In the Meantime: Finding Yourself and the Love You Want by Iyanla Vanzant
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0684848066/templeofwisdo-20
Synopsis: Self-help counselor Vanzant talks about creative and honest use of
the "meantime" between relationships to help women (and men) avoid repeating
unproductive behaviors of the past. You know where you want to be, but you have
no clue how to get there. You know exactly what you want in life, but what
you want is nowhere in sight. Or perhaps your vision is unclear, your purpose
still undefined. On top of it all, your relationships, particularly your
romantic relationships, are failing. If these scenarios feel familiar way down
in the
deepest part of your gut -- then you, my dear, are smack dab in the middle of
the meantime.
Every living being wants to experience the light of love. The problem is that
our windows are dirty! The windows of our hearts and minds are streaked with
past pains and hurts, past memories and disappointments. In this book, Iyanla
Vanzant teaches us how to do our mental housekeeping so that we can clean the
windows, floors, walls, closets, and corners of our minds. If we do a good
job, our spirits will shine bringing in the light of true love and happiness.
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