Our Deepest Fear by Marianne Williamson (from her book "A Return to Love") Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are...
This Excerpt: Overcoming Fear [I suppose that on its face, the anecdote I share in this essay might seem mundane. Yet it represents a way of definitely - if...
A Guy's Editorial on "VictimThink" by Dr. Irene August 13, 2000 I got the following email recently: "I was going to write in a really sarcastic post (I...
Blaming The Victim vs. The Defensive Victim by Dr. Irene "Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame." -Erica Jong...
Remembering the Trauma In the same way that it is necessary to feel your emotions to be able to have a fully realized life, you will need to remember your...
Take Your Power: Tips for the Abused by Dr. Irene "You must be the change you wish to see in the world." -Mahatma Ghandi Never forget that your partner's...
BLAME Blame never affirms, it assaults. Blame never restores, it wounds. Blame never solves, it complicates. Blame never unites, it separates. Blame never...
Welcome to Co-Dependents Anonymous: The CoDA World Fellowship _http://www.codependents.org/_ (http://www.codependents.org/) Free Terri In a message dated...
FORGIVE YOURSELF Make a list of all the decisions, actions, thoughts, that you feel you need to forgive yourself for. You need not show this to anyone....
Is it Love or Infatuation? Taken from drirene.com Infatuation is instant desire. It is one set of glands calling to another. Love is a friendship that has...
Online Help for Love Addicts by Susan Peabody, author of Addiction to Love: Overcoming Obsession and Dependency in Relationships. Love addiction comes in many...
LOVE ADDICTION... WHAT IS IT? WHO GETS IT? And WHY? Brenda Schaeffer Real love is not addiction nor is addiction love. Yet, because of the human condition,...
THE NEED TO BE NEEDED: CODEPENDENCE The term codependency, as first used in the alcohol treatment field, meant any person whose life was seriously affected...
Five Short Chapters on Change Chapter 1. I walk down a street and there's a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. It takes forever to get out. It's not my...
This photo of the prototype for a new Donald Trump Doll just kills me! Especially in light of the Trump VS O'Donell verbal combat going on as of late: Free...
Answering Machine of the Mental Health Hotline: "Hello, and welcome to the mental health hotline: If you are obsessive-compulsive, press 1 repeatedly. If you...
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WHAT KIND OF LIAR? It's not uncommon for abusers to be a combination of liar type! I.e., an abuser can be a PATHOLOGICAL LIAR and believe many of his/her...
PT :1 The Mystery of Loving an Abuser *Please note: this piece is not being shared as means of giving anyone a "reason" to remain with an abuser -only as a...
PT 2: The Mystery of Loving an Abuser *Please note: this piece is not being shared as means of giving anyone a "reason" to remain with an abuser -only as a...
Marital Rape "Damn it, when you get married, you kind of expect you're going to get a little sex." -- Senator Jeremiah Denton, Republican, Alabama, 1981 Is sex...
DATE: 1/26/07 IMPORTANT MESSAGE FROM YAHOO! GROUPS: "We are currently experiencing a Groups email backlog. Messages posted yesterday or today may be delayed or...
Today's thought is: Watching a child acquire language, I realize, again, that naming things demystifies them. --Mary Casey Sharing with another our fears of...
Today's thought is: We have the power to direct our minds to replace the feelings of being upset, depressed, and fearful with the feeling of inner peace. ...
Couple's and Marital Counseling Not Recommended... If Your Partner is a Verbal/Emotional Abuser: There are issues to be aware of regarding counseling for...
NO MEANS NO POLICE SAY MAN DIED FROM WIFE'S BITES AND MAY FACE HOMICIDE CHARGES... Chronicle Staff Writer 2002 She wanted sex. He was too ill and tired. So...
Hi Everybody: Just a reminder: although the article below emphasizes wives being raped by their husbands and includes the commentary of some male politicians...
POSTSCRIPT: I hope this definitively clarifies matters for all of you followers of certain authors who are so irate because I will not permit articles or ...
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