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Re: [11q_disorders] Aggressive?

Like Jana said, Faith is a biter and a pincher too but most of the time it does not seem to be out of aggression unless she doesn't feel well.  With Faith, we started taking a closer look when she starts doing the biting or pinching and see if it could be she is trying to communicate and find different ways of communicating non verbal and verbal.  Sometimes just babbling to make her feel like you are getting it and alot of times the behavior will subside.  Other times they won't and it is really up to the parent on how you deal with that!
 
I also asked the question at the 11q European Conference in one of the discussion groups and alot of the parents ran into similar things with the biting and the pinching and tried a number of approaches.  The parents of the older kids all said that they finally "grew" out of it.  From their stories it did not seem to matter how the parents deal with it when it goes on but when the child was ready they just stopped the behavior.  Some only did it a short time while others were well into there teens before the behavior stopped. 
 
 
Good luck, we are right there with you on this one.
 
Jeremy


Jana Wells <janabananablue@...> wrote:
Faith does the biting and pinching also, mostly when she doesn't feel well. From what we have learned of the syndrome they are not aggressive, but it is frustration that causes them to act out. I heard this is very common with ANY delayed child as they cannot communicate. Everyone we met said they grow out of the biting stage. I hope soon Faith is almost 3! :)

Erin Kewer <erin.kewer@verizon.net> wrote:
My daughter is 20 months and is very aggressive. Are anyone else’s JS babies aggressive?
Her teacher said that it probably comes with the syndrome. She is a biter and she likes to grab faces when she is mad..
Thanks
Erin
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Faith does the biting and pinching also, mostly when she doesn't feel well. From what we have learned of the syndrome they are not aggressive, but it is...
Jana Wells
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I have to agree with Jana. Nathan does not bite but headbutts. All of his therepist think it is a sensory need. He does not headbutt as often now that he signs...
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I was thinking that I was more of a communication thing. We try to teach her signs which she knows some. She just gets really mad very fast. I try to remove...
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Redirection does not always work with Nathan either although that is my first way of trying to deal with it when he becomes aggressive. Secondly I will massage...
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My son Daniel is 4 and still bites, but it is slacking off in frequency. He mostly does it out of frustration. Another thing that he does is hit himself in the...
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Like Jana said, Faith is a biter and a pincher too but most of the time it does not seem to be out of aggression unless she doesn't feel well. With Faith, we...
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