"As long as we believe that we have to have the other in our life to be happy, we are really just an addict trying to protect our supply - using another person...
Awakening With The Enemy by Mark Dillof "Life is a hospital in which all of the patients are continually trying to change beds." -- Baudelaire When we are...
Accepting Personal Responsibility Content: What is accepting personal responsibility? How can failing to accept personal responsibility result in negative ...
Why Is It Always About You? : The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism by Sandy Hotchkiss http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0743214285/templeofwisdo-20 ...
What's Wrong With My Boundaries? by Dr. Irene Boundaries distinguish each individual's "territory," the place where personal responsibility begins and ends....
HOW TO COPE WITH ABUSE By: Sam Vaknin April 29, 2004 Dear Readers, and one more excellent submission from Dr. Sam... Dr. Irene Violence in the family often...
The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/006091565X/templeofwisdo-20 Book...
Can Abusers Change? Abusive relationships do not change without sustained therapy specifically targeted toward the abusive relationship patterns. It only takes...
Quandary: Who is the Victim, who is the Abuser? by DR Irene ..."I printed out a lot of pages from this site for my husband because he is an abuser. He thought...
Affirmation Cards to encourage self worth by Cheryl Rainfield http://www.cherylrainfield.com/random_card.html I am sure it is a great mistake always to know...
Articles and Tips on Self-Love and Nurturing Your Soul - and How to Transform Self Hate http://www.cherylrainfield.com/articles.html I am sure it is a great...
The Language of Letting Go (Hazelden Meditation Series) by Melody Beattie http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0894866370/templeofwisdo-20 The Language of...
Family of Origin Roles: Who Are You? The troubled or "dysfunctional" family does not always include obvious afflictions such as alcohol or drug addiction,...
A Dance of Suffering, Shame, and Self-abuse by Robert Burney M.A. "The reason that we have not been Loving our neighbor as ourselves is because we have been...
Emotional Incest By Robert Burney M.A. "Consider a scenario where mother is crying in her bedroom and her three year old toddles into the room. To the child it...
Emotions are energy. Actual physical energy that is manifested in our bodies. Emotions are not thoughts - they do not exist in our mind. Our mental ...
Journeys to the Emotional Frontier Within By Robert Burney M.A. "The way to stop reacting out of our inner children is to release the stored emotional energy...
"What we live with we learn, and what we learn we practice, and what we practice, we become.... and what we become has consequences"...... AND almost always, I...
In a war soldiers have to deny what it feels like to see friends killed and maimed; what it feels like to kill other human beings and have them attempting to...
Healing Toxic Shame By: J. Bailey Molineux Oct 31, 2002, 16:15 Whatever you call it - low self-esteem, a poor self-concept or toxic shame - if you don't...
Abusive Relationships and Toxic Guilt by Patty E. Fleener M.S.W I believe that most of us, especially those of us who have mental health disorders, feel guilt...
Happy Holidays, Sad Holidays Robert Burney M.A. Holidays, Anniversaries, and Birthdays - set up by emotional expectations... The holidays were always a very...
"Why Does He Do That? Inside The Minds Of Angry And Controlling Men" Lundy Bancroft breaks the cycle of abuse and blows the cover off abusive men, revealing...
Codependency and Christian Living Codependency is one of the most underestimated issues within the church today. It affects everyone. Let me repeat, it...
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