A shout out to all of my dread-loc sistah's and brotha's out there. My friends
daughter had her loc's done by someone and they have come loose and she will be
in Illinois over the next two weeks and would like to have her locs done.
Please help her out. My hair is loc-ed and has been for the past 7years. I would
love to loc her hair but unfortunately I have a writing project that I must
complete and will not be able to do it. (I'm an author) Please leave your
response via my twitter page so she can see it and reply. She is not a member of
our group here. I thank you all so very much in advance!
http://twitter.com/#search?q=denatyson

I have been recently introduced to Jojoba Butter. I saw some at a
health food store I visited earlier today. I've never heard of it
before-It is 100% pure jojoba oil processed to be in a "butter" form.
They had a sample jar and I tried a little bit of it.

It is very creamy and soft, much more so than cocoa butter. It felt
like softened shea butter. It was white in color and didn't have much
of a smell. It was very rich and a little bit went a long way.

With the cold weather fast approaching, I thought that it might be good
for my skin.

After some research- here is what I found out....


Jojoba Butter

Jojoba Oil is the most similar to sebum, the protective secretion from
the skin's sebaceous glands. Sebum lubricates and protects skin and
hair. Jojoba provides similar benefits and is now available in butter
form.

This natural butter is expeller-pressed from the fruit (nut) of the
jojoba plant. This odorless butter makes it an ideal base for hair
conditioners and suntan lotions.

Jojoba Butter contains protein, minerals, natural tocopherol, high
content of eicosenoic acid, and long chain monounsaturated fatty acids,
as well as a waxy substance similar to collagen. Hypo-allergenic and
pure, Jojoba Butter is perfect for any skin type.

Common uses of Jojoba Butter

Creams
Lotions
Soaps
Pomades
After-Sun Creams and Lotions
Sun Protection Products
Hair Conditioners
Benefits of Jojoba Butter

Reduces wrinkles and stretch marks
Helps lighten and heal scars
Acts as a humectant by creating a protective film over skin and hair
shaft that seals in moisture
Dissolves clogged pores and returns skin to natural pH balance
Penetrates pores and hair follicles rapidly to reduce water loss
Feels non-greasy
Aids spread ability and lubricity
Effective conditioner, moisturizer, and softener for skin and hair
Jojoba Butter

(Simmondsia Chinensis)

Jojoba Butter (Oil) comes from a shrub that grows well in the arid and
semi-dry regions of southern California, Arizona, and northwest Mexico.

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Posted By Miss Sixx to Au Naturale by Miss Sixx at 12/06/2009 06:39:00
PM

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How can Shea Butter benefit me?

Shea Butter can provide relief from everything from just dry skin to
many minor dermatological diseases (if you have a serious skin
condition, you should see a doctor). It has been clinically shown to
provide benefits. Here are some of the benefits of Shea Butter for the
skin:


Daily skin moisturizer (face and body)
Dry skin relief
Dry scalp

Skin rash- including diaper rash
Skin peeling, after tanning
Blemishes and wrinkles
Itching skin due to dryness
Sunburn
Shaving cream to reduce razor irritation
Small skin wounds
Skin cracks
Soften tough skin on feet (especially heels)
Stretch mark prevention during pregnancy
Minor burns
Eczema
Sun and wind protection
Even skin tone
Reduce blemishes and scarring
Eliminating scalp irritation from dryness or chemical processing
Preventing bumps after shaving
Reducing acne (especially in combination with African Black Soap)
Absorbs quickly without leaving a greasy residue
Helps restore elasticity to skin
Restores luster to hair


How does Shea Butter benefit my skin?

Shea Butter nourishes the skin with Vitamins A, E and F. Vitamins A and
E help maintain the skin and keep it clear and healthy. They are
particularly helpful for sun damaged skin. They help prevent premature
wrinkles and facial lines. Vitamin F acts as a skin protector and
rejuvenator. It soothes rough, dry or chapped skin and helps soften dry
or damaged hair. Shea Butter is high in unsaponifiables (a type of
fat). Shea Butter has between 7-12% unsaponifiables. For comparison,
avocado oil, a well known skin conditioner, has between 2-6%. This high
level of unsaponifiables is one of the properties that makes Shea
Butter so invaluable in treating the conditions listed above. Also,
Shea Butter easily penetrates the skin allowing the skin to breathe and
not clogging pores. Shea Butter has a high level of cinnamic acid, a
natural sun screen. So, it provides some degree of protection from the
sun. Shea Butter is also anti-inflammatory making it useful in treating
rheumatism.

While we make no medical claims about our Shea Butter, we do have
anecdotal evidence that it is very useful in treating minor skin
conditions. We have had several customers who have used Shea Butter for
eczema and/or psoriasis and told us it works as well as steroids at a
fraction of the cost and without the side effects. We have a customer
with an allergy to the sun. When she began using our Nubian Heritage
Shea Butter lotion (not even pure Shea Butter), she accidentally
discovered that it prevented the rash she normally would get from even
a small amount of exposure to the sun.

How does Shea Butter benefit my hair?

Shea Butter provides moisture to dry or damaged hair from the roots to
the very tips, repairing and protecting against weather damage, dryness
and brittleness. It also absorbs quickly and completely into the scalp
to rehydrate without clogging pores. It is particularly beneficial for
processed and heat-treated hair. It is an excellent treatment for dry
scalp. It restores luster to damaged hair.

Is all Shea Butter the same?

All Shea Butter is not the same. Shea Butter loses some of its healing
properties as it sits on the shelf, so very old Shea Butter is not as
beneficial. Refining techniques will vary. Highly processed Shea Butter
will not be as effective. Sometimes Shea Butter is mixed with other
ingredients that reduce its benefits. Then, there are those products
that add very little Shea Butter but prominently display "Shea Butter"
on the label. While Shea Butter is not very expensive, you should be
aware of products that claim to provide the benefits of Shea Butter and
sell for very low prices. Many manufacturers are taking advantage of
the Shea Butter buzz by adding a little Shea Butter to a very
inexpensive product implying you can get the benefits of Shea Butter in
their product.


What can I tell by looking at the label?

Ingredients on the label should be listed in the order from the
ingredient that is the most to the least. Therefore, you should look
for Shea Butter products that list Shea Butter early on the list of
ingredients. You should know the ingredients before you buy any Shea
Butter product and should buy from a reputable source. The more Shea
Butter in a product, the greater the likelihood, you will receive the
full benefits of Shea Butter.

What's the difference between raw Shea butter, refined Shea butter and
highly refined Shea Butter?

The differences between raw, refined and highly refined Shea Butter lie
in how the Shea Butter is extracted from the nut and how it is
processed after that. Manual extraction processes leave more of the raw
ingredients in the Shea Butter. After it is extracted, it can be
further refined removing color and impurities that some people don't
like. This further refining can also remove some of the smell. You can
think of the difference between raw Shea Butter and refined Shea Butter
as being similar to the difference between wheat bread and white bread.
Truly raw Shea Butter can even be unfiltered. That is one end of the
spectrum. On the other end, there is Shea Butter that is extracted
using chemicals that is pure white, has no smell and has lost a lot of
its healing properties in the process.

All of our Shea Butter is mechanically extracted. No chemicals (other
than water) are used in the process. Our raw Shea Butter is lightly
filtered. But, retains its natural color and smell. Our Ultra Pure Shea
Butter is refined. It is further processed by being put through clay
filters and the odor is vacuumed out. It retains its healing properties
and moisturizing ability.

Do I want raw Shea Butter or Refined Shea Butter?

This is really a matter of preference. I prefer raw Shea Butter. Unless
you do not like the smell of Shea Butter, I recommend you go with raw.
The more the Shea Butter is processed, the higher the chance some of
the "good stuff" is going to be removed. Certainly, none of the healing
or moisturizing properties of Shea Butter are enhanced by the further
processing to make it white and odorless. If you do not like the smell
of Shea Butter, try to get refined Shea Butter that is refined without
the use of solvents. Or, you could try the East African Shea Butter,
which has a much milder aroma than West African Shea Butter.

What about East African Shea Butter?

There is some confusion as to which shea butter is better, West African
(Vitellaria Paradoxa) or East African (Vitellaria Nilotica). East
African Shea Butter is different from that of the West African
varieties in that it is higher in olein (the liquid part of the Shea
Butter). Because of this, East African Shea Butter is softer and more
fragrant than West African Shea Butter. The product is highly valued
and gives Ugandan women farmers over five times the amount received by
their West African counterparts. East African or Ugandan Shea Butter
has a higher absorption rate due to lower saturated fatty acids. East
African Shea Butter has less vitamin A and less sterols. For a natural
vitamin A cream or to use for prevention of stretch marks, you might
want to use West African Shea Butter. However, if you are looking for
natural, intense moisturize, East African Shea Butter is the way to go.

East African or Ugandan Shea Butter is more rare than West African Shea
Butter and is extremely difficult to find. When you do find it, it is
selling up to the equivalent of $40 per two ounce jar on some websites.
We are pleased that we can offer this premium quality Shea Butter to
you at an extremely competitive price.

Ugandan Shea Butter is excellent for dry knees, elbows, rough hands and
dry scalp. It is especially helpful for dry scalp, dermatitis eczema,
sunburn and as a lip balm.

--
Posted By Miss Sixx to Au Naturale by Miss Sixx at 12/06/2009 05:46:00
PM

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Essential Night Time Routine for Natural Hair
Three Things You Must Do Before Sleeping
© Kimberly Ward

These bedtime procedures are a necessity for keeping natural hair in
optimum condition

Along with the appropriate moisturizer, shampoos, conditioners and
treatment methods, doing the right things before you sleep is important
to ensure your natural afro or curls is well looked after.

Twists or Corn-rows Before Bed

Natural hair doesn't need to be wrapped (using a comb or brush to sweep
the hair around the head into a mound) before bedtime because it
doesn't need to be kept straight. The best way of preserving shape and
keeping hair strands together is to twist the hair in sections or plait
it in corn-rows.

The smaller the twist, the tighter the curls in the morning once they
are loosened, but generally dividing hair into fist-sized sections and
twisting (by diving each section into two and twisting gently but
firmly until you reach the tip) is adequate, as are corn-rows plaited
from the front to the back of the head. Both styles keep the hair in
shape rather than splayed out all over your head.

In the morning, separating the twists or corn-rows with your fingers is
preferable to combing it out. The less use of combs and brushes the
better as these can pull out natural hair which is very delicate.

Moisturize Both the Scalp and Ends

Natural hair, especially the ends, needs more moisture than other types
of hair. Dry ends lead to breakage so keeping both the scalp and tips
well-oiled at night is a must. Light oils (olive or avocado oil works
well) are better than thicker ones like Pink Oil, which can just sit on
your hair and make it lank and heavy.


Sparse oiling of the scalp followed by a bit more for the ends of each
of your twists is recommended before bed time. The average sleeping
time of six to eight hours, and the lack of harmful interference from
sunlight or winds means nightly moisturizing is the best time for
giving your hair the nutrients it needs. Repeat the light oiling for
both the scalp and ends in the morning.

Silk Scarves and/or Silk Pillowcases

As you sleep, your hair rubs against the pillow and against itself
which can also lead to breakage. This rubbing can be reduced with the
use of a silk or satin pillowcase because these are made from softer
materials that's kinder to hair than cotton. The hair oils you've put
in is also more likely to remain on your hair if you use silk or satin
pillowcases.

Because natural hair doesn't need to be wrapped, you can twist and
sleep without a scarf, provided you're sleeping on a silk or satin
pillow case. You may, however, choose to wear a scarf as extra
protection, and it'll also ensure smoother hair in the morning.

There may be other night time routines you find work well for your
hair, but doing these three things regularly goes a long way in
managing natural hair.


Article courtesy of Kimberly Ward...

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Hello Ladies,

I'm new to the group. I recently my hair is all natural, right now I'm looking
for suggestion on a good deep conditner. Please help .... other tips are welcome

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Hey All,
Just stopping by to say Hi! Just joined have had dreads for 5 years now.

All natural! wonderful!

This is an EXCELLENT post! You should re-post this on natural hair blogs all
over the I-net. Many Napturals could benefit greatly from this advice,
especially those just starting out.
 
I've been natural since 2000 and I wouldn't trade my journey for anything!




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Thank you, Ms. Sixx. I went natural 4 years ago and after doing some internet
research, I decided to co-wash.  The reason I am still natural today is because
I chose this method.
Everyone's hair is different so I can't say that all black hair needs this, but
I went natural in the past and when my hair reached a certain length, the
tangles caused by harsh shampoos always eventually forced me back to my "cream
addiction".  Unless I want to keep my hair super-short forever, co-washing is
the only way to go for me.

I appreciate the tips.  Most of them, I've sort-of figured out for myself over
time but there are 1 or 2 new ideas I will explore.

It's nice to know that others who are contemplating a return to the natural
state will have some comprehensive guidance on the topic from your email.

Thanks again.
Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile

-----Original Message-----
From: Miss Sixx <missixx1971@...>
Date: Sat, 31 Oct 2009 18:29:07
To: <blacktresses@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: [BlackTresses] [Au Naturale by Miss Sixx] How to Co-Wash Natural Hair

If you wear your hair natural, you are probably familiar with
co-washing, or washing their hair with conditioner only. Conditioner
washing avoids harsh results from frequent washing with shampoos and
helps to keep natural black hair soft and manageable. Co-washing can be
done as often as you'd like, even several times a day (this is a plus
for natural hair wearers in the hot days of summer).

Oftentimes the question of "How do I co-wash my hair?" comes up. The
answer would seem simple, but there are some steps you can take to get
the most benefit from this technique and do it with ease.

* First, find a conditioner that works for your hair type.

* Get to know your ingredients. The long, hard-to-pronounce ingredients
on the label can be overwhelming. But with familiarity, you can learn
to spot which ingredients you want to keep and which you want to avoid.
Ingredients like propylene glycol, cetyl alcohol and panthenol are
common. Search online for ingredients lists. One such list can be found
at http://sci-toys.com/ingredients/ingredients.html.

* Recommended: Purchase an extended shower head/hose. Handheld shower
heads with variable sprays offer the best control for rinsing the hair
and are often well worth the investment.

* Rinse the hair with warm water. Avoid water that is too hot (if it
initially stings the back of your hand, it's too hot). Cleansing
results from the action of water plus cleanser (shampoo and/or
conditioner) and agitation (hand movements through the hair). Warm
water will clean hair well while hot water can be damaging. While
rinsing with water, gently comb your hair with your fingers.

* Apply your conditioner. This can be done in several ways.
Pour a line of conditioner into your hand (as opposed to pouring a
dollop) and apply each line onto parted hair sections. Work the
conditioner from the roots to the tips. Continue until all the hair is
covered.

Squeeze your normal amount of conditioner into a large bowl, preferably
plastic. With the shower head, add water to the bowl and mix the water
and conditioner well with your hands. Bend your head over the bowl.
With a cup or other small container, scoop up some of the mix and pour
it onto your hair. You can then lean further over into the bowl and
wash your hair with your hands directly over the bowl if you'd like.
This allows for even coverage, but note that the conditioner will be
more dilute.

Squeeze your normal amount of conditioner into a large clean spray
bottle and mix with water. Shake well and spray liberally onto the
hair. Again, this mixture will be more dilute than a direct
application. This method is great for those who only have minutes to
spare in the mornings. Make a large batch of diluted conditioner, spray
your hair and rinse out after bathing.

* Comb your hair with a wide-tooth comb with rounded-edge teeth. This
step is optional, as there remains a debate as to whether combing while
wet does more damage to hair than combing while dry. It has been said
that combing while wet can stretch the hair past it's longest point,
thereby causing breakage. However, many who wear their hair natural
report that combing while the hair is fully conditioned is the best
time for them, as the hair is soft and pliable, leading to less
breakage. In either case, comb hair gently by grabbing one small
section at a time. Comb from the TIPS first, ensuring there are no
snags then work your way to the roots. It's ok if you cannot comb from
root to tip in one stroke. The main idea is to ease tangles and
distribute the conditioner evenly.

* Allow the conditioner to set on your hair for at least a few minutes
if possible. Both steam from the shower and the conditioner itself will
work on your hair during this time. Give yourself a nice salt or sugar
scrub while your hair is being conditioned.

* Rinse your hair well, again with warm water. Ease your fingers
through each section while the water flows through to remove any
remaining conditioner.

* Optional: Apply your hair products at this step -- while your hair is
dripping wet. Many naturals swear by this technique and believe the
best absorption is gained at this time. At the least, your product(s)
can be more evenly distributed throughout your hair while it is sopping
wet.

* It's time to dry. Just as with the application, there are several
ways to dry your hair.
Dry with a towel. Avoid rubbing your scalp and hair with a towel at all
costs! Instead, simply dab and pat your hair dry, or grab sections and
squeeze excess water into the towel.
Shake and go. Lay your towel across the back of your shoulders
(lengthwise shoulder to shoulder). Grab the bottom corners of the towel
and raise it up to your head, almost over your head. Think of Batman's
cape raised up as he jumps off a tall building! With the towel raised,
shake your head from side to side (ear to shoulder) and left to right
(like saying no), shaking excess water into the towel. This is what I
call the "no touch" method. Sometimes drying the hair directly with a
towel can remove products you've just applied, even helping to separate
your freshly-formed coils and spirals. You want your coils to group
together to avoid the frizzies. This method is perfect for the warmer
months when you possibly can afford to go longer periods with damp hair.

Blow dry, but with care. When blow drying, the use of a diffuser is
best. A diffuser will spread the heat from your dryer more evenly and
minimize potential heat damage. You can find diffusers at most beauty
supply stores at a minimal cost. If you do not have a diffuser, use the
low heat or cool setting and blow dry from at least six inches from the
furthest part of your hair. Remember, you are not trying to get the
hair bone dry -- just dry enough to style and go out.

In summary, with the above methods you'll find shampooing your hair by
co-washing is a great alternative to traditional shampooing which can
strip your hair of much needed oils and moisture. With just a touch of
practice, getting in and out of the shower with a clean head of hair
will take less time than applying your makeup, and your hair will
benefit greatly from it.

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Posted By Miss Sixx to Au Naturale by Miss Sixx at 10/31/2009 09:25:00
PM

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****Send story to: rizerfall@... subject (hair). Please help me
to get the word out for the need of participants and I thank you in
advance. PLEASE LET HER KNOW THAT YOU SAW THIS POSTED ON AU'NATURALE
BLOG ****


I am a twisted dread wearer and lovin it. I am also an author penning a
book titled "Don't Dread, Dreads" and I need a few people to share
their experience with dreads.

When did you start your dreads and why?

What were the initial reaction/responses of friends, family, and
co-workers?

Did you notice a boost in confidence or any other personality changes?

What do you like or dislike about your hair?

What are the reactions now to your hair?

I will notify all participants of the release date of the book so you
can see your story in print. Send story to: rizerfall@... subject
(hair). Please help me to get the word out for the need of participants
and I thank you in advance.

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Posted By Miss Sixx to Au Naturale by Miss Sixx at 11/02/2009 09:41:00
PM

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Along with the appropriate moisturizer, shampoos, conditioners and
treatment methods, doing the right things before you sleep is important
to ensure your natural afro or curls is well looked after.

Twists or Corn-rows Before Bed
Natural hair doesn't need to be wrapped (using a comb or brush to sweep
the hair around the head into a mound) before bedtime because it
doesn't need to be kept straight. The best way of preserving shape and
keeping hair strands together is to twist the hair in sections or plait
it in corn-rows.

The smaller the twist, the tighter the curls in the morning once they
are loosened, but generally dividing hair into fist-sized sections and
twisting (by diving each section into two and twisting gently but
firmly until you reach the tip) is adequate, as are corn-rows plaited
from the front to the back of the head. Both styles keep the hair in
shape rather than splayed out all over your head.

In the morning, separating the twists or corn-rows with your fingers is
preferable to combing it out. The less use of combs and brushes the
better as these can pull out natural hair which is very delicate.

Moisturize Both the Scalp and Ends
Natural hair, especially the ends, needs more moisture than other types
of hair. Dry ends lead to breakage so keeping both the scalp and tips
well-oiled at night is a must. Light oils (olive or avocado oil works
well) are better than thicker ones like Pink Oil, which can just sit on
your hair and make it lank and heavy. Sparse oiling of the scalp
followed by a bit more for the ends of each of your twists is
recommended before bed time. The average sleeping time of six to eight
hours, and the lack of harmful interference from sunlight or winds
means nightly moisturizing is the best time for giving your hair the
nutrients it needs. Repeat the light oiling for both the scalp and ends
in the morning.

Silk Scarves and/or Silk Pillowcases
As you sleep, your hair rubs against the pillow and against itself
which can also lead to breakage. This rubbing can be reduced with the
use of a silk or satin pillowcase because these are made from softer
materials that's kinder to hair than cotton. The hair oils you've put
in is also more likely to remain on your hair if you use silk or satin
pillowcases.

Because natural hair doesn't need to be wrapped, you can twist and
sleep without a scarf, provided you're sleeping on a silk or satin
pillow case. You may, however, choose to wear a scarf as extra
protection, and it'll also ensure smoother hair in the morning.

There may be other night time routines you find work well for your
hair, but doing these three things regularly goes a long way in
managing natural hair.

--
Posted By Miss Sixx to Au Naturale by Miss Sixx at 11/02/2009 09:05:00
PM

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If you wear your hair natural, you are probably familiar with
co-washing, or washing their hair with conditioner only. Conditioner
washing avoids harsh results from frequent washing with shampoos and
helps to keep natural black hair soft and manageable. Co-washing can be
done as often as you'd like, even several times a day (this is a plus
for natural hair wearers in the hot days of summer).

Oftentimes the question of "How do I co-wash my hair?" comes up. The
answer would seem simple, but there are some steps you can take to get
the most benefit from this technique and do it with ease.

* First, find a conditioner that works for your hair type.

* Get to know your ingredients. The long, hard-to-pronounce ingredients
on the label can be overwhelming. But with familiarity, you can learn
to spot which ingredients you want to keep and which you want to avoid.
Ingredients like propylene glycol, cetyl alcohol and panthenol are
common. Search online for ingredients lists. One such list can be found
at http://sci-toys.com/ingredients/ingredients.html.

* Recommended: Purchase an extended shower head/hose. Handheld shower
heads with variable sprays offer the best control for rinsing the hair
and are often well worth the investment.

* Rinse the hair with warm water. Avoid water that is too hot (if it
initially stings the back of your hand, it's too hot). Cleansing
results from the action of water plus cleanser (shampoo and/or
conditioner) and agitation (hand movements through the hair). Warm
water will clean hair well while hot water can be damaging. While
rinsing with water, gently comb your hair with your fingers.

* Apply your conditioner. This can be done in several ways.
Pour a line of conditioner into your hand (as opposed to pouring a
dollop) and apply each line onto parted hair sections. Work the
conditioner from the roots to the tips. Continue until all the hair is
covered.

Squeeze your normal amount of conditioner into a large bowl, preferably
plastic. With the shower head, add water to the bowl and mix the water
and conditioner well with your hands. Bend your head over the bowl.
With a cup or other small container, scoop up some of the mix and pour
it onto your hair. You can then lean further over into the bowl and
wash your hair with your hands directly over the bowl if you'd like.
This allows for even coverage, but note that the conditioner will be
more dilute.

Squeeze your normal amount of conditioner into a large clean spray
bottle and mix with water. Shake well and spray liberally onto the
hair. Again, this mixture will be more dilute than a direct
application. This method is great for those who only have minutes to
spare in the mornings. Make a large batch of diluted conditioner, spray
your hair and rinse out after bathing.

* Comb your hair with a wide-tooth comb with rounded-edge teeth. This
step is optional, as there remains a debate as to whether combing while
wet does more damage to hair than combing while dry. It has been said
that combing while wet can stretch the hair past it's longest point,
thereby causing breakage. However, many who wear their hair natural
report that combing while the hair is fully conditioned is the best
time for them, as the hair is soft and pliable, leading to less
breakage. In either case, comb hair gently by grabbing one small
section at a time. Comb from the TIPS first, ensuring there are no
snags then work your way to the roots. It's ok if you cannot comb from
root to tip in one stroke. The main idea is to ease tangles and
distribute the conditioner evenly.

* Allow the conditioner to set on your hair for at least a few minutes
if possible. Both steam from the shower and the conditioner itself will
work on your hair during this time. Give yourself a nice salt or sugar
scrub while your hair is being conditioned.

* Rinse your hair well, again with warm water. Ease your fingers
through each section while the water flows through to remove any
remaining conditioner.

* Optional: Apply your hair products at this step -- while your hair is
dripping wet. Many naturals swear by this technique and believe the
best absorption is gained at this time. At the least, your product(s)
can be more evenly distributed throughout your hair while it is sopping
wet.

* It's time to dry. Just as with the application, there are several
ways to dry your hair.
Dry with a towel. Avoid rubbing your scalp and hair with a towel at all
costs! Instead, simply dab and pat your hair dry, or grab sections and
squeeze excess water into the towel.
Shake and go. Lay your towel across the back of your shoulders
(lengthwise shoulder to shoulder). Grab the bottom corners of the towel
and raise it up to your head, almost over your head. Think of Batman's
cape raised up as he jumps off a tall building! With the towel raised,
shake your head from side to side (ear to shoulder) and left to right
(like saying no), shaking excess water into the towel. This is what I
call the "no touch" method. Sometimes drying the hair directly with a
towel can remove products you've just applied, even helping to separate
your freshly-formed coils and spirals. You want your coils to group
together to avoid the frizzies. This method is perfect for the warmer
months when you possibly can afford to go longer periods with damp hair.

Blow dry, but with care. When blow drying, the use of a diffuser is
best. A diffuser will spread the heat from your dryer more evenly and
minimize potential heat damage. You can find diffusers at most beauty
supply stores at a minimal cost. If you do not have a diffuser, use the
low heat or cool setting and blow dry from at least six inches from the
furthest part of your hair. Remember, you are not trying to get the
hair bone dry -- just dry enough to style and go out.

In summary, with the above methods you'll find shampooing your hair by
co-washing is a great alternative to traditional shampooing which can
strip your hair of much needed oils and moisture. With just a touch of
practice, getting in and out of the shower with a clean head of hair
will take less time than applying your makeup, and your hair will
benefit greatly from it.

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Posted By Miss Sixx to Au Naturale by Miss Sixx at 10/31/2009 09:25:00
PM

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In this award winning documentary about African American culture, Chris
Rock asks, "What's your definition of good hair?" The answers are as
varied as the hair itself. One woman interviewed said, "Someone that
looks relaxed and nice. If your hair's nappy, their not happy." Chris
Rock will take you back to your roots. Vanity Fair says Good Hair
is "Hilarious!" Variety claims "Audiences will wig out!"

When Chris Rock’s daughter, Lola, came up to him crying and asked,
“Daddy, how come I don’t have good hair?” Rock, known for making
people laugh, was baffled, and committed to finding the answer for his
little girl.

Rock's fact finding mission catapults him into a multi-country tour
determined to dig deep into black community and cultures. What Rock
discovers is the world of relaxers and straighteners, weaves and
extensions. Celebrities Nia Long, Kerry Washington, Al Sharpton, Maya
Angelou, Ice-T and more, share their personal stories in Good Hair, a
Sundance Festival film.

Speaking of Relaxers and Straighteners, these harsh chemicals -
sometimes referred to as "creamy crack" - are a huge money making
business. It's not unheard of for a treatment costing $5000.00 or more.

Horror stories of chemical burns and hair loss. This practice of
straightening, relaxing and totally changing a black woman's hair has
been described as a "torture session", and one that they put themselves
through time and time again to achieve the perfect look. Sodium
hydroxide can burn through your skin, but these women - and men - are
willing to take the risk.

There are so many pressures for black women to straighten their hair.
The lighter, the brighter, the better, the prettier, they want to go
like this - as Farrah Fawcett swings her head around, her golden mane
flows from one side to the other - that's how some black women perceive
beautiful hair.

Just don't touch the hair! Anyone that has gone through the grueling
process of extensions and expensive weaves, will not want you to touch
it. "Weave sex is awkward, just stay on top," says one woman with a
gorgeous head of hair.

The documentary isn't all serious and straight. Although Good Hair is
downright shocking and truthful in some scenes (it is a documentary
after all), it's also full of Rock's hilarious comments, innuendos and
big-hearted laughs. Human hair is India's biggest export. Rock then
goes on the streets with bags of hair and shouts, "Black Hair! Anyone
want to buy some black hair?" You have to laugh at that, even though
you know where it comes from.

Good Hair will be released in certain cities on Friday, October 9th,
and nationwide on October 23rd.

*Good Hair is the recipient of A Special Jury Prize: U.S. Documentary.

See the official "Good Hair" Trailer here.

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Posted By Miss Sixx to Au Naturale by Miss Sixx at 10/11/2009 08:52:00
PM

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Thank u... I thought it was me... Thanks for the encouragement :)
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

-----Original Message-----
From: "Michelle (dredfoxx)" <dredfoxx@...>

Date: Wed, 30 Sep 2009 11:17:47
To: <BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: Re: [BlackTresses] Newbie


I am a few months short of 7 years, and in spite of what I have read over
the years where people insist that the fuzzies go away, I am convinced that
they DO NOT. Seriously. And as for how long your re-twist lasts, I have
never had it last for more than a week TOPS, and that is ONLY if I do not
work out, get my hair wet or damp or tousle it in any way.

Fact is, my experience is that retwists simply do not last that long but I
guess like everything else it depends and varies from person to person. If
my locs get wet whether it is from water or from sweating while working out,
in maybe 2 days they will look like I have done nothing to them. *shrug*
They are clean but super extra fuzzy.

Like someone else suggested braiding them helps keep them looking styled
even when the roots are no longer super neat and tightly retwisted. As for
your locs in the front...been there done that too. Once you get some length
that problem goes away.

The frustration is part of the process chickie. {{{HUG}}}


On Thu, Sep 24, 2009 at 7:39 PM, <missixx1971@...> wrote:

>
>
> Hi... I'm locked almost two years... I must admit I'm getting frustrated..
> My hair is super curly and my loc always appear frizzy...mainteince ( re
> twist) last only a few days to a week.. And I'm in that in between
> stage...not long enough for a pony tail but looks horrible hanging down (
> the front drops forward like bangs ) sigh...just frustrated...extremely
> frustrated....
> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Yummydread <mzyummydread@... <mzyummydread%40tmail.com>>
>
> Date: Mon, 21 Sep 2009 00:54:26
> To: <BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com <BlackTresses%40yahoogroups.com>>
> Subject: [BlackTresses] Newbie
>
> Hi all I'm new
> I've been locked for about 4 years...
>
> I love it
> Dreaming of Rainbows......
>
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>
>
>


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I am a few months short of 7 years, and in spite of what I have read over
the years where people insist that the fuzzies go away, I am convinced that
they DO NOT. Seriously. And as for how long your re-twist lasts, I have
never had it last for more than a week TOPS, and that is ONLY if I do not
work out, get my hair wet or damp or tousle it in any way.

Fact is, my experience is that retwists simply do not last that long but I
guess like everything else it depends and varies from person to person. If
my locs get wet whether it is from water or from sweating while working out,
in maybe 2 days they will look like I have done nothing to them. *shrug*
They are clean but super extra fuzzy.

Like someone else suggested braiding them helps keep them looking styled
even when the roots are no longer super neat and tightly retwisted. As for
your locs in the front...been there done that too. Once you get some length
that problem goes away.

The frustration is part of the process chickie. {{{HUG}}}


On Thu, Sep 24, 2009 at 7:39 PM, <missixx1971@...> wrote:

>
>
> Hi... I'm locked almost two years... I must admit I'm getting frustrated..
> My hair is super curly and my loc always appear frizzy...mainteince ( re
> twist) last only a few days to a week.. And I'm in that in between
> stage...not long enough for a pony tail but looks horrible hanging down (
> the front drops forward like bangs ) sigh...just frustrated...extremely
> frustrated....
> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Yummydread <mzyummydread@... <mzyummydread%40tmail.com>>
>
> Date: Mon, 21 Sep 2009 00:54:26
> To: <BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com <BlackTresses%40yahoogroups.com>>
> Subject: [BlackTresses] Newbie
>
> Hi all I'm new
> I've been locked for about 4 years...
>
> I love it
> Dreaming of Rainbows......
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>
>
>


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Hey Newbie...
Ah!!! To have baby locs!!! I remember the days. Unfortunately, with more loose
coil patterns, it is quite the norm to have the "Halo" as I like to call it. It
will not change regardless of length. I have been maintaining the locs of a
brother who has a halo for 6 years now. He manages to keep it nicely for about a
week before frizzies set in. I suggest that if you are getting your hair palm
rolled, you try a different technique.
Good Luck!
Tonia
Loc'd 6 years strong!
Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile

-----Original Message-----
From: carwillis70x7@...

Date: Mon, 28 Sep 2009 11:45:24
To: <BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: Re: [BlackTresses] Newbie


My suggestion is to be patient through your process, they will look great once
you get a little hang time.  Even with the front hanging in your face, keep
train them to go the direction you want, once you get a little weight they will
hang the way you want.  All in all patience is the key
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

-----Original Message-----
From: missixx1971@...

Date: Thu, 24 Sep 2009 23:39:06
To: Black Tresses<BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: Re: [BlackTresses] Newbie


Hi... I'm locked almost two years... I must admit I'm getting frustrated.. My
hair is super curly and my loc always appear frizzy...mainteince ( re twist)
last only a few days to a week.. And I'm in that in between stage...not long
enough for a pony tail but looks horrible hanging down ( the front drops forward
like bangs ) sigh...just frustrated...extremely frustrated....
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

-----Original Message-----
From: Yummydread <mzyummydread@...>

Date: Mon, 21 Sep 2009 00:54:26
To: <BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: [BlackTresses] Newbie


Hi all I'm new
I've been locked for about 4 years...

I love it
Dreaming of Rainbows......



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Also do you tie your hair every night? This also helps but only use a
silk or satin scarf...do you maintain your own hair or a professional?
When a professional does my hair its good for about a month. My stylist
blow drys my locks  after he twists them.

On Tue, Sep 29, 2009 12:21 am, carwillis70x7@... wrote:
> My suggestion is to be patient through your process, they will look
> great once you get a little hang time. Even with the front hanging in
> your face, keep train them to go the direction you want, once you get a
> little weight they will hang the way you want. All in all patience is
> the key
> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: missixx1971@...
>
> Date: Thu, 24 Sep 2009 23:39:06
> To: Black Tresses<BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
> Subject: Re: [BlackTresses] Newbie
>
> Hi... I'm locked almost two years... I must admit I'm getting
> frustrated.. My hair is super curly and my loc always appear
> frizzy...mainteince ( re twist) last only a few days to a week.. And
> I'm in that in between stage...not long enough for a pony tail but
> looks horrible hanging down ( the front drops forward like bangs )
> sigh...just frustrated...extremely frustrated....
> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Yummydread <mzyummydread@...>
>
> Date: Mon, 21 Sep 2009 00:54:26
> To: <BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
> Subject: [BlackTresses] Newbie
>
> Hi all I'm new
> I've been locked for about 4 years...
>
> I love it
> Dreaming of Rainbows......
>
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>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>
>
Dreaming of Rainbows......

After u twist your hair..braid it...it stays longer

On Mon, Sep 28, 2009 7:26 am, missixx1971@... wrote:
> Hi... I'm locked almost two years... I must admit I'm getting
> frustrated.. My hair is super curly and my loc always appear
> frizzy...mainteince ( re twist) last only a few days to a week.. And
> I'm in that in between stage...not long enough for a pony tail but
> looks horrible hanging down ( the front drops forward like bangs )
> sigh...just frustrated...extremely frustrated....
> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Yummydread <mzyummydread@...>
>
> Date: Mon, 21 Sep 2009 00:54:26
> To: <BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
> Subject: [BlackTresses] Newbie
>
> Hi all I'm new
> I've been locked for about 4 years...
>
> I love it
> Dreaming of Rainbows......
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>
>
Dreaming of Rainbows......

My suggestion is to be patient through your process, they will look great once
you get a little hang time.  Even with the front hanging in your face, keep
train them to go the direction you want, once you get a little weight they will
hang the way you want.  All in all patience is the key
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

-----Original Message-----
From: missixx1971@...

Date: Thu, 24 Sep 2009 23:39:06
To: Black Tresses<BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: Re: [BlackTresses] Newbie


Hi... I'm locked almost two years... I must admit I'm getting frustrated.. My
hair is super curly and my loc always appear frizzy...mainteince ( re twist)
last only a few days to a week.. And I'm in that in between stage...not long
enough for a pony tail but looks horrible hanging down ( the front drops forward
like bangs ) sigh...just frustrated...extremely frustrated....
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

-----Original Message-----
From: Yummydread <mzyummydread@...>

Date: Mon, 21 Sep 2009 00:54:26
To: <BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: [BlackTresses] Newbie


Hi all I'm new
I've been locked for about 4 years...

I love it
Dreaming of Rainbows......



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[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

Hi... I'm locked almost two years... I must admit I'm getting frustrated.. My
hair is super curly and my loc always appear frizzy...mainteince ( re twist)
last only a few days to a week.. And I'm in that in between stage...not long
enough for a pony tail but looks horrible hanging down ( the front drops forward
like bangs ) sigh...just frustrated...extremely frustrated....
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

-----Original Message-----
From: Yummydread <mzyummydread@...>

Date: Mon, 21 Sep 2009 00:54:26
To: <BlackTresses@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: [BlackTresses] Newbie


Hi all I'm new
I've been locked for about 4 years...

I love it
Dreaming of Rainbows......



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Hi all I'm new
I've been locked for about 4 years...

I love it
Dreaming of Rainbows......

thank you.  this was really helpful. i'll try the soap. i have a lot of hair

Many new naturals are left with a counter full of products for relaxed
hair that no longer work on their newly chemical free tresses. One of
the most common questions I hear is: “What products will keep my
natural hair soft and moisturized?” Well below are a few fav's that are
easy on the pockets and easy to use..

Carol’s Daughter

Carol’s Daughter is one of the most prominent names in natural hair
care products, and with good reason. The company produces high quality,
nature based products for hair and skin. Recently, Will Smith, Jada
Pinkett-Smith and others invested 10 million dollars in the company,
which has led to an expanded product line and more advanced website.

My favorite Carol’s Daughter product is Healthy Hair Butter, which is a
soft creamy hair dress based in shea butter and almond oil, with
lavender, ylang ylang, and rosemary essential oils. It smells heavenly,
enhances the natural coil of the hair, and keeps it soft. It also
provides a gentle hold that will keep your style in place all day.
Apply a small amount to damp hair and massage in for best results.

Other Carol’s Daughter products to try: Tui Hair Oil, Hair Milk

Healthy Hair Butter - $12.50
Tui Hair Oil - $8.00
Hair Milk - $10.00
www.CarolsDaughter.com
Oyin Handmade

Oyin Handmade is an up and coming natural hair and skin product
producer, which is quickly gaining popularity among naturals. The
company’s down to earth presentation and personal touch account for
much of its appeal – but the products are also unique and what’s
better, they work!

initially tried a sample of Greg Juice on my locs, and it was the first
product that was able to keep my ultra dry hair moisturized. It is
based in spring water, glycerin, and aloe, and kicked up with an
essential oil blend that will have your hair smelling great and feeling
soft. The product is free of carrier oils, so it is a great alternative
for those who find that oils don’t work well with their hair. Greg
Juice also works best when sprayed on damp hair, and a little goes a
long way.

Other Oyin Handmade products to try: Honey Hemp Conditioner, Shine &
Define Styling Serum

Greg Juice - $9.00
Honey Hemp Conditioner - $9.00
Shine & Define Styling Serum - $5.50
www.OyinHandmade.com
Burt’s Bees

Take one look at the funny looking guy with the scruffy beard on most
of Burt’s Bees products, and you may not guess that this line of
products works great for black natural hair. Upon closer inspection,
the line includes several products that are well suited for the
chemically challenged.

The Rosemary Mint Shampoo bar is perfect for those of us with thick
hair and a lot of it. It provides much better control than liquids that
end up all over the bathtub floor, and allows you to get into all the
little nooks and crannies between your coils, locs, or braids. It’s 99%
natural, and the peppermint acts as a scalp stimulator and aromatherapy
experience all in one. You may need to use this shampoo bar a few times
to get the full effect, as it will gradually remove all of the product
build up that may be in your hair. It will leave your hair just about
squeaky clean, so follow up with a light oil to rehydrate your coils.

Other Burt’s Bees products to try: Super Shiny Grapefruit and Sugar
Beet Shampoo and Conditioner

Rosemary Mint Shampoo Bar - $6.00
Super Shiny Grapefruit and Sugar Beet Shampoo - $8.00
Super Shiny Grapefruit and Sugar Beet Conditioner - $8.00
www.BurtsBees.com

When you are newly natural, you may have to try many different products
to find out what works best on your unique tresses. This process can be
frustrating, but it doesn’t have to be. Look at it as a fun and
exciting part of your natural journey - the above suggestions are a
great place to start. Try purchasing sample packs from websites or
stores, so that you can try small quantities of various products as you
determine what works best for you. Visit www.Nappturality.com’s Swap
and Sell Board for discounted or free-to-swap products. Enjoy, and try
not to become a product junkie!

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Posted By Miss Sixx to Au Naturale by Miss Sixx at 9/12/2009 02:53:00 PM

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