I have been reading all  the postings and I just wonder if any of you have gotten straight answers from your doctors. My husband has to see his neurosurgeon this Thursday and I wonder if there are any questions we need to ask ? It seems we are all looking for something and being left in the dark. In almost every post there are things I can relate to with my husband, and it seems that no one person can get any help as to what to expect next. My husband and I  were talking the other day and throwing up scenarios with the doctors, like what if he says this is the best we can expect the rest is downhill. We feel like we are floating away in a sea of uncertainity. How many things can he keep dealing with.