Forgiving Your Abuser... If I had to think of a situation that was less conducive to forgiving another's behavior, it would have to be when a marriage is...
Help! I Still Love My Abuser! by Dr. Irene To achieve, you need thought... that's real power. - Ayn Rand In a recent email, a reader asked the following...
Help! Can I Fix It (My Codependency)? by Dr. Irene Matiatos Good news! You certainly can! You can get control over your life! You can stop trying to control...
A Trip To The Wizard I’m on my way to oz you see To get myself a heart. Those around me tell me now Mine has fallen all apart. The love that I once knew ...
Website of way cool codependency author Robert Burney! _http://www.joy2meu.com/_ (http://www.joy2meu.com/) (http://www.beverlyengel.com/) "Insanity: doing...
BEVERLY ENGEL Website of way cool author Beverly Engel! _http://www.beverlyengel.com/_ (http://www.beverlyengel.com/) "Insanity: doing the same thing over and...
PT 1: Setting Personal Boundaries - protecting self _http://www.joy2meu.com/_ (http://www.joy2meu.com/) "The purpose of having boundaries is to protect and...
1. The best way to get even is to forget about him or her... 2. Feed your faith and your doubts will starve to death... 3. God wants spiritual fruit, not...
Holiday Depression & Domestic Violence Every year it seems to get worse. When I first became a cop, I was a bit surprised to see what the holidays do to some...
Toxic Shame by Leo Booth/John Bradshaw *Explicit Language Abuse creates toxic shame - the feeling of being flawed and diminished and never measuring up....
Former Target of Verbal Abuse: You are hereby certified as having completed The Verbal Abuse: Fight Back! Program by successfully: Learning about verbal...
With Every Good-Bye I Learn... After awhile I began to learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. And I learned that love was...
A Survival Kit for Every Day TOOTHPICK - to remind you to pick the good qualities in everyone including yourself. RUBBERBAND - to remind you to be flexible....
You are Important! Your presence, is a present to the world. You're unique and one of a kind. Your life can be, what you want it to be. Take the days, just...
Eliminating Rage How does rage manifest itself? When I am in a rage I: act without thinking. am out of control both emotionally and sometimes physically. ...
AGGRESSION VERSUS ASSERTIVENESS Stephen Harrison, PMP Abstract: Explores the difference between aggression and assertiveness, how to recognize each, and...
Tell Me More About Control! Why do abusers & victims both appear abusive? by Dr. Irene One of the most difficult concepts for the abusive and the abused is ...