the problem is he won't admit to having ADD. He was diagnosed as a kid
and his family doesn't think he should be on medication. Everyone else
thinks he should including me. If not medication find something that
would help him. Noone can have a single conversation with him becuase
he can't pay attention and if he does he interupts to ask about
somthing not related to the conversation. We argue all time over how
when I talk he needs to look at me and try to pay attention but I get
frustrated becuase it never works. We were "making out" and all of a
sudden he jumps up and says "oh my gosh I forgot to do laundry". I got
so mad at him. I try really hard not to and so does are friends and my
family but its getting to the point where we don't talk to each other
so we don't argue. He is in college and not doing very well becuase he
even says I cant pay attention. It takes him SO long to do a simple
assignment. He also was fired at work becuase he couldn't do the
dishes without wandering off to go do something else. I need help. I
have no clue what to do with him and we want to get married in the
next year or two but there is no way I can. I want to be able to talk
to him and him talk to me without us arguing or changing the
conversation 50 times. Please anything would help me.