you can find a meeting there by your city and state click on locate meeting. stephanie <stephanie_strausser@...> wrote:...
Your post reminded me of me! It's because, for me, I'm a codependent. I am trying to pursue unavailable men, or love avoidance addicts constantly. It's like I...
I wish you strength and courage in your new, better work situation! Congratulations! I had a similar experience, just in that I had an unfortunate work ...