Don't be terrific it's not worth your energy.  I belong to 2 yahoo groups related to cancer, etc.  I am a cancer survivor age 46.  22 million people have HPV.  There are hpv 16 and 18 that can cause cancer.  But most of the time they don't.  Your abnormal pap is nothing to freak out about. If is low grade dysplasia or moderate your doctor will determine when to schedule you for a copolscopy.  I will send you a very helpful HPV article.  You're no slut silly.  Who cares what mom thinks.  Hang in there Andrea