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Re: "Suggested"

I think that word was inserted because there was no written program
of action until the Big Book was written. In essence I believe they
are telling us that this is the way we have recovered and we suggest
this as a program of action that has worked for a hundred of us.

Suggest can be a tricky word. A suggestion is a subtle command. It
is also important to note that there are no other alternative
methods offered. Much like "I suggest that the parachute be employed
in advance os striking the ground", we suggest this course of action
to ensure recovery.

Jim

--- In BBS_Open_Discussion@yahoogroups.com, mike murf
<evilwop66@y...> wrote:
> This is my first time sharing is this or any other group. I hope
that I am sending this out right. if not i will need instructions.
>
> I agree that it is better as a suggestion rather than as a
presuption that "This is it witten in stone". As w/ many things the
12 steps are timeless yet are still subject 2 time, as we learn more
about the human mind, body, and spirit and the effect that this
desease has on us, so should the 12 steps reflect this knowlage as
to be more effective in our lives and if possable to be easier to
swallow for the newcommer.
>
>
mike m.
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This is my first time sharing is this or any other group. I hope that I am sending this out right. if not i will need instructions. I agree that it is better...
mike murf
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Jul 7, 2003
6:36 pm

I think that word was inserted because there was no written program of action until the Big Book was written. In essence I believe they are telling us that...
Jim K.
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Jul 7, 2003
7:33 pm

hi jim as you may know i never was a one for the big book as i feel that it is what kept me away from aa,.,.as every ime i came to aa i was so...
Michael Heery
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Jul 7, 2003
9:22 pm

What? An order?.... I can't go through with it!. ... Peace, Danny S ... suggest ... employed ... action ... the ... more...
Danny S
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Jul 9, 2003
4:35 am

... way Bob and Bill did we HAVE to do it like the book says..When one jumps out of an airplane it is suggested to pull the rip cord.PS I also was attracted to...
leonard clark
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Jul 7, 2003
10:07 pm

Hey mike M, Your notion that you think we can modify the 12 steps to fit current science only tells me you have no clue about the 1st step. AA should never...
felswardo
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Jul 8, 2003
7:02 pm

hi an old guy 29 yrs sober came to my house and was selling telephones systems thru/aa, and he was talking about members , i was...
Michael Heery
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Jul 8, 2003
9:33 pm

Hi Mike, Take it easier, friend. You don't have to swallow this whole thing all at once. I didn't. Hardly any of us have. You sound just like I did. Before you...
Danny S
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Jul 9, 2003
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hi danny i just see a few new comers that i encouraged to come to the meetings and id i said read the book they would shoot me ,.,.one...
Michael Heery
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Jul 9, 2003
10:20 am

LOL. I hear ya pal. Screw those guys. Don't let ANYONE do your Big Book reading for you, Mike. You're entitled to you OWN experience. Besides, there's no ...
Danny S
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Jul 9, 2003
2:47 pm

hi danny i am a very quite person and all my life i have listened to others tell me where im wrong and i just shrugged , ,i just gave...
Michael Heery
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Jul 9, 2003
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Once again, someone complaining about AA's recovery rate today...AA's recovery rate is abysmal today...not because of any change in AA, but because we have ...
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Jul 8, 2003
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This is just a notion of mine. I'm sure I'm not the originator though. But if "we who have recovered", continue to carry the message in meetings, AA should...
Danny S
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Jul 9, 2003
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Hi Mike. Welcome. This is a very useful Group. Hope you enjoy it as much as I have been. Peace. Danny S ... that I am sending this out right. if not i will...
Danny S
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Jul 9, 2003
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There's no guarantee that we WILL by Happy, Joyous and Free? Well, why bother? Will we be that way 24 hours a day, 7 days a week? The only people I know who...
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Jul 9, 2003
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Why bother you ask? Well, what I have come to learn is that there is only ONE reason, and that is to have a spiritual experience so that we may be of maximum...
Danny S
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Jul 10, 2003
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Hi Jeff and All, First I apologize for jumping in like this, but after I joined the group I failed to change my HOTMAIL settings and all the "BBS Discussion"...
Ray S.
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Jul 10, 2003
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Danny, I am not seeking being happy, joyous, and free...re-read my post. I am happy, joyous, and free. That is a gift from God, given for doing what is laid...
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I see what you're saying in your second post. We just get there! And you say you can't describe it. I know THAT feeling. I have found it to be impossible to...
Danny S
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