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Forgiveness VI:
This month, a series of articles and helpful information about forgiveness will be shared in this newsletter, to continue a trend that was started earlier this year.
Forgiveness or Resentment
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Everyone has a victim story, which began with an event that gave birth to a particular belief that the world was a difficult, dangerous place. No matter when it occurred, the victim story is operating in every aspect of their life. Present lifetime victim stories are often carryovers of events from past lifetimes and the goal of the current lifetime is to transform this victim cycle into spiritual wholeness and power. But within the reality of our victim story we are truly powerless until we can make the choice to forgive our tormenters or continue to resent them.
We are told we must forgive those who have hurt us and that can be hard to do, especially since some victim stories are very painful. How do we forgive someone who has hurt, traumatized, betrayed or physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually damaged us? Some people have done the unforgivable to us-but is anything unforgivable in the eyes of God? To understand forgiveness let's look at its opposite, resentment. When we are not willing to forgive someone we are in the energy of resentment, which carries its own burdens.
We resent the person who hurt us and want them to apologize, ask us for forgiveness and give us closure. We want to understand their motivations, their purpose behind causing us so much pain. Without this closure we resent them and what they did. This leads to the creation of our victim story, which takes on a life of its own and becomes our life template. It doesn't matter how long ago it happened, each time we remember or talk about it we re-experience it and all of its energy and create it in our life. And we continue to resent our abuser for what they did to us and for what happened in our life because of their actions, forgetting the karma, soul lessons and healing that they, and we, are part of. When we can forgive we transform the energy of resentment into something more life affirming and release ourselves from our own victim story.
Forgiveness is a challenging aspect of our spiritual journey because it requires us to transcend emotion and view life from a different perspective. It is not a gift that we give to another, it is the way we end karma, achieve our own closure and release ourselves from our victim paradigm. Forgiveness is the higher aspect of resentment and gives us the ability to write an ending to our victim story, which we participate in to heal our own soul traumas. The choice is ours and whatever we choose is appropriate for our soul's journey. But if we truly want to end our victim story and step into our power, forgiveness is the option we can embrace. Is there someone in your life that you resent? Can you forgive them, knowing that doing so releases you from the victim story they represent to you? Give yourself the gift of forgiveness so you can reclaim your power in this situation and move into the life of your dreams.
Jennifer Hoffman is an intuitive, spiritual healer, mentor, teacher and author. She also channels the energy of the Archangel Uriel. Jennifer has helped many people through the Shift through her unique insights and counsel, facilitating their healing journey. Jennifer is the founder of www.urielheals.com, an on-line spiritual healing and growth center and dedicated to the messages and teachings of Archangel Uriel. Information about Jennifer's books, on-line seminars and services is available at her websites, or email healing@... for information. *
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Following are ten ways to practice nurturing your intention to respect yourself at all times:
Step 1: Look into a mirror, make eye connection with yourself,
and say "I love me" as many times as possible during your day. I love
me: These three magic words help you maintain your self-respect. Now,
be aware that saying these words maybe difficult at first because of
the conditions you've been exposed to over a lifetime and because the
words may bring to the surface remnants of disrespect that your ego
wants you to hold on to.
Your immediate impulse might be to see this as an expression of your
ego's desire to be superior to everyone else. But this is not an ego
statement at all - it's an affirmation of self-respect. Transcend that
ego mind and affirm your love for yourself and your connection to the
spirit of God. This doesn't make you superior to anyone; it makes you
equal to all and celebrates that you're in a piece of God. Affirm it
for your own self-respect. Affirm it in order to be respectful of that
which intended you here. Affirm it because it's the way you'll stay
connected to your Source and regain the power of intention. I love me.
Say it without embarrassment. Say it proudly and be that image of love
and self-respect.
Step 2: Write the following affirmation and repeat it over and
over again to yourself: I am whole and perfect as I was created! Carry
this thought with you wherever you go. Have it laminated and place it
in your pocket, on your dashboard, on your refrigerator or next to your
bed - allow the words to become a source of high energy and
self-respect. By simply carrying these words with you and being in the
same space with them, their energy will flow directly to you.
Self-respect emerges from the fact that you respect the Source from
which you came and you've made a decision to reconnect to that Source,
regardless of what anyone else might think. It's very important to keep
reminding yourself at the beginning that you're worthy of infinite
respect from the one Source you can always count on, the piece of God
energy that defines you. This reminder will do wonders for your
self-respect, and consequently your ability to use the power of
intention in your life. Over and over, remind yourself: I'm not my
body. I'm not my accumulations. I'm not my achievements. I'm not my
reputation. I am whole and perfect as I was created!
Step 3: Extend more respect to others and to all of life.
Perhaps the greatest secret of self-esteem is to appreciate other
people more. The easiest way to do this is to see the unfolding of God
in them. Look past the judgments of others' appearance, failures and
successes, their status in society, their wealth or lack of it - and
extend appreciation and love to the Source from which they came.
Everyone is a child of God - everyone! Try to see this even in those
who behave in what appears to be a godless fashion. Know that by
extending love and respect, you can turn that energy around so that
it's heading back to its Source rather than away from it. In short,
send out respect because that is what you have to give away. Send out
judgment and low energy and that is what you'll attract back. Remember,
when you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself as
someone who needs to judge. The same applies to judgments directed at
you.
Step 4: Affirm to yourself and all others that you meet, I
belong! A sense of belonging is one of the highest attributes on
Abraham Maslow's pyramid of self-actualization (see February 2007 issue
of phenomeNEWS). Feeling that you don't belong or you're in the wrong
place can be due to a lack of self-respect. Respect yourself and your
divinity by knowing that everyone belongs. This should never come into
question. Your presence here in the universe is proof alone that you
belong here. No person decides if you belong here. No government
determines if some belong and some don't. This is an intelligent system
that you're a part of. The wisdom of Creation intended you to be here,
in this place, in this family with these siblings and parents,
occupying this precious space. Say it to yourself and affirm it
whenever necessary: I belong! And so does everyone else. No one is here
by accident!
Step 5: Remind yourself that you're never alone. My self-respect
stays intact as long as I know that it's impossible for me to be alone.
I have a "senior partner" who's never abandoned me and who's stuck with
me even in moments when I had seemingly deserted my Source. I feel that
if the universal mind has enough respect to allow me to come here and
to work through me - and to protect me in times when I strayed onto
dangerous nonspiritual turf - then this partnership deserves my
reciprocal respect. I recall my friend Pat McMahon, a talk-show host on
KTAR radio in Phoenix, Arizona, telling me about his encounter with
Mother Teresa in his studio before interviewing her for his program. He
pleaded with her to allow him to do something for her. "Anything at
all," he begged. "I'd just like to help you in some way." She looked at
him and said, "Tomorrow morning get up at 4:00 A.M. and go out onto the
streets of Phoenix. Find someone who lives there and believes that he's
alone and convince him that he's not." Great advice, because everyone
who wallows in self-doubt or appears to be lost has lost their
self-respect because they've forgotten that they're not alone.
Step 6: Respect your body! You've been provided with a perfect
body to house your inner invisible being for a few brief moments in
eternity. Regardless of its size, shape, color or any imagined
infirmities, it's a perfect creation for the purpose that you were
intended here for. You don't need to work at getting healthy; health is
something you already have if you don't disturb it. You may have
disturbed your healthy body by overfeeding it, under exercising it and
over stimulating it with toxins or drugs that make it sick, fatigued,
jumpy, anxious, depressed, bloated, ornery or an endless list of
maladies. You can begin the fulfillment of this intention to live a
life of self-respect by honoring the temple that houses you. You know
what to do. You don't need another diet, workout manual or personal
trainer. Go within, listen to your body and treat it with all of the
dignity and love that your self-respect demands.
Step 7: Meditate to stay in conscious contact with your Source,
which always respects you. I can't say this enough: meditation is a way
to experience what the five senses can't detect. When you're connected
to the field of intention, you're connected to the wisdom that's within
you. That divine wisdom has great respect for you and it cherishes you
while you're here. Meditation is a way to ensure that you stay in a
state of self-respect. Regardless of all that goes on around you, when
you enter into that sacred space of meditation, all doubts about your
value as an esteemed creation dissolve. You'll emerge from the
solemnity of meditation feeling connected to your Source and enjoying
respect for all beings, particularly yourself.
Step 8: Make amends with adversaries. The act of making amends
sends out a signal of respect for your adversaries. By radiating this
forgiving energy outward, you'll find this same kind of respectful
positive energy flowing back toward you. By being big enough to make
amends and replace the energy of anger, bitterness and tension with
kindness - even if you still insist that you're right - you'll respect
yourself much more than prior to your act of forgiveness. If you're
filled with rage toward anyone, there's a huge part of you that resents
the presence of this debilitating energy. Take a moment right here and
now to simply face that person who stands out in your mind as someone
you hurt, or directed hurt to you, and tell him or her that you'd like
to make amends. You'll notice how much better you feel. That good
feeling of having cleared the air is self-respect. It takes much more
courage, strength of character and inner conviction to make amends than
it does to hang on to the low-energy feelings.
Step 9: Always remember the self in self-respect. In order to do
this, you must recognize that the opinions of others toward you aren't
facts, they're opinions. When I speak to an audience of 500 people,
there are 500 opinions of me in the room at the end of the evening. I'm
none of those opinions. I can't be responsible for how they view me.
The only thing I can be responsible for is my own character, and this
is true for every one of us. If I respect myself, then I'm relying on
the self in self-respect. If I doubt myself, or punish myself, I've not
only lost my self-respect, I'll continue to attract more and more doubt
and lower-energy opinions with which to further punish myself. You
can't stay linked to the universal mind, which intends all of us here,
if you fail to rely on your self for your self-respect.
Step 10: Be in a state of gratitude. You'll discover that
gratitude is the final step in each succeeding chapter. Be an
appreciator rather than a depreciator of everything that shows up in
your life. When you're saying, Thank you, God, for everything, and when
you're expressing gratitude for your life and all that you see and
experience, you're respecting Creation. This respect is within you, and
you can only give away what you have inside. Being in a state of
gratitude is the exact same thing as being in a state of respect -
respect for yourself, which you give away freely and which will return
to you tenfold. I close with the words of Jesus of Nazareth, speaking
through his apostle Saint Matthew (Matthew 5:48): "Be perfect,
therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect." Reconnect to the
perfection from which you originated. You can't have any more
self-respect than that!
On Fri, Nov 7, 2008 at 4:25 AM, Richard Presser <richard.presser@...> wrote:
Dear Dayu,
I can vouch for some of these but not all, however I can add
King Arthur, King Richard, Joseph of Arimathea and Akhenaton/Moses.
Blessings, joy and peace.
Richard
From:In_Joy@yahoogroups.com [mailto:In_Joy@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Dayawanti D'Sa Sent: Friday, 7 November 2008 19:45 To: in_joy Subject: [In_Joy] *CenteredintheHeartSpace* You'll never guess who St.
Germain was in a previous incarnation....
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Subject: *CenteredintheHeartSpace* You'll never guess who St. Germain was in a
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was in a previous incarnation....3 guesses and then scroll down for the
answer....
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Subject: Inspiration and Transformation Newsletter for 2/18/08 To: Inspiration and Transformation <InspirationTransformation@...>
Inspiration and Transformation Newsletter
Lynne Namka, Ed. D.
Quote for the week:
"Peace is not an idea.Peace is not a political movement, not a theory or a dogma.Peace is a way of life; living mindfully in the present moment…..It is not a question of politics, but of actions. It is not a matter of improving a political system or even taking care of homeless people alone.These are valuable but will not alone end war and suffering.We must simply stop the endless wars that rage within….Imagine, if everyone stopped the wars in themselves—there would be no seeds from which war could grow."
Practitioners of the ancient art of Alchemy worked long and hard to transform base metals into precious ones.The ancient alchemists studied old texts, consulted astrological charts, added new raw materials and experimented with burning away that which was not of use to try to find the formula to change lead into gold.
Alchemy as in the more spiritual sense is about a transformation of emotions and moods. Alchemy of the spirit achieves transformation from impatience to understanding, impulsiveness to consideration and from anger to forgiveness.The power of transformation resides first and foremost in the human spirit.The pain of broken relationships, abuse, neglect, betrayal and loss can hurt you so badly that you have developed a habit of getting angry to keep the pain at bay.
Alchemy uses the power of the human spirit to evolve and grow.It starts with a longing for something different and to release what no longer fits you.Like the spiritual alchemists who understood that it was not the material good that they sought but to become an enlightened being, you can burn away the dross and unhealthy from your life.Your unhappy beliefs, habits, emotions and attitudes are the raw materials that can be released.Something good can come forth from the ashes of your life. You can learn how to transform the stress that's often tied to an interfering conflict energy which arises from unresolved painful memories of the past.
The alchemy of anger is learning to work with your emotions to create a calm, successful, loving life.The ancient alchemists experimented to try to transfer base materials into something valuable.Through trial and error they searched for the secret element called the Philosopher's Stone that would transform their whole cauldron into that sparkling prized gold.
Going for the gold is a metaphor for gaining the skills necessary for a happy life.I'm an old alchemist who keeps working different formulas to gain the prize of a contented mind and loving relationships.My quest isn't for actual gold.I'm looking to transform the energy of highly distressing feelings into something better.What I search for is the recipe for growth and movement to a higher consciousness.So to begin with, here is my secret formula.
The Recipe for Life Transformation
Start with one human being who has normal feelings plus intense feelings of anger from being frightened and overwhelmed earlier in life.
đPour in the current situation that throws you into physically powerful, negative emotions
đAdd the motivation for change and the intention for growth
đMix in the social skills that are necessary for connection with others
đFold in gently the positive communication skills that promote loving relationships
đSubtract the old triggers that set you off by desensitizing them through self-acupressure
đPour in continuous positive self-talk using words for calming and empowerment
đStir carefully and breathe deeply to bring balance to your body and harmony to your mind
đAdd the emotional regulation skills from Energy Psychology to release bad feelings
đMix gently with forgiveness and love—those secret ancient Philosopher's Stones
đRepeat and cook until done.
You can bring about these changes in your mind, brain and in your self, not by magic, but by learning and using these tools of transformation.As a modern-day alchemist, the only one you can change is yourself.You are given but one life to live and what you make of it is up to you. Use the transformational tools in your journey to becoming a better person from Energy Psychology to help you learn to express your anger in more loving, acceptable ways.I wish you well in your alchemical process.
Questions regarding the content of this newsletter, comments or written contributions can be directed to inspirationcontact@....Please remember that I cannot provide you with any advice of a personal nature.But help is out there somewhere!Do reach out and get a qualified professional to help you sort through your issues.Please check out my web sitewww.AngriesOut.comfor ideas and numerous downloadable articles on a wide range of subjects.You can also click on the 'Finding a Therapist' link to take you to the section entitled, "Finding a Competent Therapist with Great Training."
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Thank you to all who subscribe and pass on this newsletter to those who want to stay motivated and in touch with the global, nondenominational spiritual community.
"Power is of two kinds.One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love.Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent than the one derived from the fear of punishment."
Just love everybody that
interacts with you no matter how personally, or how peripherally,
involved with you they are. The efficiency of the people who deal with
you... everything is orchestrated by the manager called Law of
Attraction. And your vibration is setting all of it into motion.
Everything affecting you is a reflection of the vibration that you are
emitting. Spend more time focused upon your dream than upon the
reality. The reality gives birth to the dream -- but the dream is where
you are wanting to put your attention.
Excerpted from the workshop in Houston, TX on Saturday, January 13th, 2001
---------- Forwarded message ---------- From: Linda Nelson <
kaymottet@...> Date: Nov 26, 2007 9:12 AM
Subject: [PIVOTinJoy] Your Inner Being - Abraham Hicks To: PIVOTinJoy@yahoogroups.com
Your Inner Being
Participant: I would like to meet my Inner Being, to really finally go
for the understanding of knowing my own Inner Being personally.
Abraham:
It's not so hard as you all make it out to be.
Your Inner Being likes to skip.
And your Inner Being likes to laugh.
And your Inner Being likes to think about things.
And your Inner Being likes to offer compliments.
And your Inner Being likes to feel appreciation.
And your Inner Being likes to contemplate something that is not fully
understood or focused in the moment, and then feel the understanding
come forth.
In other words, your Inner Being is just like your frisky two year old
who is eager for life experience. And so the way you meet up with your
Inner Being is you be like that now. You be like that as much as you
can be. … …
We think that understanding what it's like to be in connection with
your Inner Being is the first step in allowing a full moment to moment
exposure.
… …
What we are getting at is there is this unquenchable – that when you
are tapped in with the resources that are your Source, you feel
invincible. The ideas flow. You feel absolutely limitless. It feels to
you that anything you can think of you can fulfill easily.
… …
When you are really in the flow with your Inner Being, ideas come
easily; they are implemented easily; it's fun while you are in the
process of them; and it doesn't matter how they unfold; and nothing
can go wrong and it doesn't matter if you don't get it done,
it's just fun to do it. Your Inner Being feels no limits. So anything
that feels likes limits is something that is self-imposed.
So when we hear you say, "I'm wanting to romp more with my Inner
Being. I'm wanting to know more what that's like…" we say then just
pretend - it's not really pretending but it helps to look at it that
way - that your Inner Being is an unlimited friend who is always fun
and always feels good. And you are wanting to be as much in sync with
that good friend as possibly could be.
So you talk about what feels good. You remember what feels good. You
never get into a critical conversation. You don't talk about what is
if it doesn't please you. You don't dig up old memories that don't
please you. You don't worry about what's going on in the
news.
You don't take some stance on some side of some issue and push against
it. In other words, when you are in sync with your Inner Being, you
are in a joy based moment, moment after moment after moment after
moment. Your Inner Being is so aware of the well being of your time
space reality, and revels in how it is all working together and
enjoys so much this magnificent Law of Attraction, and respects so
much everybody's individual perspective, that your Inner Being feels
no grief, not ever, about what anyone is choosing – and tremendous joy
always about what every body is choosing.
You want to be more Inner Being like, you just have to worry a whole
lot less and laugh a whole lot more. And criticize never and praise
always. And when you develop those patterns, you will be in the flow
with your Inner Being where you will be intuitive, you will
be dancing the dance with others that are like you and you will be
just like these birds that are flocking together in pure harmony,
always moving in the perfect motion and having a joyous time in the
process of it.
From:
PIVOTinJoy@yahoogroups.com [mailto:PIVOTinJoy@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Dayawanti D'Sa Sent: Wednesday, November 21, 2007
4:50 PM To: pivotinjoy Subject: [PIVOTinJoy] Conceive,
Perceive, Believe and Achieve Manifestation
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From: Misty-Eve <misty-eve@druidcraft.us>
Date: Nov 21, 2007 4:20 PM
Subject: Conceive, Perceive, Believe and Achieve Manifestation
To: dayawanti@gmail.com
I've never seen a magical goal manifest for
me that I couldn't conceive of. In other words, if I can't see myself
doing, feeling and living the life available after achieving my goal… it just doesn't happen.
I know a couple who are trying to sell their abode. Every time they get an
offer, they seem to change their thinking to how great it was to live there
and all the things they'd be giving up to move away. This melancholy -
"I don't want that" – feeling, then brings about conflicting
visions of their future. First they want to move, and then they don't. This
mix of vibration causes the offers to go away.
First they conceived of the new goal of selling the house and moving away.
Then they perceived themselves doing this. However, this vision changed
their belief that this would be a good thing – which changed the frequency
of their thought vibrations. They began drawing to them a vibrational match
for their changed thought. They really shouldn't have been surprised that
the manifestation didn't happen due to these conflicting thoughts. But they were!
Has that ever happened to you? You
have conflicting thoughts about something… first you want it, then you
don't… and before you know it, the thing you wanted fades out of your
experience and goes away.
"The Universe is not discriminating about the rightness or the
wrongness of your request. It is here to accommodate all requests. All you
have to do is be a Vibrational Match to your request, and the Universe will
yield it to you. Instant manifestations will become a daily occurrence for
you when you, yourself, are not contradicting your own vibrational
desires." ~ Abraham-Hicks
Nearly everything I have in my life was achieved with magic. I've had
enough of my magical goals manifest to know that when I want something
badly enough, I can see it, feel it, taste it. I'm there! I'm living the life I'm dreaming of! I know
this goal will manifest because I believe I will achieve the dream, and I
can see myself living the dream! My entire being … all the way down into
the depths of my core being … is joyfully experiencing the dream … and at
that point I KNOW it will happen,
because this is the feeling
of achievement!
"Talk to your Inner Being about what you want and why you want it. And
let your Inner Being offer to you, in your dream state, images that you can
flow Energy toward, which will cause your vibrational state to be as you
want it to be. And then the Law of Attraction will bring it to you." ~ Abraham-Hicks
What holds you back from achieving your
dreams? Do you believe you want it badly enough? Can you see
yourself living the dream? Can you experience the joy of this achievement
before it comes to you? Do you truly
believe and expect it to happen?
From:
PIVOTinJoy@yahoogroups.com [mailto:PIVOTinJoy@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Dayawanti D'Sa Sent: Wednesday, November 21, 2007
4:47 PM To: PIVOTinJoy@yahoogroups.com Cc: In_Joy@yahoogroups.com Subject: [PIVOTinJoy] The Daffodil
Principle
Those who bring
sunshine into the lives of
others, cannot keep it from themselves.
Several times my daughter had telephoned to say. "Mother, you must
come see the daffodils before they are over."
I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to LakeArrowhead. Going and coming
took most of a day--and I honestly did not have a free day until the
following week.
"I will come next Tuesday," I promised, a little reluctantly,
on her third call. Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had
promised, and so I drove the length of Route 91, continued on I-215, and
finally turned onto Route 18 and began to drive up the mountain highway.
The tops of the mountains were sheathed in clouds, and I had gone only
a few miles when the road was completely covered with a wet, gray
blanket of fog. I slowed to a crawl, my heart pounding. The road becomes narrow
and winding toward the top of the mountain. As I executed the hazardous
turns at a snail's pace, I was praying to reach the turnoff at Blue Jay
that would signify I had arrived.
When I finally walked into Carolyn's house and hugged and greeted
my grandchildren. I said, "Forget the daffodils,
Carolyn! The road is invisible in the clouds and fog, and there is nothing in
the world except you and these darling children that I want to see bad enough
to drive another inch!" My daughter smiled calmly, "We drive in
this all the time, Mother."
"Well, you won't get me back on the road until it
clears--and then I'm heading for home!" I assured her. "I was hoping
you'd take me over to the garage to pick up my car. The mechanic just called,
and they've finished repairing the engine," she answered.
"How far will we have to drive?" I asked cautiously.
"Just a few blocks," Carolyn said cheerfully.
So we buckled up the children and went out to my car. "I'll drive,"
Carolyn offered. "I'm used to this." We got into the car, and she
began driving. In a few minutes I was aware that we were back on the
Rim-of-the-World road heading over the top of the mountain. "Where are we
going?" I exclaimed, distressed to be back on the mountain road in the
fog.
"This isn't the way to the garage!"
"We're going to my garage the long way," Carolyn smiled, "by way
of the daffodils."
"Carolyn," I said sternly, trying to sound as if I were still the
mother and in charge of the situation,
"please turn around. There is nothing in the world that I want to
see enough to drive on this road
in this weather."
"It's all right, Mother," she replied with a knowing grin. "I
know what I'm doing. I promise, you will never forgive yourself if you miss this
experience." And so my sweet, darling daughter who had never given me a
minute of difficulty in her whole life was suddenly in charge -- and she was
kidnapping me! I couldn't believe it. Like it or not, I was on the way to see
some ridiculous daffodils -- driving through the thick, gray silence of the
mist-wrapped mountaintop at what I thought was risk to life and limb. I
muttered all the way.
After about twenty minutes we turned onto a small gravel road that
branched down into an oak-filled hollow on the side of the mountain. The Fog
had lifted a little, but the sky was lowering, gray and heavy with
clouds. We parked in a small parking lot adjoining a little stone church. From
our vantage point at the top of the mountain we could see beyond us, in the
mist, the crests of the San
Bernardino range like the dark, humped
backs of a herd of elephants. Far below us the fog-shrouded valleys, hills, and
flatlands stretched away to the desert. On the far side of the church I saw a
pine-needle-covered
path, with towering evergreens and manzanita bushes and an
inconspicuous, hand-lettered sign
"DaffodilGarden."
We each took a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path
as it wound through the trees. The mountain sloped away from the side of the
path in irregular dips, folds, and valleys, like a deeply creased
skirt. Live oaks, mountain laurel, shrubs, and bushes clustered in the folds,
and in the gray, drizzling air, the
green foliage looked dark and monochromatic. I shivered. Then we turned a
corner of the path, and I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most glorious
sight, unexpectedly and completely splendid. It looked as though someone had taken
a great vat of gold and poured it down over the mountain peak and
slopes where it had run into every crevice and over every rise. Even in the
mist-filled air, the mountainside was radiant, clothed in massive drifts and
waterfalls of daffodils.
The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns, great ribbons and
swaths of deep orange, white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, saffron, and
butter yellow. Each different-colored variety ( I learned later that there were
more than thirty-five varieties of daffodils in the vast display) was planted
as a group so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique
hue.
In the center of this incredible and dazzling display of gold, a great
cascade of purple grape hyacinth flowed down like a waterfall of blossoms
framed in its own rock-lined basin, weaving through the brilliant
daffodils.
A charming path wound throughout the garden. There were several resting
stations, paved with stone and furnished with Victorian wooden benches
and great tubs of coral and carmine tulips. As though this were not
magnificence enough, Mother Nature had to add her own grace note -- above
the daffodils, a bevy of western bluebirds flitted and darted, flashing their
brilliance. These charming little birds are the color of sapphires with breasts
of magenta red. As they dance in the air, their colors are truly like jewels
above the blowing, glowing daffodils.
The
effect was spectacular. It did not matter that the sun was not shining. The
brilliance of the daffodils was like the glow of the brightest sunlit day.
Words, wonderful as they are, simply cannot describe the incredible beauty of
that flower-bedecked mountain top. Five acres of flowers! (This too I
discovered
later when some of my questions were answered.) "But who has done
this?" I asked Carolyn. I was overflowing with gratitude that she brought
me - even against my will. This was a once-in-a-lifetime
experience. "Who?" I asked again, almost speechless with wonder,
"and how, and
why, and when?"
"It's just one woman," Carolyn answered. "She lives on the
property. That's her home." Carolyn pointed to a well-kept A-frame
house that looked small and modest in the midst of all that glory. We
walked up
to the house, my mind buzzing with questions.
On the patio we saw a poster. " Answers to the Questions I Know You Are
Asking" was the headline. The first answer was a simple one. "50,000
bulbs," it read. The second answer was, "One at a time, by one woman.
Two hands, two feet, and very little brain." The third answer was,
"Began in 1958."
There it was. The Daffodil Principle. For me that moment was a life-changing
experience. I thought of this
woman whom I had never met, who, more than thirty-five years before, had begun
-- one bulb at a time -- to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure
mountain top. One bulb at a time. There was no other
way to do it. One bulb at a time. No shortcuts -- simply loving the slow
process of planting.
Loving
the work as it unfolded. Loving an achievement that grew so slowly and that
bloomed for only three weeks of each year. Still, just planting one bulb at a
time, year after year, had changed the world.
This unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she
lived. She had created something of ineffable magnificence, beauty, and
inspiration. The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest
principle of celebration: learning to move toward our goals and desires one
step at a time -- often just one baby-step at a time -- learning to love the
doing, learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces
of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can
accomplish magnificent things.
We can change the world.
"Carolyn," I said that morning on the top of the mountain as we left
the haven of daffodils, our minds and hearts still bathed and bemused by
the splendors we had seen, "it's as though that remarkable woman
has needle-pointed the earth! Decorated it. Just think of it, she planted
every single bulb. For more than
thirty years. One bulb at a time! And that's the only way this garden could be
created. Every individual bulb had to be planted. There was no way of
short-circuiting that process. Five acres of blooms. That magnificent
cascade of hyacinth! All, all, just one bulb at a time." The thought of it
filled my mind. I was suddenly overwhelmed with the implications of what I had
seen.
"It makes me sad in a way," I admitted to Carolyn. "What
might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five
years ago and had worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all those
years. Just think what I might have been able to achieve!" My wise
daughter put the car into gear and summed up the message of the day in her
direct way. "Start tomorrow," she said with the same knowing smile
she had worn for most of the morning.
Oh, profound wisdom! It is pointless to think of the lost hours of
yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson a celebration instead of a cause
for regret is to only ask, "How can I put this to use tomorrow?" I
also learned on that gray and golden morning what a blessing it is to have a
child who is not a child anymore but a woman - perceptive and loving beyond her
years -- and to be humble in that awareness.
Thank you, Carolyn. Thank you for lessons of that unforgettable morning. Thank
you for the gift of the
daffodils.
by: Jaroldeen Asplund Edwards
Those who bring
sunshine into the lives of
others, cannot keep it from themselves.
I want to discover the power within to manifest my
true self in the world.Reiki has had a profound effect on me. Interested in
concepts of "the secret." Meshelle Thx
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---------- Forwarded message ---------- From: Dayawanti D'Sa <dayawanti@...> Date: Nov 17, 2007 9:22 PM
Subject: [PIVOTinJoy] LOA & The Law of Attraction Quotes
To: PIVOTinJoy@yahoogroups.com
This
Abraham-Hicks book presents the powerful basics from the original dialog
between Abraham and Jerry Hicks. From these Teachings of Abraham, Abraham
(speaking through Esther Hicks) first revealed how all things, wanted and
unwanted, are brought to you by this most powerful Law of the Universe: the Law of Attraction (that which is like
unto itself is drawn). You've most likely heard the sayings "Like attracts
like," or "It is done unto you as you believe" (a belief
is only a thought you keep thinking); and although the Law of Attraction has been alluded to
by some of the greatest teachers in history, it has never before been explained
in as clear and practical terms as it is here.
You'll
learn about the omnipresent Laws
that govern this Universe and how to make them work to your advantage. The
knowledge that you'll absorb from reading Abraham's wisdom will take all the
guesswork out of daily living. You'll finally understand just about everything
that's happening in your own life, as well as the lives of those you're
interacting with; and you will find out how you can joyously be, do, or have
anything that you desire!
Law of Attraction says, "That which is like unto itself is
drawn."
Once you activate a vibration within you,
Law of Attraction
begins responding to that vibration, and you're off and
running—whether it's something wanted or unwanted.
Law of Attraction abounds, and when it is said to you, "Ask, and it is
given," there is no more powerful statement that is at the basis of
what makes things happen.
Everything is valid and everything is truthful, because
Law of Attraction lets
everything be.
Within the seed of your desire is everything necessary
for it to blossom to fulfillment, and Law of Attraction is
the engine that does the work.
If you will relax and allow Law of Attraction
to do the
organization, the managing, then you can spend your time doing the
things that please you.
Law
of Attraction Quotes
Excerpted from the workshop in North Los Angeles, CA
on Sunday, August 18th, 2002
says, "That which is like
unto itself is drawn." Vibrations are always matched. So, as you
experience the contrast which inspires the new desire, this new desire,
whether it is a strong one or a soft one, is summoning unto itself
proportionately. And as it summons, it is always answered. It is the basis of
our Universe: When it is asked, it is always given. Humans think they are
asking with their words, or even with their action, and sometimes you are,
but the Universe is not responding to your words or your action. The Universe
is responding to your vibrational calling. --- Abraham Excerpted from the workshop in Cincinnati, OH
on Saturday, July 15th, 2000
, and when it is said to
you, "Ask, and it is given," there is no more powerful statement
that is at the basis of what makes things happen than that. Now, how is it
that you think you ask? With your words? The Universe doesn't hear your
words. You ask with your desire. The desire that is born out of the contrast.
That desire. That wanting. That's what summons the Life Force. --- Abraham Excerpted from the workshop in Seattle, WA
on Sunday, June 21st, 1998
says, "That which is like
unto itself is drawn." Which means vibrations are always matched. So as
you experience the contrast which inspires the new idea within you, this new
idea --this desire -- whether it is a strong one or a soft one, is
summoning unto itself proportionately. And as it summons, it is always
answered. It is the basis of our Universe: When it is asked, it is always
given. The confusion that humans feel is that they think they are asking with
their words -- or even with their action -- and sometimes you are. But the
Universe is not responding to your words or your action. The Universe is
responding to your vibrational calling. --- Abraham Excerpted from the workshop in Cincinnati, OH
on Saturday, July 15th, 2000
is Universal, and every person is affected by it. And it is always true that
what I think and what I feel and what I get are always a match, and there is
not a person on the planet that did not know that when they were born, and
there is not a person on the planet that would not benefit by knowing it. But
many, many, many are not yet asking and therefore are not yet ready for the
answer. And so, we would say that -- although everyone wants this information
-- everyone is not necessarily ready for it. We would not spend any time
trying to convince anybody of anything because if they're not asking, your
answers are just irritating. --- Abraham Excerpted from the workshop in San Diego, CA
on Saturday, February 7th, 1998
I'm a therapist working with children and families
that frequently come from different immigrant populations.
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Welcome, ribbitriff!
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I am learning quauntum biofeedback right now, and am
very intersted in meeting other people in similar fields
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Comment from user:
I am looking for ways to deal with all kinds of emotional and financial
stress. I've turned to unhealthy methods for far too long.
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flow by cultivating flexibility, openess and allows
an easier melting of the ego in the I Am Presence.I will enjoy joining a group
sharing the same ideas
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Welcome to our group, de_deyn !
This group, TheAllowanceoftheFlow@yahoogroups.com,
is dormant for now, and we are doing all the sharing on the group, In_Joy, so
if you haven’t already joined, please do so now, and send in your messages
there.
Looking forward to your intro on the In_joy group.
Our group has joined forces
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for November 2007 – it’s an experiment to combine all the groups -
and all the action is happening there, so please join, and send in your intro
there.
I practice EFT, TAT, Psych-K, Emotrance, Reiki.. I
am always interested in sharing with others all the ways we transform ourselves
and our lives In_Joy
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This group is dormant this
month.
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for November 2007 – it’s an experiment to combine all the groups -
and all the action is happening there, so please join, and send in your intro
there.
Hello,
The following person would like to join the TheAllowanceofTheFlow group:
Email address: zen_q7 <zen7@...>
Comment from user:
I am intrigued by the group description and want to know more.
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Email address: sugmadsugmad <floyd788@...>
Comment from user:
I am a man of 75 years and am depressed all the time...floyd
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Floyd, this group, TheAllowanceofTheFlow, is dormant for the month of
November, as we are trying an experiment to combine all the One University
groups into one this month, but why don't you join the active groups,
In_Joy-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
And Well-BeingAbounds-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
Well-BeingAbounds group - the message archives - will give you more info on
Pure Trim, which has helped several people I know with depression, although
one cannot generalize or make claims. It has 5HTP in it, which is helpful
and supportive.
Please join, In_Joy, and send in your intro there.
Warmly,
Dayu
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