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Original Message:

Dearest Rubin,
I believe, It's not so much, as to take away
priveleges, as to give an extra reward for a job well
done! ie: Our son was rewarded by his school, to go on
special outings, Camping if He finished all his work.
Love, Hope
--- Rubin  wrote:

> oh I think it's ok to punish and take priveledges
> away, but keep in mind, the lesson(s) learned as a
> result are so extremely short term as to be almost
> worthless..  I think that shouting/bawling them out
> is more effective, longer lasting...even though it
> may depress them for a while.  I think that hitting,
> spanking, is an indication of loss of control by the
> caring parents, and sets an unacceptable role model
> for behavior....and I'm sure of  that negative
> aspect.
>   ----- Original Message ----- 
>   From: ljn330@... 
>   To: AIPL@yahoogroups.com 
>   Sent: Wednesday, August 25, 2004 12:15 PM
>   Subject: Re: [AIPL] New member here
> 
> 
>   what is the reasoning behind their advise not to
> punish or take away privledges?  I agree but my ex
> does not. 
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