<<What else are we doing besides medication for our ADHD?>>

The best of all worlds for ADHD treatment is a multi-modal (or combination) approach.  Medication alone doesn't "fix" everything, even though its an excellent start.  If you add other aides such as counseling and/or coaching, and education about ADHD in general plus yours in particular, you're going to be in a much better place in every area of your life.