a serious problem has arisen with my son while visiting his father and if you have an information, ideas or suggestions to offer it would greatly be appreciated.  if the topic is offensive to anybody i apologize but it's what we're dealing with.

 

my son, 13, is going to daycamp. he 'dry humped' a counselor in the pool. the pool seems to be the only place where he exhibits inappropriate behavior. needless to say, camp is very upset and i'm not sure what action they plan on taking. they are staffed mostly by teens and know nothing about asperger's.  yeah, yeah i know - it's putting him in an - unfair, dangerous, set him up to fail( take your pick) - environment. I  wouldn't have sent him but it wasn't my choice. 

 

dad is asking me what to do.  since i'm his mom i have no first hand knowledge of male sexual behavior, urges and mind set of male teen minds. keeping him out of the pool is one idea, but he's in florida and camp goes swimming twice a day. 

 

how do you explain that the behavior is bad, but the urges are natural and he isn't "bad"?

any suggestions besides telling him to go to the bathroom and masterbate?

 

any help and experience would be appreciated.  i sure don't want this happening in school.

 

thanls.