Dear Lovmarmike,
Oh, boy, do I know what your going through.
Our eldest son has the condition, He is now 30.
There were times I thaught I might go nuts, but I did
not.
Prayer, and Music "Clasical", have helped a great
deal.
Art and Music togethe, can do wonders.
Motzart, Bach, etc.
As for Your daughter's behavior, it won't rub off.
She's testing to see how far she can get.
Kids do that. this only proves Your daughter is using
her brain. Count Yourself Lucky.
Love, Hope, Friend, in Tecate, CA.
P.S. The State has alot of help for this condition
Now.
www.rainbowhope.com
I thaught You might use a bit of Inspiration. That's
what my webpage is all about.
--- lovmarmike <lovmarmike@...> wrote:

> My stepson is 10 years old and was found to have AS
> when he was very
> little, I have been in this family for almost three
> years and have
> brought my own daughter who is almost 5 with me into
> the family. My
> husband "forgot" to mention when I moved in that is
> son had this
> condition. I thought he had ADD or something, until
> I ask my husband
> about his sons behavior and found out what he really
> had. I dont know
> what to do anymore I feel as if I am going crazy
> trying to help chris
> (my stepson) out. His mother doesnt help the
> situation at all. Mike
> (my husband) doesnt seem to know how to handle it
> either. Chris'
> behavior is starting to rub off on to my daughter,
> and I really
> really do not want that to happen. Chris is a good
> kid some of the
> time but sometimes I want to pack my stuff up and my
> daughter and my
> new baby, and get the hell out of here. I have tried
> so hard with
> chris, trying to be a good stepmom and friend. But
> he crossed the
> line when I caught him and my daughter in her closet
> with her pants
> down. All they did was kiss to her kissing is like
> giving someone a
> kiss goodby or goodnight. To him its different. Mike
> and I sat down
> and talked to chris about why he cant do things like
> this and the
> birds and the bee, and what we thought would help.
> But two months
> later my daughter told me of a second time in his
> closet. And all
> they did was kiss. I wanted so badly to leave, but I
> love Mike and we
> have a baby together. I wanted chris to see a
> counsler but his mom
> wont agree to it. I dont know what to do anymore.
> Chris' mom molested
> one of her siblings when she was little and was also
> molested. Her
> daughter (not from chris' dad) was also molested
> when she was little
> by a friend of the family. I dont want my children
> growing up around
> that and I dont think chris should either, but I
> dont think chris is
> being molested by his mother or at least I hope not.
> Mike is very
> mellow when it comes to all of this and doesnt have
> enough gumption
> to do anything about it so if anyone could give me a
> little advice I
> would really appreciate it. Thanks. Going Crazy
>
>





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