Hi everyone!
I'm new to the group. It is such a relief to know that I'm not the
only one with a fear of doctors.

I avoid going to the doctor. However with my pregnancy, I only go
for my baby. Before I went to my OB/GYN, I let him know about my
fears and anxieties. He was willing to work with me. Yet lately, I
don't feel the understanding or support. I keep being told to relax
and that it's not a big deal.

I'm at the point that I want to cry every time I think about the
next appointment that I have to go to. When I go, I can't talk
because my throat starts tightening up. I leave feeling like I waste
their time even though I don't ask questions or give them any
information.

This is not giving me alot of confidence in the medical profession
as I know I have to go to the hospital to give birth. Are they going
to treat me the same way? Lately, all these appointments and now
childbirth classes are causing my acid reflux to start again.

I don't think the doctor or nurse understands how hard it is for me
to come. When I do speak up or ask a question, I feel so stupid.

Does anyone have anything that has helped them with the fear and
anxiety of doctors? What works for you to get through the
appointments and exams?

Thanks for any tips!