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RE: [000-Fear-Of-Doctors] have to go, but don't want to

Dear SD-
 
I am helped by these e-mail exchanges.  Thank you, and thank you too Judy.
 
 Before I turned 40 last year, the thought of dying never occurred to me.  As my father died in his late 40's I began to realize my own mortality, and began experiencing symptoms such as headaches, chest tightness etc.  Any normal person would have gone to a doctor and had it checked-- particularly since I come from a genetic cesspool of hear disease, diabetes you name it. 
 
The fear is so consuming and paralysing, that a shrink (for some reason they don't scare me) who I consulted about this specific problem told me that it my phobia was so severe that it would probably take a "major event" to get me to a doctor or hospital. 
 
Like you SD- I also haven't seen a dentist in at least 20 years, and it sure hurts when I eat or drink something cold.
 
One thing is for sure, in my opinion, people without the phobia can't help us.  There are no antidepressants or anxiety pills strong enough to let me have someone take my blood pressure or--god forbid actually draw blood--yes I would rather die.
 
RJS
 
 
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it was so nice to find this site. i feel so much less alone. i too am terrified of going to the doctors. for me, i find the whole process very violating. to...
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Oct 9, 2000
9:07 pm

I wish I could help you...I havent been in 18 years myself... Just know that you are supported in your fear and not alone!! Feel free to email me anytime! Take...
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Oct 10, 2000
11:45 am

Well, you can find or request a female doc, Go to a ladies clinic and request a female, Order what pills you want from England or Holland (Netherlands?), Go to...
S.D.
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Oct 10, 2000
12:39 pm

Dear S.D.-- Please do not take this as any form of criticism of your reply to ncrnation's post. In fact I think your suggestions to her were helpful, ...
R.J.S.
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Oct 10, 2000
2:00 pm

I understand and sympathize with your feelings. It's not only gynecologists. As a male (42 yrs old) I have not been to a doctor in my adult life. I think...
R.J.S.
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Oct 10, 2000
12:55 pm

RJS...... Thank you thank you for putting it into words! I , also mean no criticism to S.D...... Nature taking its course, no matter how you see 'nature', is...
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Oct 10, 2000
2:46 pm

And I don't go either. No, I don't take it badly. I need to be medicated to see a dentist. I don't know why this phobia is not addressed more. We are too...
S.D.
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Oct 10, 2000
6:32 pm

Dear SD- I am helped by these e-mail exchanges. Thank you, and thank you too Judy. Before I turned 40 last year, the thought of dying never occurred to me. As...
R.J.S.
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Oct 10, 2000
7:11 pm

This has really been great for me to hear from all of you. thank you. i too don't go to the Doctor unless it's an emergency. i haven't had a regular physical...
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Oct 12, 2000
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Congratulations on successfully dealing with a medical crisis, the tumor on your spine. My experience with one psych has been very positive. He gave me...
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Oct 16, 2000
11:07 am

I doubt it. But if you did go to a shrink, you could get a special referral, with notes, etc., for the predicament you are in. I wonder if you miscarried or ...
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Oct 14, 2000
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