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Re: [000-Fear-Of-Dentists] Re: So scared to Call the dentist

Hi everyone,
I just wanted to let you know that I have finished having major work done on my mouth after putting if off for 25 years due to fear.  My fear was paralyzing, but I finally got to the point where I was more afraid of health risks due to the condition of my mouth than fear of the dentist!  Let's just say I was VERY pleasantly surprised after my initial appointment.  I wasn't pleased with the list of things that I needed to have done (9 teeth pulled, 2 crowns, 2 root canals, deep cleaning), but the dentist was great and during the initial appointment I had ZERO pain.  They knew how nervous I was so they gave me nitrous before they cleaned my teeth.  It was very relaxing :)  I was going to put out for the remaining procedures, but the dentist assured me that I would have no pain with novocaine and could opt for more nitrous to calm me.  The first process was getting the bad teeth out.  Before he gave me the novocaine (which I was deathly afraid of) he rubbed something on the gum to numb it.  I never felt any of the shots.  The teeth were pulled out 2-3 per visit and I had no pain during or afterwards.  Nothing.  The key is finding a good, compassionate dentist that understands true fear in a patient.  Genie is right.  The fear I had about the unknown was FAR worse than anything I experienced once I finally went to the dentist!  I still don't enjoy going, but I'm finally to the point where I don't mind anymore.  You WILL get to that point too!  Dentistry has come a very long way and should be pain free!
Susan
 
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, January 11, 2009 8:29 PM
Subject: [000-Fear-Of-Dentists] Re: So scared to Call the dentist

Hi Natalie,

I am scared to call the dentist, too, because I KNOW I need major
dental work. I am not afraid of having him poke around in my mouth.
It's the needles and drilling I dread. Just think. Maybe you are
worrying needlessly. Maybe there is nothing seriously wrong with your
mouth after all. If you don't go to the dentist, you won't know for
sure. And, if you get an abscess the way I did, you will be in worse
shape because you'll need antibiotics and an extraction. Try to tell
yourself that it's better to know what is wrong than to imagine the
worst. I really feel for you, though. I am in the position of knowing
that I need major dental work, and I am a scared rabbit because I am
also going through medication withdrawal, so everything scares me these
days.

Hugs,
Genie

--- In 000-Fear-Of-Dentists@yahoogroups.com, "Natalie" <nreid77@...>
wrote:
>
> Hello All,
>
> I have to make a dentist Apt since I haven't been in YEARS and have
> some tooth pain. Probally cavaties or worse. I am SO scared just to
> even have the doctor look at them and poke around. I can't even get
> myself to pick up the phone to call. Is there something they can give
> me so I don't feel ANY pain for my check up? I need to call today,
but
> I am so scared. I wish I could be braver. I wish I could find a
> sedation dentist in my area but its so hard to know who is good in my
> area.
>
> Thanks!
>


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Hello All, I have to make a dentist Apt since I haven't been in YEARS and have some tooth pain. Probally cavaties or worse. I am SO scared just to even have...
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Hiya Natalie, Im John from the www.ofear.com phobia forum and I have just welcomed you and will respond to your post on the forum soon. Im sure you will get...
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Jan 12, 2008
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Hi Natalie, This email group is VERY quiet, but here's a great forum for you to check out: http://www.dentalfearcentral.org/forum/ It's really helped me in...
Susan Thomas
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Jan 12, 2008
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susan, thank u for that link! it is a blessing, and i will pass it onto anyone who has these fears. i wish i had known it years ago...then i would have a...
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Jan 15, 2008
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Natalie, I totally understand! I did not go to a dentist until i was 17, as my parents thought it a waste of money. So, by that time, when i had my own...
dianamagic2000
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Jan 12, 2008
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Diana, how old are you? you are female correct? so how many fillings do you have? any missing teeth? crowns? do you wear a denture yet? full or partial? Craig...
Craig
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Jan 14, 2008
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Diana, That forum gave me the courage to set up my first appointment in 25 years. That in itself is a miracle!! I've read every post on there :) Peace, Susan...
Susan Thomas
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Jan 16, 2008
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Hi Natalie, I am scared to call the dentist, too, because I KNOW I need major dental work. I am not afraid of having him poke around in my mouth. It's the...
Genie Polower
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Jan 12, 2009
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Hi everyone, I just wanted to let you know that I have finished having major work done on my mouth after putting if off for 25 years due to fear. My fear was...
Susan Thomas
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Jan 12, 2009
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Hi Susan, You are so fortunate to have a compassionate dentist. My dentist is very compassionate, too, but he refused to pull my teeth and he sent me to an...
Genie Polower
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