In a message dated 9/26/05 10:25:26 AM Central Daylight Time,
zer92781@... writes:

> Why do folks pair up? How
> do they tolerate the tension that I feel when I'm too close for too
> long to anyone?

Lots of single folks arrive at a point in life wherein they
truly desire the closeness of another person. They must accept the tension
of the closeness as a trade off for the loneliness they feel in the single
state. It is a wonderful feeling to be validated and to know that your life
as a person is not just another candle to go out in the wind. This
closeness is an integral part of being validated.

My opinion

HES


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