Hey Bart,
Sorry to hear about her brother and sister, I know that when my mother passed
away, I was in charge of selling and dividing her items. Although we still have
not divided anything, we like it where it is. But I had 1 sister that just
thought I was screwing everyone over. It's a good thing that I kept documents.
She feels a little silly today, so she says, My mother wasn't even buried and
she hired an attorney, tried to drag my other sister into it with her, and it
worked.
But the difference between my situation and yours, is that our family was close
knit, and all got along like best friends. For her to do that to me hurt. As of
today I have a hard time telling her anything, because I'm unsure if she is
trying to twist things around to make me look like a fool to my other siblings,
or if she is trying to be my friend again. This is the same sister that thought
everyone owed her something, but was never there to help mom.
See I took care of my mother day and night for 2 years straight, after she
passed away I had no idea what to do with my time, I didn't want to go back to
the work force, because I had a baby at home, I felt lost as you do. And still
do most of the time.
Hang in there.
Talk to ya later
Janice