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Re: Monique and the Mango Rains - let the discussion be gin!   Message List  
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Re: [BOLDBookClub] Monique and the Mango Rains - let the discussion be gin!

As many of you know, I'm living in Tanzania now so this book just happens to really be in my close reality.

I completely understand seeing the book as depressing - in many ways that's what I thought when I began reading it and it's true it's not uplifting especially since Monique dies at the end (I hate sad endings!), but that's the reality of birth today in the developing world. Here in Tanzania 46% of women have no skilled birth attendant at their birth. Safety is a HUGE issue. Mothers and children die every day many times simply because no one was around or had supplies to stop excessive bleeding, etc.

I just lvoed the friendship aspect of this book as well. It's so rare that a white well-off woman and a poor black woman have been written about in terms of a friendship. This touched my heart.

The book also inspired me to make sure all mothers birth experiences are listened too throughout the world.

Karen

On 8/1/07, Jillian De Moya <joyfulbirthjourneys@...> wrote:

I also appreciate the exposure to a way of life where there is very little by way of American standards.  I lived and was a doula along the TX - MX border for a few years and the poverty was at times extreme.  But the love and the spirit of the people were inspirational at times. 
 
I of course also am so glad for the resources that are available here in our society, but I have always been thankful to have experienced and seen a different, and simplier way of life.
 
Jillian

 
On 7/27/07, firedog31@... < firedog31@...> wrote:

Right, it was certainly heartbreaking (and ironic) that her death was during childbirth, of all
things. But although the impovished setting was absolutely depressing, it inspired me, too. I
realize how much I take for granted in my own life. After each chapter I set the book down,
look around and see how much Stuff--CRAP I have in my house. The book was beautiful. I
appreciate the exposure to other ideas and ways of life. I have 2 children who have no idea
what it's like to be really hungry or really sick. It's embarrassing that I shop for preschools for
my 2 year-old when so many people in Mali go their lifetimes without any (or have very little)
schooling. I am grateful for the beautiful & eye-opening read.





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Karen Brody
founder/playwright
www.birthonlaborday.com
BEBOLD!

Wed Aug 1, 2007 12:27 pm

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Right, it was certainly heartbreaking (and ironic) that her death was during childbirth, of all things. But although the impovished setting was absolutely...
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I also appreciate the exposure to a way of life where there is very little by way of American standards. I lived and was a doula along the TX - MX border for...
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As many of you know, I'm living in Tanzania now so this book just happens to really be in my close reality. I completely understand seeing the book as...
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